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I am easier to reach on under the same user name or at the following link for those that are on : https://.com/users/2480790
Any thing listed here as in asked in BDSM 1,2, and 3 relate to what I like doing to or with a submissive partner. Not being done to me!!!!!!

I don't do one time play dates or one night stands!

Well I suppose a good about me should include the following the information for any Lady looking to someday become mine, or even get to know me as a friend.

" I think every girl, no matter her age, is a Princess. Yes even if she is my whore, my pet, my slave, or Daddy's Good Girl. What girl doesn't want to be a Princess, or least made to feel like one at times even if she won't admit it? "; yes this is my own personal opinion on the matter. I am sure someone will steal it but then this is life online! :)

Early on the morning of the 11 th., August 2013; I find myself sitting here thinking of an old song, one of the phrases in it, if not the title of the song was:
" Naughty girls need love too! "; Bloody Hell! Just fucking came to me! No seriously, it came to me as I was writing this! It is a song by Samantha Fox, a former Pop Star who had more then one hit wonder off the same album which was her second, and most successful release. Sadly she faded away fairly soon after. Great song! She Was A Hot Little Number as well. Anyhow my Darlings, as this bloke was saying. And you can quote me on this!
" Naughty girls need love too, then again sometimes they Need a sound spanking, and then there are times they simply HAVE TO HAVE a good old fashion HARD FUCK for being so good at being naughty!! "; can you handle that my Little Princess? - wink - A few thoughts from me personally, John Martin.

**Some Of The Things I Am Into And Experienced In Doing And Providing:**

Important to know I only own / play with women. Poly really isn't my thing but did so twice with bisexual women who desired a sister. It should also be known I am Very Used to being in the company of beautiful, intelligent women. Women who are in shape, Yet I don't at all mind a woman with curves and plump in all the " right places " and a pretty face. I LOVE! I MEAN LOVE INTELLIGENT WOMEN! Geek / Nerd Girls turn me on! SERIOUSLY!

So of course I more then a bit Sapiosexual but Hey, what man doesn't find a sexy Ditz to his liking now and again. - wink -

Given that fact that I've been in the BDSM and related Lifestyles since I was a younger teen I have had a lot of time to explore the various aspects of many things and as a young man spent some time in Europe learning more about my Craft and also discovered while there are in fact some very old Formal and Traditional practices concerning it that a lot people these days consider only a myth. I assure they aren't a myth or flights of fancy. I am open to, and very experienced in a number of lifestyles and fetishes relating to BDSM and of course BDSM itself! And I have had enjoyed some of these in more then one 24/7 relationship.

Era Lifestyle from 50's lifestyle to Steam Pink / Victorian Era as well some Western and of Course Turn of Century / 20's and 30's and 40's as well Pin Up Girls and Fashion! These type women are a total on, especially if they are a woman who also posses a beautiful mind!

I LOVE Giving a good old fashioned bare ass spanking. My Hand smacking your sexy bare bottom turning it a nice shade of red or leaving a nice hand print upon it to boot! OTK is the best ever! I have certainly been know to use a paddle made of wood or leather though sometimes I prefer she is bent over while standing for these. Ar times holding their ankles. I've have of enjoyed using many other objects as well. A Bad girls say " God give me another! " yet a " Good Girl says - Please Master, more! "

Pet Play, I am experienced owner / Master. My first was a female wolf pup as I consider my own self a bit of a Lone Wolf. My second, forth and fifth were Kittens! I love an adoring, very loving Kitten as well as Sex Kitten. My third was a Calf, strange to some I know, and I will let you guess what she suckled on to get her milk! ;) She was rather confused it seems to as to what sex actually provided milk for a growing Calf. LOL Simply put she had a HUGE oral fixation, which isn't a bad thing.

Captivity and Rape Play. From both mild to more extreme degrees as I can be quite creative once my Dark Side is allowed it's release. This is only ever done in as they as say " a consensual non-consensual manner " and only with truly interested parties. And captivity isn't always a part of such play. Though in essence if one is raped, she is captive at that point yes? NO I would never actually rape someone!

