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Hello,

I am the Iron Orchid. I've got about a decade's worth of kink experience, but little of it has been fully in the "scene". For the most part, I've played on the fringes within the limits of adventurous vanilla women in my life.

Lately, I've decided to immerse myself more fully and explore my Dominant side. I'm looking for people willing to aid me in this. I want to make new friends within the scene. I want "brains to pick".

I'm not looking for a personal slave/sub. I've already got one.

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5/3/2008 1:08:09 PM
Hey all... I've started a new job! Woo hoo!

<br><p>I've been enjoying it so far and hope to be seen in the community again.

<br><p>Later all.

2/18/2008 7:27:19 AM
<p>I've been looking over profiles lately and although I've been very tolerant and very careful to bite my tongue, I find I can no longer resist...

<p>Apparently there are many of us Doms who don't 'get it'. Apparently many of us Doms are merely playing at 'the scene'.

<p>I'll have you all know that there isn't an aspect of my life that I don't play at. The 'scene' is certainly one of them. That's why I'm having so much fun in the scene ... ladies.

<p>But all sarcasm aside for a moment...

<p>Whether you realize it or not, those of you who whine about Doms who don't 'get it' and who only play at BDSM come across as very needy and insecure. Good Doms are not looking for needy insecure subs to top.

<p>I'm not trying to be nasty by saying this, it's just an observation. I realize that many of you have encountered twits claiming to be Doms, so I suppose you have an excuse ... Still it is very amusing to read about how I don't 'get it' because I won't take someone else's nonsense seriously.

9/14/2007 9:20:46 AM
Without meaning to, it would seem that I've found a play partner.  Funny how stuff like that happens when you're not really looking for it.

This is a promise to myself:  For the duration of this relationship, regardless of where it eventually goes, I will act in a manner consistent with the deviancy we are both seeking to explore.  I further resolve to be excruciatingly honest with myself even if it takes my skin off.

9/6/2007 4:04:50 PM
I was told today that I'm a "breath of fresh air".  This was because I was asking questions and not pretending that I knew everything.  Because I was being me and not pretending to be a nasty Dom.

I feel both gladdened and saddened by this.  I'm glad because obviously I've just been complimented.  But I'm sad because this means that there are a lot of doms out there that probably shouldn't be calling themselves doms. 

For those of you who fall into this category: Shame on you.

9/4/2007 12:58:35 PM
Pleased to say that I am successfully making new friends here and finding more than a few old friends as well.  My expectations for this site are being adequately met.  Kudos to whoever hosts collarme.

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 Age: 26
 Danbury, Connecticut