I have over thirty years of REAL WORLD experience. I am still learning from the subs.

What I am looking for:

I have a great life and it is full of wonderful people. I do enjoy talking and sharing with new people. I like meeting new friends. I enjoy playing at all levels. I love to learn from others. My passion is rope bondage and I am always happy to tie someone up. It makes me feel good when after a scene the bottom is feeling happy, strong and good about them selves. I love it when someone gives me the gift of suffering for me. I enjoy teaching and showing someone the ropes. I love sex. Not just casual or vanilla sex. I mean that deep personal connection and sexual energy that your have when it is intense.

What I can offer you:

I am honest to the core. You will get a straight full complete honest answer. You will be safe. Safe physically and emotionally. I have never injured anyone in over 20 years and thousands of scenes. I ran a construction company for 17 years and never had an accident or injury. I am a safety first and let’s make it happen person. I am very experienced. I am experienced in the toys, techniques and methods most types of activities. You will be able to try new things or take things you love to new heights. I make and keep appointments on time. You can actually make plans with me. I am passionate about all of this. You will not be bored. I am trained in many sexual techniques. I have a lot of stamina.

My world:

I live full time in the kinky world and in the vanilla would. For me it is all real.

In the kinky world I am a well known producer of intense videos. I have produced over 200 videos. I have been active continuously in the scene for over 20 years. You may have seen me on stage at the Fetish and Fantasy Ball in Las Vegas. I have preformed there for the last 9 years. I am a long time member of Threshold in Las Angeles as well as other clubs. I have been in thousand and thousands of scenes. I participate in several scenes every week. There is still time for family reunions, birthday parties, travel and a lot of normal every day things.

About my poly family:

My best asset is my wife Barbara. We have been married for 36 years. She is very submissive and taught me how to treat a submissive woman. With love, kindness, honesty and firm leadership. We have raised two children who became fine adults. We entered the BDSM would about 28 years ago. I then started to learn how to treat slaves and masochists. They taught me how to be kind and intense, honest and respectful, dominant and fair. I owe all that I know to the women that give me the license to control and torment them. I am proud to have three slaves and several play partners.

Pammy is 56 and has been my slave for twelve years. She is a very strong personality and very smart. She lives a poly life with a husband and has raised five children. I draw on her experience and trust that she will give me her opinion.

Nicole is 25 and has been with me for six years. She is young, beautiful and very tough. She stars in many of my videos. She married to a man that accepts our master/slave relationship. He is a strong and wonderful man that supports her lifestyle. She taught me to be patient but stand my ground. She also taught me what some of the needs of younger women are.

Desiree is a very smart and strong woman. She is 42 and has been with me for 4 years. She holds a masters degree and is a personal trainer. Did I say she is smart and strong? She taught me time management and the depth to which one can go in power exchange and Sado-masochistic pleasure.

Scenes that I love: My passion is Nawa shibari rope bondage, the real complicated type. Seeing women in full suspension is like viewing a masterpiece. I also like predicaments and challenge bondage. I love whipping scenes. I am not talking about a soft flogging. I love to take you to the edge of your limits and hold you there. When it is over you will be very proud of yourself and you should be. I love fantasy capture/rape scenes. Where the bottom is not sure what will happen or when it will end. (This is consensual and completely negotiated). I get great satisfaction from scenes in which I am able to help a person do something they have always wanted to experience.

I have the skill, knowledge and equipment to do the following types of scenes:

Bondage with suspension, mummification.

Flogging, whipping, single tail, bullwhip.

Electrical, violet wand, electro stimulation, TENS,

Hot wax, fire play.

Clamps, pulls, stretchers.

Vibrators, dildos, chastity belts, ceramic penetrations, stainless steel penetrations.

Medical, speculum, enemas, catheters, breast pump, clit suction.

Play piercing, needle play, and cutting (with professional medical supervision)

Fisting, stretching, anal play, anal sex.

Erotic massage, sensual flogging, Tanta energy flow.

Photography and video production.

I am a professional photographer and produce bdsm videos. I am not looking for talent or models here at ALT. I have taken over five thousand fetish pictures and produced over 300 full length videos. I also produce bdsm instructional videos. That is one of the reason I have so much equipment. I have been doing this for ten years. I see so many bad pictures posted that I am happy to take good pictures of my friends for free. I enjoy taking pictures when I have time so if you need quality pictures I can help. I will not video our scenes or take pictures unless they are for you at your request. When I shoot my friends they are paid and sign model releases. What I do is legal.

What I am looking for in a person:

Honest, fit, feisty, and female. Non smoker is a plus.