Cosplay and Role play of all kinds! Need I say more? Victorian / Steam Punk is a favorite of mine, as well as women into the Anime look! I'll met as equal in such, but never as a submissive party in an fashion. LOL unless you are going to tie me up and bring me " nothing " but pure pleasure! Then I " might consider it. - wink - Naughty Nurse and Patient and Doctor Patient, Hooker and John - My name is John - I am very open minded about role play!

Daddy Dom / Daddy - Daughter / Baby Girl / And Age Play - All facets of these lifestyles but not into diaper play and such. So yes I have some limits though few. I AM VERY EXPERIENCED IN THESE AREAS.

Young Girl and Older man dynamics. Hey so what I'm an Dirty Old Man! LOL Most likely so was your father but he never acted on it! I have and will act on it, despite the fact I cherish the company of Very Mature " Women ". So unless it is age play related your level of maturity and intellect matter to me.

Master and Slave, as well as Master and submissive. So of course Bondage and Domination as well as Dominance and submission.

Being a fan of Gor, I have owned Kajira more then once yet I am not as well versed as I'd like even though I know more about the true origins of John Norman's creation of the Kajira compared to the other 98 percent of the fans out there.

I have owned Odalisques, as in the Code d'Odalisque yet have my own twist when it comes to owning an Odalisque as I adore a woman who is equal to the task to such a degree that I even require this from time to time depending on the type of relationship I am in. Simply put, being used to possessing beautiful women I love to admire their beauty at times of course. Both in states of dress and undress, and admit I tend to spoil the lady in my life in all ways, not just the material.

I have been a Sugar Daddy, kept woman / Pets as in submissive / slave women who love to be kept and be their plaything. Believe me or not I am expert on the Lifestyle. I even test ran a Sugar Daddy Personals site that will fully come online toward 2014. I also intend to open other types of personal ad sites, including some of alternative sexual lifestyle and BDSM nature.

**THREE VERY IMPORTANT THINGS TO KNOW ABOUT ME!**

This one doesn't count, but I've been told I posses a bit of confident, arrogant resolve once or twice. Not sure what that means exactly though the tell me this is a good thing!

This one doesn't count either, I am Leo, born the Cancer Leo cusp. So yes, I can quite the romantic, a total flirt, and tease. LOL so being a " Man and a Leo " needless to say stroking my ego and other things - wink - will get you brownie points, but may also land you in my bed, on your knees, or on my rack! - wink wink -

I have 30 plus years in this lifestyle and entered into it at a Very Young age.
I don't cyber Collar or own someone online. I play for real! I will however entertain the idea of taking you as my own for real and willing to Consider someone from online who is serious about making it real within a month or so
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I am a very formal and traditional Dominant that believes in, and practices these traditions as many are far older then you or I, some going back many, many generations; some others even older still.
Okay perhaps a fourth thing to know. I have a pretty good sense of humor and I love the 50's Lifestyle and that of Master and slave, simply because it beats to having say fetch my pipe and slippers bitch, and then bring me drink all the time. See sense of humor! :) I also love a good Bimbo! - wink wink -

I retired early in life, back in 2001 - 02. Yes I am quite well off and have some plans to become even more so later in 2013 and 14. I'm also increasing my activities and work relating to charities and Non Profits. I should state that I am in the process of starting some of my own Non Profit / Charity businesses. I will be buying property in more then one state as well since some of these plans concern organic farming and ranching, as well as providing free or very low cost " real " medical marijuana for people that really need it for reasons other then getting high all the time. Yes I do use marijuana myself at times. Sometimes to just relax just like someone who'd rather have a drink to do so, but the real reasons are mainly for some sleep issues I suffer from at times and minor pain issues.

**And not just because I will be buying property in more then one state, your location really doesn't matter to me if the connection is there. In the Mid 90's I actually imported a young slave girl from Alaska and we lived together for 4 years very happily until I had to release her with great regret, but I had to do so for reasons of my own. I am more then willing to travel as I can, even for extended periods of time to get to know someone. 24/7 is something I truly desire, but it isn't at all required if you are interested in a man such as myself. Let it be known, if we aren't working toward a live in relationship I would ask that you at least be able to travel from time to time as well. **

I can be very bold, I am also a very open and honest man and as such I do believe that if you wear my collar I do own you. Be warned, if mine, during sex I will cum in you or on you as I please. Who are you to deny to me as your Master the pleasure or doing so? I am most certainly Disease Free and more then willing to prove it and must ask the same of you.

