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Dominate does not mean Cruel, Mean, Harsh, Disrespectful, Heavy Handed, or Petty. It means Confidant, Reliable, Solid, and Knowing.
Submissive does not mean Weak, Desperate, Bad, Slutty, or Stupid. It means Respectful, Reliant, and taking pleasure from Serving.
Becoming submissive to someone who has not earned your trust is not being submissive, it is being silly. Trust is the key and it has to be earned. I WILL spank you for breaking my RULES, but I will kick you to the curb for breaking my TRUST.
How could I expect anything less from my PARTNER?
I find the D/s lifestyle to be one of the mind more than the body. I think it is your own job to keep yourself in line with my rules and requirements. As the relationship grows the boundries of acceptable behavior grow more narrow and restrictive. I expect anyone who has submitted to my control to derive more pleasure and satisfaction from conforming to those rules, not less. Punishing you for breaking the rules, because you enjoy a little punishment is one thing, but if I have to kick your ass to keep you in line, I am not interested. If it takes more than a paddle and a stern voice, a person is not submissive, but is instead trying to control their own pleasure. If you submit to me, your sexuality belongs to me and I will direct it
I am very much into oral and anal. I expect my sub to enjoy having me in her mouth for extended periods of time, and most sessions I will take my pleasure from her ass. Head hair makes a powerful handle, I will use it. Not a fan of any other body hair. I am not on a selfish power trip, so I do enjoy returning the oral favor and I will ensure her pleasure, as long as she has earned it.
I am not into "online training", nor am I into long courtships. I will be happy to talk to you on here all you want, but if what I have described here sounds like a relationship you might be interested in, and you need to be sure, then you need to let me know
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