I have collared my desire, but we're more than happy to still chat with others. I'm choosing to leave up my profile because it's funny and some people just need to remove the stick and have a good chuckle...heh.
P.S. The interests list to the left is a combination of our interests and doesn't necessarily reflect what we currently do in our relationship...yet. Heh.
Name: Believe me, I've been called *many* things. Some were even nice. That being said, Dark or DarkOne works for now.....
Where am I: Truth be told, I've been accused of being in my own little world more often than I care to admit(heh). Actually I live in Great Falls. To find *exacty* where take I‑15 to the 10th Ave. South exit. Take 10th Ave. Eastbound to 9th Street and turn right(South). If you miss the turn, there's another way to go if you wait and turn right on 26th Street so don't panic. And don't worry, it all just ends up in a big, empty field anyway. After turning on 9th, drive 5 miles out of town and take a left at the fork in the road (that's for the Johnny Carson fans). Go another 3 miles and take a right at the black cow with white spots, NOT the white cow with brown spots. This is important! If you turn at the white cow with brown spots you'll end up in Detroit. Don't ask. I don't know. You just do. Anyway, go another 15 miles or so and there I'll be, in the middle of nowhere. Yup, that's where I am. The middle of nowhere. And if you didn't grow up in Montana or haven't been here long enough to learn your closest neighbor could be 20 miles away, that was friggin funny. Laugh, damn it! (May be pushing the posting rules with this one, but I hope it brought a little sunshine into your day.)
*Update: We currently live in Billing, MT*
Favorite play style: Tennessee Williams and Oscar Wilde can hold their own, but 'ole Bill Shakespeare will always be king! Seriously though my tastes in this area do vary. I do have certain likes/dislikes, but I don't have to do everything with everyone. What I like is a sub that can explore her limits and expand on them as we get to know each other and build trust as time goes by.
Bit about myself: What to say here? I was first introduced to the lifestyle sometime around early 2000. The relationship I was in at the time was new and exciting, but she was a fairly experienced sub and I was just a "newbie" Dom so it was a little overwhelming so we went our separate ways. Since that time I've have a few Dom/sub relationships that didn't work out. Over the past year or so I've really thought about my life, learned more about myself, and have come to realize that I'm happiest when I've been in the lifestyle. My vanilla relationships weren't all bad, something was just missing. I now know what that "something" was. I'm usually open to new ideas/experiences and look forward to finding someone I can teach as well as learn from...
Favorite toy: My brain. No really, seriously. The mind can be a powerful thing no doubt and I'm so bright my mom calls me sun. I think that building on a subs anticipation of the unknown can be just as rewarding as the actual event. I guess you could say I like to keep a sub "on her toes", sometimes literally...*wink* For example, if I have a sub cuffed, tied down, and blindfolded, I might run various textures over her naked skin, then turn on a vibrator so at least in her mind something specific is about to happen, but then switch gears and run ice over her nipples, down her body, and pick a place to insert it. Something which hopefully would be an unexpected surprise. Don't get me wrong, I do like to use the crop, cuffs, and clamps, but I also think the psychological aspect of a scene is just as powerful, if not more. I once read somewhere "Conquer the mind and the body will follow." That's just such a swell statement.
And if anyone's wondering, my second favorite toy is my black and hunter green suede flogger that seems to get good "reviews" from those on the receiving end as well. However, I recently added a bull whip to the collection and am looking forward to using it.
*Update: My current favorite toys are the dragon's tongues I have added to my collection, although my subbie isn't exactly fond of them, but does like the marks they leave...heh*
Who I'm looking for: Wish I could just say I'd like someone into X,Y,and Z. However, if she likes X and Y, but wants no part of Z, could I be missing out on something great because of some minor detail. I'm more interested in WHO you are than WHAT you are. I'm not so concerned with how big or small your butt or boobs may be, but can you spell BMW and hold up your end of an intelligent conversation? Not that I don't like to just goof off at times (as this post kinda shows), but it's frustrating to be playing Trivial Pursuit and she looks at you with a blank stare and answers every question "Cheese???" I'd like to find someone that's comfortable with themself and not afraid to tell me what they like or desire. Even though it may be a Dom/sub relationship, it's still a partership where one can't exist without the other. As I said above, I'm looking for someone I can learn from as well as teach. And let's not forget someone to learn new things with together. As far as specific play toys and playtime interests you may have, let's just say I'm very open minded and non‑judgemental so let the conversation begin!!