**Please don't judge me by the groups I belong to.** I am an observer, and a damn good one. Therefore some of them are about pure fantasy and or to study more about different groups of people and their fetishes. This is one way we learn and grow ourselves. Just ask me if you are into a group or more I am into and I will honestly let you know if it is of any actual real personal interest to me.

I am very approachable so don't be afraid to simply write me if only to say " Hello, want to be friends? "; or anything else that is on your mind. But please note I am Very Sincere in my desire to find the right lady and open to any age from Just Turned Legal to 50 plus as long as you still look amazing. Only women between the ages of 25??? and up would be considered for a possible permanent arrangement such as live in life partners or as a wife. I'd prefer someone over 28 though if you are have it in the back of you mind or IS your sole reason for being is to serve or belong to " One Man " forever, if you know what I mean; yet I wouldn't turn away a much younger woman who had herself together, is quite intelligent and wanted to do so for all the right reasons. ;)

**I can read people far easier then most. I can sense things about people, including emotions, I am a bit of an empath, so I am empathic to a degree.**

**One thing you don't want to do is try and play me or Top from the Bottom.** Even if you think you somehow managed to Top me in some way keep in mind that most likely I preferred to let you believe you did so. So it isn't something I recommend you try often.

I like to be random, and may come across as a bit of odd ball as well. Why, people tend to underestimate you, so my recommendation to you, don't underestimate me.

**As to the types of women I am most attracted to. LOL Beautiful and Intelligent Ones Most of All! Yet ** I adore creatives, adore the Victorian Era so I am very into Steam Punk. I love Bookworm / Nerd / Geek Girls because intelligence is a total turn on as I am quite intelligent myself. So artists, musicians, dancers, writers, you name it, these are the type of women I am attracted to as well as Alternative types. I am really into the 50 House Wife type of women who is a Total Sex Kitten / Pin Up Material total fucking turn on especially if she is into being bred and really wants children. Being a bit of a Daddy Dom of course I adore Baby Girls, Princess Slaves, Complete Slaves and or Submissive types all are welcome. I have dated switches, but must be submissive to me or willing to meet on equal ground as I don't have a submissive bone in my body.

Race isn't an issue for me at all and I love Hot Asian, Mixed Race, Black, and Hispanic / Latin women. I'm far from a racist! In fact I love exotic looking women! And of course I love beautiful Caucasian women.

The most important things to know about me are that I am a True Gentleman except in the Bedroom and Play Room but can be such as well as part of the play, say in perhaps a Victorian setting? This and I am one Hell of a Flirt and Tease and open to most any fetish you wish to explore as long as I am not asked to take on any sort of submissive role. LOL Again Ladies I don't have a submissive bone in my body and this is the last time you will hear that from me.

Lastly my name is John, and when writing me for the first time please let me know the lady's name. A gentleman shouldn't have to ask a woman her name even if she were to write just to say hello.

" Eternity is an awfully long time. Especially toward the end. "; from the great mind of Woody Allen when he was in his heyday.

5' 9", Blonde, darkening hair, almost redish these days, including the goatee and the T is getting some gray in it.
150 to 160 depending on the time of year. And told I have pretty light blue eyes.

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8/21/2013 3:06:44 AM

What does it mean to be Under Consideration?

Hello Everyone,

This is being posted for submissive and Dominant persons to learn from since there seems to be a lot of confusion concerning what the term " Consideration " actually means. At least in older and more traditional circles.

Now for those of you who have ever read some my replies to posts I mention in more then one that I a very traditional and old school Dominant who gained my knowledge and experience in the real world and some time spent in Europe as a young man before there was an online BDSM community.


