First and foremost, I seek someone for Real-time and Long-term, who is Very Serious in what they seek.

I am seeking the right person to develop a 'bdsm Lifestyle' centered relationship; but understand that any 'lifestyle' relationship has to have a normal/vanilla component to it. This is where many get lost in thinking that any such relationship can be 24/7. Just being realistic to start with, and not in some kinda 'fantasy/dream' world as many believe to live in.

I am Single (no kids), very much honest, sincere, and most of all, as I said, interested in something that will develop to a LTR. I am educated, intelligent, successful and am very much financially secure. My interests go from mild to fairly extreme, and am always open to trying new things. But, make no mistake, I am safe, sane, mature and very much responsible.

In short, a smart, experienced Dom will not have a checklist of things or activities, but understand What the sub-slave NEEDS--as furthering the relationship and the growth of the relationship within the Lifestyle is the most important endeavor.


I enjoy music, movies, traveling (have traveled to many parts of the world), and have a passion for fast sports cars. Also, enjoy the outdoors, motorcycles, boats, airplanes/flying; hey, if you can think about it, I have probably done it at one time or another. I am very much laid back, easy going, open minded and have wonderful sense of humor.

The person I seek:

This person should not only have an interest in the 'lifestyle' but also a Passion for the lifestyle; and experienced or not, be very much open to trying new things. I want someone who is intelligent and able to have an intelligent conversation; as a relationship has to be more than just a bdsm scene.

I am Not interested in anyone married as I said, I am looking for a relationship, and if you are 'married', you already have one. right!

Again, REAL-TIME ONLY!! NO Games!!!