Ok so heres my story,I'm really new to this whole world. I had a girlfriend who was very vanilla and I told her I thought I was bi, well she didn't take it well and we split. I think its for the better cus now I can explore my sexuality. Well I have not yet been with another guy, so I wanted to buy a dildo. I've done very little ass play with a silver bullet and I really like that. sooo I went to ebay (I figured it would be cheaper, and yes price is an issue) and I realized there was about a billion different types of dildos... Help me please?! I have no idea what is good and bad and if I should get one thats small or big and what material will last or feel good, its overwhelming! Looking around I like the way the "realistic" ones look but is that all that matters? Please help me :'( any advice you can give me would be awesome!