Please do not take what I am writing here and claim it as your own as it was published and is copyrighted by myself and an old BDSM magazine I used to write for that has sadly sense ceased publication. Yet some of you older people  may remember BDSM Lifestyle Magazine from back in Mid to Late 90's when in publication. More so you West Coasters then in other areas of the country though it was also widely sold in New York and other larger cities with a larger BDSM community.

Thank you for taking the time read this and your comments are welcome if intelligent.

Be well,
John your friendly neighborhood Rogue

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What does it mean to be Under Consideration?
By John Martin - May, 1999

What I am presenting here is a very traditional way of handling this situation on both the part of the submissive party and as a Dominant. It is what I have learned from those older then I a long time ago, and what they had been taught as well. Being Considered dates back well before any of us were alive as I understand it and am sure is true based on old journals and books I read while in Europe, Germany in fact, relating to Sadomasochism and Bondage and Domination. Or as we know it today as BDSM and related fetishes.

One thing I have encountered and even been asked in real life, though mainly online is what it means to be under the Consideration of someone you wish to serve, as well what it means to be being Considered as a Dominant.

Lets start with what it means for the Submissive / slave, or Pet, whatever you choose to call yourself if you are placed under consideration.

So you seem to of found the right partner. As is my personal preference mind you, you have asked to serve this person in whatever capacity you desire to and is agreed to. Yet they have requested to place you under consideration.

The most important thing you need to know once you agree to this that this is a time where your Dominant is getting to know you quite seriously in order to make sure you would be able to serve them as required and that you would make a good companion for them. Its also a time they observe how you act and behave so remember your place and act accordingly since in many ways you have become their property are owned until it is decided otherwise or become formally collared or marked as their's. Let me state here though, this does not give them any right to use sexually or in any way you haven't consented to until you are actually collared, or perhaps marked as theirs. Yet you do belong to them in all other ways except sexually speaking so your actions need to reflect this.

Online it may be that distance prevents them from actually accepting your submission and they are waiting to actually collar you and claim you. You may be completely devoted to one another mentally and even in your hearts. Though as I have been taught and feel myself, one simply can not collar someone online unless it is all fantasy. True submission and true acceptance of this " Gift " should be real if you are indeed serious about the reality and not the fantasy.
" Note: though not in my original article has the option to express you are in or under consideration and one should also post they are " in service of " someone since there is an option for this. You could even go as far as to say someone owns you, not by collared you, but owns you since yes I do believe you can own / capture someone's heart and mind, even online. " Of course you should ask if it ok to state that someone owns you so don't simply do it without asking. "

During the consideration period the Dominant you have asked to serve may still consider others should they decide to and are upfront about doing so. I know you are sitting there saying you serve them and this really doesn't seem right or proper yet depending on your status and real life situation it is fair. Of course most every submissive wants to cherished and adored, perhaps their Dominant's only one, but please remember depending on how you define yourself in the lifestyle isn't it their right to consider others in order to find the one worthy to serve them? And especially if they just began looking for the right partner? And after all you have asked to serve them, give the the time they need to make such a important commitment to you even though you are ready for such a commitment yourself. So act as such. Show them you belong to them.

And there we have it, when you are under consideration aside from having sex with them, you need to show them you are worthy to become, and desire to be theirs even though in your heart and mind you already are. So show them this is true, convince them.

Is it fair? It isn't for me to say but I am a Dominant male and I certainly have the right to make sure that what is being offered to me and promised me is what I will receive should I Gift the woman of my choice with my Collar or mark in complete acceptance of what has been offered me and is mine. I could never myself consider more then two women at a time to serve me. And I am picky. traditional, and very much an Alpha Male so I am not easily impressed either. So impress me, show me you belong to me no matter what as I like a strong and confidant woman who knows that even if I am talking to or considering another you know you are the only logical choice for me in the end because you are what I desire. Your actions will reflect this and show me this is true, other woman be damned, show me you are the one I " Need ". Show me that in your heart and mind you are in a state of surrender, waiting for me to claim and collar you as my own. Give me no choice but to make you mine. If there is competition get to know them if given the chance as it may provide you with an advantage in getting your hearts desire. Sure it should okay with your Dominant if you get to know someone else under their consideration, if not I have to wonder what they are hiding from you.

