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It would appear that smart, funny, attractive women who love bondage or more difficult to meet than you might think. Fortunately, I know that you are here on CM and I am looking forward to meeting you.
To me, submission is not about immediately taking control of your life, dictating the clothes you wear and demanding that you conduct yourself a certain way. Instead, its a bond based on love, trust and confidence that inspires you to chose to entrust a certain amount of control over you and your life. The extent and depth of this control is a level we will have to find together, based on what we each want and need. This control also brings a tremendous responsibility for looking out for your welfare, so it is not a decision either of should make lightly. It will also involve corrective discpiline, light or severe, as needed, and sometimes a spanking just for fun.
I also do not think that submission is the opposite of independence. You can maintain your independence in many areas of your life and still be a submissive. The key is to find the level of submission that satisfies us both. In your job, for examply, you will likely have to maintain a fair amount of independence since I can't very well order you to report to work nude since you've lost your clothing privileges for a week.
Lastly, if you are heavy, we probably will not be a romantic match. That may make me shallow, but any relationship must include physical attraction. I would be happy to chat with you as friends and we may learn something together.
If this is the type of relationship you are looking for, please send me a message. I look forward to hearing from you.
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