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Hetero Male Dominant, 51,  Alexandria, Virginia
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Mature Dom, white-collar professional, attractive, smart, and fit. Been in BDSM most of my adult life.

Not into extreme games. My favorite toys are my hands, although I do have a few others.

I have an actual sense of humor, but I can also get very serious about things when the situation calls for it. In day-to-day life, I'm actually a friendly person and a pretty nice guy (for a sadist).

Hoping to meet a sub lady on this Site for either a short or, preferably, long term friendship. I am married, so I would prefer to meet someone who is also married or attached, or someone who is comfortable with it.

My philosophy of BDSM is that is something we do for pleasure. If you don't feel good afterwards, there's something wrong.

My other interests, besides the obvious, include music (I am an amateur musician),teaching and studying martial arts, putting in regular time at the gym, and just enjoying the outdoors.

Interested? Send me your photo and I'll send you mine.












 Dominant Male



 5' 8"

 159 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive female







 Breast Play

 Being Massaged (Expert)

 Spanking you (Expert)

 Vibrators (Expert)



 Rock Music


 Fine Dining





 Martial Arts (Expert)



 Anal Play

 Blindfolding you

 Canes and Crops

 You wearing my collar



 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control

 Role Playing




 Web Surfing (Expert)

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 New Wave


 Punk Rock Music



 Seventies Music


 Bar Hopping

 Coffee Shops

 Local BDSM Community

 Erotic touch



 Medical fetish play (Beginner)



 Science Fiction

 True Crime

 TV News

 TV Sports

 Country Music

 EMO Music

 Folk Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Nineties Music

 Pop Music


 Curious About:

 Plastic Wrap Bondage (Beginner)

 Wax Play



 Enemas (Beginner)

 Masks on Partner

 Modern Primitivism

 Public Play

 Heavy Metal Music

 New Age Music

 Hard Limits:

 Fire Play

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Journal Entries:
4/3/2005 2:06:54 PM
I'm a 50 yr old gentleman Dom living in Northern VA, attractive, intelligent, fit, clean, with many interests, and generally comfortable to be with. I am searching for a special friend for an ongoing relationship.

I would like to meet a woman who is adventurous, imaginative, with a passion for exploring the finer pleasures of the mind and body. I am interested in finding a lady who is either experienced or curious about D/s or BDSM. I have a lifetime (30 yrs plus) of experience -- I don't know how to do everything, but what I do I do well.  You should know that I am not into extreme games of pain, or red, yellow, or brown play.

I believe that getting to know my partner and having some empathy for her is absolutely necessary in order to make a D/s relationship work. My philosophy of BDSM is that is something we do for pleasure, to feel fulfilled. If you don't feel good afterwards, there's something wrong.

I am married, and so I can't promise to be available at all times. I can offer a real friendship, with an interesting person, that may add some joy to our lives, as well as satisfy our needs.

Have a look at my profile and photo?

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