|
|
|
|
| e?nig?ma/iˈnigmə/Noun ?1. A person or thing that is mysterious, puzzling, or difficult to understand. ?2. A riddle or paradox. More ?
Feel free to call me John
?
I am married in an open relationship , wife is not aware of kink activity however
?
Physically I am a masculine, strong alpha type . 6'2" tall 225 lbs . Emotionally I am an open book . I wear my heart on my sleeve and I am ok with that . I am perceptive and usually read people very well . I take pride in being a good and loyal friend . Most of my vanilla friendships date back 20 yrs or more . I try to do what is right , be respectful and avoid drama . But sometimes my passion will cause me to speak out while others choose to remain silent.
?
In my D\s relationships I take great pleasure leading your journey . I get satisfaction from pushing and challenging you . I like relationships based on a negotiated unbalanced power . That exchange may be only in our scenes , or in other aspects of the relationship . Every situation and relationship is different and eventually defines its self . I prefer my submissives be strong and independent woman. By nature I am protective and supportive . I enjoy being the Dominant force you crave in your life . Let me be your escape , the thing you look forward to .
?
Impact play is my candy . I have an affection for canes , floggers , single tails and many other painful things. I love to mix it up . I like to vary levels of play in a scene . I view the scene and relationship as a carousel . Playing at the same level all the time would be boring . I like to take you to the top and back down , each time getting a little higher as we build trust . To me its a beautiful dance built on trust . I love to watch you react and respond , I like the control . I love that I can be the vestibule for you pleasure or your pain . I like to be the drug you just have to have . I like to learn all I can about your fantasies and desires , see where you want to go , then take you there on my terms .I want to introduce you to things you hadn't even imagined let alone dreamed about. Sometimes I like to ambush you , to keep you on edge . So even when we are out on a vanilla excursion , you are never quite sure what's around the corner . I like you to trust me but always be just a bit , sometimes more than a bit uneasy around me . I can go from tender to sadistic in a moment . I enjoy both and often they are intertwined . I can be very affectionate , and sometimes pain is my affection .Yes I want to dance around in your head .
While I enjoy a relationship of some sort . I can and do play casually . But still prefer some type of friendship or connection
Peace
|
|
|
|
