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I'm almost never on here - you'd be better finding me on IC or FL.
So... I guess I'm sort of looking! I'm interested in psychological domination and conditioning, ideally I'd like to meet that special dominant male who can push me beyond my limits, mentally, emotionally & physically.
There's nothing more attractive to me than an intelligent, mentally strong and dominant gentleman. I'd like to meet someone who I can respect, care for, and most importantly trust completely. Someone who will make me feel special, cared for and desired.. as well as used, hurt, pushed and challenged. Unfortunately I've met very few men have made me actually feel submissive to them, but with the right person I am deeply submissive. Although I tend to just see what or who comes my way, exceptions may be made for charming, handsome, gentlemen with a penchant for making girls cry.
Within a D/s setting/relationship I don't really like being bad or being punished, I want to be a good girl, and do everything I can to be perfect for the person I'm with. I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to adore someone, and being adored in return. To be someone's beloved pet and prized possession.
I suppose this is where this is where most people would find the contradictory part - as well as being adored - I also crave sexually loaded 'abuse', humiliation/degradation and I seem to be turning into quite the emotional masochist.
I don't think it would be fair to say that this is 'Just A Bedroom' thing for me - yes my kink is sexual and it turns me on - but I also like a man who can take control in other aspects of a relationship. I happen to think that with any D/s relationship there are levels of transference and that (for me), my ideal relationship won't be about complete micro management (I don't need that, and frankly, I'd be worried about you being bored) but a nice balance between a 'normal' relationship and one that encompasses parts of D/s into every day life.
If you want to try and understand me a little bit more, then I suggest you check out my weblog.. it might add another dimension to me. I've also written a (not comprehensive) list of things I like at the bottom of the page. Remember, just because I am into these things does not necessarily mean I will do them with you!
In terms of a partner or play partner, if we get on; we must find each other attractive, have fun together, be able to communicate, and most importantly have a laugh if it all goes a bit pear shaped.
The Switchy Bit:
I definitely have a small switchy side. I've finally decided to add this into my profile, really, because it's long overdue. I'm exploring more of what interests me at the moment, and whilst I am mostly submissive, and would ideally like a dominant partner, I do like to occasionally top. This is very rarely with the same person - and in fact - I prefer it if it's not. I've found that my interests have varied a lot over time and although ultimately I would like a D/s relationship, I do occasionally enjoy casual play, but mostly as a top. But we can talk about this in private..
I do like to get out and about to different events but the majority of my kink is done in private.. but if you ever see me around, please come and say hi!
Vanilla Likes:
- Being Creative
- Hendricks Gin & Tonic with Cucumber
- Expensive Footwear
- Sewing, baking and generally imagining I'm a 50s housewife
- AP, Coco De Mer, Bordelle
- Men in suits
- The tingly feeling I get when my favourite song plays
- Pablo Neruda
- The Cure
- Travelling
- Saying words like "Super", "Awesome" and "Totally"
- e e cummings
Kink Likes/Things interested in:
- D/s
- Being a good girl. Im just wired that way.
- Rope/Predicament Bondage
- Being roughed up in a fairly brutal and violent manner
- Humiliation, degradation & feeling really belittled
- Sensory Deprivation & Breath Play
- Physical and mental power struggles
- Feeling vulnerable, exposed, restrained
- Begging, crying, pleading for you to stop
- Anything else that will make me cry
- Oh, and cuddles
What I don't Like:
- Judgemental people
- Rudey male part profile pictures.. you know what I mean
- Gossip (take it elsewhere, I'm not interested)
- People who assume I am already their 'sub' without having even talked to me!
- 'BDSM Safety Police'
- Eating with your mouth open. Bleugh. Just... why?
Anyways - thanks for reading if you got this far! God that was long! Im not always so serious - Normally I'm just a sweet, shopaholic, fashion obsessed daddys girl. Come say hi.
Lots of love, xxx
"It's never been a perfect world. It's never going to be. It's going to be hard and scary, and if you're lucky, wonderful and awe-inspiring. But you have to push through the bad parts to get to the good."
“If ever there is tomorrow when we're not together.. there is something you must always remember; you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think... but the most important thing is, even if we're apart.. I'll always be with you.”
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