Some of this profile should be read with a raised eyebrow, and one's tongue firmly placed in one's cheek, hopefully also giving a sense of the quirky humour of the author. I will leave you to go figure what to apply where, but if your really, really not sure, well hey come ask Plus if you dont want honesty and like things sugar coated, then dont read on..

Are you single, tall, dark, handsome, unconventional, intelligent, passionate, sensual, brilliant sense of humour, think spanking is dead stupid, can cook and love music (especially dance music), are open n honest , dont think bdsm is ALL there is, and do you really know how to kiss....I know! I know! It's those two little words 'open' and 'honest'!. ~laughing~

Strong arms to hold me close & tight, lips whose kisses set me on fire, eyes that when his glance is caught from across a room make my stomach flutter.To know I am his and he is mine. (there see I can do soppy stuff too :rolls her eyes: lol)

Me : Tall extremely, claret headed, very independant, strong willed, extrovert & uncoventional mecurial gemini with a deep an abiding passion for dance music (progressive house in particular) and dancing ( have worked & still do from time to time within the dance scene promoting & writing articles,reviews, dj biogs etc).Incisive mind and at times v bizarre, cynical & dry sense of humour. Can also be chaotic, wild, impetuous and........... oh look who really cares what else! The inner softer bits of me will take time & trust to see.Do not see myself as a sub in the 'twue' sense of the word, just possibly that way in the bedroom only.There again who can tell what may happen with the right combination of people/chemistry. Frankly to me if the 'vanilla' bits arent right, and by that I mean you love each others company and fancy one another to bits, then the rest isnt going to happen.

I guess you should also know I'm a single mum to a male tadpole aged 10, this young gent has taught me the 'true' meaning of the word joy!I will always be here for him and he will always come first.That does not mean, however that there is no time nor space for someone else in my life. Oh and I can also be an intensely private person.

Likes : Being inspired.Intelligent discourse.Being challenged (gets the grey matter working).Art particularly the work of Luis Royo. Books, they litter my home.Words and those with the ability to use them, red wine, travel, new cultures, banco de gaia, expresso, magna canta, laughter, 16 bit lolita's, snakes, anne mccaffrey, lesiem, hybrid, john digweed, grieg, seafood, spain, lemon 8, africa, sunscream, risotto, jonathan lisle, white flowers, mathew dekay, sandlewood, hernan cattaneo, turner, candles, twisted melon, dali, spanish classical guitar, jody wisternoff, very late nights.People with passion & life.

Lives : In hope of finding someone who can either share/ relate /tolerate or understand her & her passion's :grins:

Dislikes : Those who memo and IM only to immediately launch into talk about sex, underwear or bdsm, hardly inspiring or original! Nor am I likely to respond politely *huge yawns* Also doesnt like, gossip, inhumanity, liar's, fakes, cheats, cruelty, cliques, labels, abuse, boxes, checklist's, fashionista's, injustice, mediocrites, chocolate, trends, political correctness, being bored, pink, cute or fluffly stuff, ect ect.The words 'need' & 'nice', ones a cop out the other is pure lazy !! TV, dont have one and havent watched any for about 8 years now.

Doesnt want :Long distance ta! Or marriage, or 24/7, attached gents, nor one nighters either, just simply someone to share some quality time, life, and laughter with. Tough call hmm

Question : Why is it so many here seem to think a relationship starts with being based on compatabilty drawn from series of checklisted answers? How very seriously odd of them!

Be Warned : This profile has a habit of subtly changing as much as the weather does