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I am proud to be a dominant. It is part of me being me but dominance, kink, and the lifestyle are just a small part of the jigsaw puzzle that is me. I have been around the block in the world of kink. I was introduced to it as a young man at twenty in college and found amazing mentors who taught, answered all my questions and encouraged my growth as a dominant and person. As I grew up and moved forward in my life, I put away the kink and went vanilla. Lesson Learned!
I struggled with the concept of how could I enjoy, need and crave kink while still being the gentleman I was working to become. I have learned that you can be a gentleman and dominant.
I am a dominant who believes in and enjoys developing and growing my partner through DS but without all the protocols and strict rules that in my mind a traditional dominant employs. It does not mean that I am not strict or demanding when it is needed but I prefer to keep things fun, positive and playful over insisting on protocols. I firmly believe that dominance is about leadership, growth and putting your partner first. It is not about demanding to be served or acting like a two year old throwing a tantrum to get your way.
I have noticed that many men here in my age range seem to be seeking a much younger partner. I do not care about age, but I do care about finding the right fit. Age is just a number where the right fit is not something defined by an age. Im not here nor am I kinky because Im having a midlife crisis looking to find a shiny new sports car. Im very comfortable with who I am, what I have achieved and I wouldnt change a thing in my life. Even those times I have made mistakes because without those, I couldnt have grown into who I am now.
Finally, kink is not my life but just part of it. I have a wonderful balance between work and non-work. Im not a person who is going to have a social life made up with just kink related events or insist that the majority of my friends be lifestylers. I enjoy the vanilla world and people just as much as the kinky one and do not ever want to feel I have to be all one or the other.
If you have read down this far, why not take a moment and drop me a line, say hello. I love to meet new people and I dont bite. Okay let me take that back, I do love to bite but Im not a random biter, so you are safe!
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