Dominant male interested in meeting local (SF East Bay area) submissive women. I'm not a "lifestyler". For me, the dynamic is still one for "behind closed doors". Some exhibitionism, if my submissive desires it, is possible. However, I am a voyeur in the truest sense of the word, and have little interest in activities that require me to participate in public displays/activities. Play partners and "friends" are certainly possible, but I AM looking for something longer term - even commited/monogamous! I look forward to hearing from you. Do please have a picture in your profile if you contact me (or include one in your email). I also use Yahoo Messenger and AIM constantly. So, if you use either of those programs and would like to chat, I will gladly give you my screen name(s).