Now what did I just write about myself and personal view? And why did I? Female or male, your Dominant may think the same way and expect the same of you. Here is a short list of what might be expected of you while under consideration. And we will move onto the Dominant.

1.) When you have been placed yourself under someone's consideration after asking to serve them you do become their property.

2.) You are not required to serve sexually unless you wish to. You can not be ordered to have sex or even session, though one should be open to sessions that would not include actual sex or sexual service beyond toys during a session.

3.) During your time under a Dominant's consideration you may be taught about what is expected of you once you become collared by them.

4.) Your Dominant may be teaching you about the lifestyle aside from their expectations. Mentoring you, molding you, and shaping you mentally, perhaps physically " not sexually " to become worthy to serve them and earn their collar or mark.

5.) Since you have asked to serve them and it is being seriously considered you are off the market since you are after all in many ways in service to them. Again a double edged sword that may not seem fair or right but you don't have the right at this point to consider someone else or even to talk to another person in any way that may lead to them think they might obtain your services since they have already been given to another. Talking to someone is fine, but expressing what you are looking for and desire to another Dominant is in some ways just wrong and generally leads to giving them the wrong impression. Especially in online situation. So it is important to make it clear that you are presently taken and not interested in entertaining the possibility of being with someone else. Don't allow someone else to speak in a way that is meant to seduce or try and convince you otherwise if you truly want to serve the Dominant you have submitted to and under consideration of.

To sum this up, show your potential you are devoted to them and them alone. And act as their's, do as required execpt as mentioned sexually unless it is " what you really want "; and ask for, not they asking you for! Don't use sex as a way to win them, it may not work and we all known sex in submission, even in life outside of BDSM can intensify your feelings. It may also lead to a far more intensely broken heart should the Dominant decide not to claim you.

6.) Think of being under consideration like dating even if your Dominant is talking to others or considering someone else. As long as they are being open and honest about it, and perhaps even going as far as letting you know whom they are talking to, perhaps considering you should give them credit for being so with you. If it were otherwise would you really want to serve someone who would do so behind your back or lie to you about it if asked since in any real relationship, especially one related to BDSM; trust is everything.

7.) Act as you are theirs, because as stated you are in all ways expect for sexually unless you decide to enter into a sexual relationship without having been asked to do so. Don't enter into a sexual relationship because they ask you to, it is something you should offer, not they ask for. To me it is wrong for a Dominant to ask and it is taking advantage of the situation and your feelings for them. Play sessions without sex, except use of toys can be considered proper form and they might ask for such. And no they can't cum in your mouth as one woman once asked me, that is taking it to a very intimate and sexual level. Cum on you? Is it what you really want?

8.) Remember your place. Remember what you have given them and agreed to so strive to be everything promised and offered aside from the sexual in order to prove yourself worthy of serving them. Do things right and you will be wearing your Dominant's collar or mark in no time or as soon as possible if you are distanced from one another.

The Dominant Party:

Now as a Dominant when you place someone under consideration, yes you do own them for the most part, at least the extent agreed to and offered. You may command them in all ways they have agreed to and as they have promised to once collared except the sexual. Sex, including oral is completely off limits " unless " your submissive partner asks for it to become part of this process. It is considered to be in bad taste and improper for a true Dominant top request sexual service of someone they have under consideration until you have formally accepted the gift of their submission. Its fine to talk about sexual matters and desire of them, but refrain from asking for sex of any kind until they wear your collar or mark.

Now may you consider more then one partner at a time? It depends on the situation and what was agreed to. Avoid those that say they are fine with you doing so and then later become jealous and whine that it isn't fair and want to keep looking themselves. Yet you HAVE TO BE open and honest about it from the start and give them chance to retract the offer of their submission as is their right. If the submissive party becomes so remind them of their place and what was agreed to, explains matters to them, and if the behavior continues, well we all know what needs to be done. Say goodbye.

Here is the short list for the Dominant Party as there was for the submissive:

1.) Show your submissive partner who you are, why they should accept your collar when they are ready to, prove themselves worthy to.

2.) Most importantly be open and honest about everything! Never hide things from them since trust is everything!

