I read profile after profile and they're all the same. "Don't contact me unless you are within an hour of where I live" is a common phrase I see. Let me vent a little on this one. Unless you live in the greater New York, Los Angels or Chicago area good luck to you. The population of the rest of the country simply isn't big enough to make that a reasonable demand. Oh, one can demand it, but odds are they will be disappointed in the number of legitimate people in their area with the same likes and interests. This is already a needle in a haystack lifestyle to begin with so to close off meeting someone you might end up clicking with because of their address is sort of narrow minded to me.
For all the Pro Dommes using this site for free advertising I would like to know if this really works for you? i am not opposed to your choice of making a living in any way shape or form, but there are other venues that are more appropiate for advertising. This is SUPPOSED to be a personals community for lifestyle people to meet other lifestyle people. i am a submissive male, but that doesn't mean i don't have respect for myself. i seek someone real, someone genuine, not an actress. And i am confident enough to know that my submission has VALUE. And the type of Woman i seek also recognizes that and appreciates that. Perhaps im in the minority, but i would never pay anyone to domiante me... it would do nothing for me.
For all who demand a photo instantly... Are looks everything to you? If you choose to share your photo with everyone that is your choosing. However, i choose to ONLY share my photo with those who I feel are genuine, and truly interested in me as a person. Not being arrogant, just confident, but i am a reasonably handsome fellow. I look a few years younger than my age of 37, im tall with a good build and nice, thick full head of dark brown hair. i never ask up front for a photo so i tend to not spend much time with those who demand one from me after only a couple of e-mails. It just seems shallow to me.
Just a day to vent. Good luck to all on here... ;)