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Not my real name, so for now lets go with Murdoc. I honestly don't know where to start or how to describe myself.
Everybody's answer about how they got into bdsm is pretty generic. It's always the same, "I got tired of my boring vanilla lifestyle". No offense. Lol I got into bdsm slowly, plain sex was awesome when I was younger. I was just glad to be having sex of course. Simple guy mentality. As things progressed, I met girls who were awesome in bed, and girls whom would just lay there like a starfish until I was done(which is the biggest turn off). I ran into a few girls who liked it rough, and it was a lot of fun. New experiences of course. It started with pinning a girls arms down with my hands and fucking her hard, placing my hand over her mouth or throat (not enough to choke her, but just enough so that she knows I could if I wanted to). Pulling hair happens all the time, pretty much every girl likes that. I always had real handcuffs and 550 cord laying around because of my job field. So I'd leave those around in the bedroom. It's tough to tell a girl you don't know that you are into these things without scaring them off right away. A lot of girls are definitely into being submissive. I want a dedicated sub, someone who accepts my word as law, whatever I say, goes. As long as it's within the range of things she'll actually do (things shes okay with). I'm not a cruel person lol.
Current update,
I am recently single after finding a woman I cared about, around 8 months we were together. However, I wasn't truly happy because we weren't compatible in our taste. I gradually opened up to her with new and different things she hasn't tried, things that I was into. She just was not into it and we grew apart. I tried to be happy in a traditional relationship and it doesn't work for me.
I normally use leather restraints during playtime, but I recently got into ropes and knots. I'm not half bad because I used to be a boyscout, haha. I need someone to practice with/on. I'm not very experienced at any of this and I do not know anyone out there with similar interests. Please feel free to talk with me about things, I'm not exactly sure how to go about this. I think that it would be weird to have an inexperienced Dom with an experienced sub. I think my best course of action is to find a sub in a similar boat and we can grow as a team. That or have someone metaphorically take me under their wing and teach me to help me grow.
I could keep going on, but I'm tired of typing now. So maybe more thoughts later. |
