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TheBeautifulMind

You wish you didn't need to be on a website like this one, but you've accepted it as a reluctant necessity. Vanilla relationships are not enough, and there are only so many times you can be disappointed at the outcome of that tentative third-date conversation.
You're not seeking one-night stands, playmates, friends with benefits or any other option where sex substitutes for intimacy. Those things perhaps have their place, but you want it all.
You're not embarrassed to be a romantic. You're not too cynical to believe in a soulmate. You're not too old to hold hands.
You want a partner in the fullest sense of the word. Someone with whom to share your life. The ups, the downs, the silly thing you smiled at this morning, the random thought you had this afternoon, the crazy dream you still cling to no matter how far-fetched it seems.
You either love what you do, or are actively working to do what you love.
You know that life is a process, not a destination. You seek to grow and develop, but are at ease with who and what you are. You still have optimistic beliefs about playing your part in creating a better world, but recognise that most of life is in the way that we live and interact with people on a daily basis.
You are probably widely-travelled, certainly widely-read.
You still don't really expect your partner to be hanging out here, but if he were, he'd probably post an ad like this one and you'd probably reply to it.
boiraven
 
 Age: 40
 Oakdale, California