3.) Get to know them, discover who they are, their desires, needs, even wants since they are expected to know yours. Also learn more about them as a person. Allow them the same curiosity.

4.) Express your emotions and feelings to them as they might and should to you. Just don't lie about them. Be for real and yourself.

5.) Take this time to teach and guide them, especially if they are new to the lifestlye. This can extend to them learning more about what is expected of them once you have collared or marked them as your own.

6.) Don't be afraid to let them serve you and even request they do. So feel free to give them tasks or ask them to be of service to you since they are yours after all in every way but sexually.

7.) Sessions are perfectly fine, especially as you teach them and it gives a newer submissive partner a chance to experience things and what they can can expect in service of you. Again, and I can't say this enough, sex is off limits. It is bad form. Using sex toys on them is perfectly fine during a session.

I have been asked by both submissives and Dominants if it is alright to ask the submissive to perform as in masturbating or using sex toys on themselves while you watch. I've had some ask this and also ask if were okay if they also masturbated while watching such an act. I have never been taught or told that this is wrong or in bad form though I have been taught mutual masturbation is in bad form other then the use of sex toys on a submissive during a session.

Now the closing question and answer would of course be is how long should the consideration period be expected to last? Normally no more the a couple of months unless agreed that it might be longer from the very start. I see no reason, or know of no of no reasons why it can't be  extended by both parties with good reason and agreed to. You might even find it to be as little as week depending on the reasons why you are being placed under it.

Another question I have been asked is if it is proper form for a submissive to place a Dominant under consideration? Well given the fact that in traditional BDSM a Dominant doesn't ask a submissive to serve them, they may express interest in someone doing so, but they should never ask someone to. So the answer is no. In traditional BDSM circles a submissive offers their submission to a Dominant since it is a gift and one doesn't ask for a gift. Sorry to say only a Dominant has the right to consider someone in traditional circles. You do have the right though to retract your offer to serve and request your release from service at any time even if formally collared. A Dominant doesn't have the right to refuse your release though might request you try and work matters out. You don't have to agree to work out it, and they should at at that point grant your release gracefully.   

This goes a little beyond the basics, though still very basic at its core. Remember these are older more traditional views that not everyone may agree with or practice these days, though are considered a very traditional and formal practice, truth be told. Hopefully this should of given you at least a better understanding of the consideration process and with this our little session will now close.  

As always feel free to post your questions and comments about this article online at our web site in Rogue's Corner and I will do my best to answer or reply to the more relevant questions and comments by you our readers.

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I reviewed this for typos but please forgive any as I didn't have a digital copy of it and had to type it all by hand. It is exactly as it was published except for where I clearly wrote the one note.

I may in time re-write given the fact that since 99' when originally written the online BDSM community had been filed by more fantasy and fiction, shit created by wannabe Dominants trying to get one over on new submissives then it has provided any real facts or older, more formal and traditional ways of doing things. Yet as I always say the most important thing to remember is discovering what does and doesn't work for you, as well as your partner since it in the end its all about what gets you off and makes you happy as a person and or couple.

Take care everyone,
John Martin - AKA TheMasterRogue


8/21/2013 3:04:56 AM

Let Me Be Your Daddy Because...

Though I would like to say this is mine, it isn't. It has been online a very long time! But I do rather like this and wanted to share it with all of you Daddy's Girls out there.

Let Me Be Your Daddy Because....

I will be your Protector, protecting you from harm!

I will be your Mentor, providing you Guidance, Support, and disipline to be the best at what you are! You will be Shaped, Molded, and Taught to be proud of your self and to what you have become and achieved!

I will be your Daddy, as my little girl you will be treated like a Princess by day and my little slut at night! You will feel safe and secure in Daddy's arms, knowing he loves you so!

I will be your Dominant/Master, treating you Fairly, Firm and Strictly! We will have Goals, Rules, Rewards, Punishments and Rituals that we both will agree on through open communication! I will expect your total Obedience!!!

I will be your friend, I will always look out for you in your best interests, cover your back, you will be able to communicate and confide in me, with out ever being judged, simply loved.

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 Age: 18
 Lord Baltimore, Maryland