I am seeking D's, switches and/or S's as partners. I've experimented with the lifestyle from time to time, and have played both D and S. I am currently more in the frame of mind of a D, though that could change .

As far as subs go, I love an open minded sub who's willing to let me take her to her limits (or help her find them).

As for D's, I need Mistresses who will be strict and tough, with an understanding of the emotions involved in D/S play. I need to be pushed emotionally and physically, just as I like to push my subs...

I enjoy the emotional dynamics of D/S play and ideally would like someone who is interested in exploring the psychological and emotional side of bondage with me, rather than just as a purely physical relationship.

Vanilla Interests: Football, Chess, Journalism, Politics, History, Science, Cars

I'm looking for women ideally between 20 and 45 years old. I have no preference as far as race or ethnicity is concerned, however if you are of a different cultural background to me it's a plus, as I like diversity. Experience is not a factor.

More about me: I'm a fairly outgoing, laid-back person. I treat my partners with respect and prefer to leave the D/S dynamic for the bedroom alone (ie a near vanilla relationship in daily life). I am a student paying my way through grad school and so have fairly limited financial resources and keep pretty busy.

I'm also looking for friends to discuss D/S stuff with as most (all) of my real life friends are vanilla.

I'm quite intellectual and enjoy an intelligent conversation, so friends are always welcome.