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Hetero Male Submissive, 27,  Birmingham, United Kingdom
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Hi! I am a very social person who loves meeting people, I am very approachable with a good sense of humour.

(Yes the photo is of me! It's one from the bands photoshoots, I will probably upload more over time but in the meantime I can send more photos upon request.)

'Vanilla Me'

Music is my life! I could not live without it! My tastes are very much for Heavy Metal but I listen to virtually every genre of music - I find that it offers a certain liberation through expression that words cannot convey. In my professional life I am lead vocalist and guitarist in a successful UK power metal band and I am also an acclaimed music teacher.

Random vanilla facts about me
  • I am a Leo
  • I LOVE chocolate
  • My favourite colour is purple.
  • I am a classic American car enthusiast
  • I have a vocal range spanning almost 5 octaves.
  • I don't smoke or do drugs and I've NEVER thrown a TV through a hotel window
  • I'm honest, open and I wear my emotions on my sleeve
  • Thor was a nickname given to me recently that stuck
  • I can usually be found with a guitar in one hand and a bacon buttie in the other

Why am I here?

I'm here for both friendship and to meet people for play and more I am open to meeting people in person, all I am asking that you take the time to message me and get to know me here first. I desire a strong woman who can dominate me in a sensual and loving way (and can tie good knots! HAHAHA!) so if you share my vanilla and kinky interests and think you can "handle" me, drop me a message and let's talk about it! *******************************************************************

'Kinky Me'

"Won't you come into my room? I want to show you all my wears..."
A friend once referred to me as a "more neopolitan than vanilla" and I would say that is a fairly accurate analogy of me. So, what am I?
This was a mystery to me for a long time too, I spent most of my life since I became aware of my kinks experimenting and learning about the scene and my role within it and ultimately I would say that after this journey of self discovery, I found that I am a switch but I am most definitely in favour of the submissive side. Although I do have switch tenancies I feel I could only play the dominant role if I was really comfortable with my partner and even then it would only be occasional. I know what turns me on (basically, bondage, bondage and more bondage!) however, I am always looking to try something new. As a fetishist, I am VERY open minded and like to experiment - I will try almost anything once......... twice if I like it!
If you want to melt my kinky little heart, here are my interests:

I have 2 main kinks (I am only interested in meeting people who share these)
  • Bondage: I like the harder forms (mummification is my favourite)
  • Latex: I love EVERYTHING about this wonderful stuff!
But I also really enjoy:
  • Facesitting/smothering
  • 'Forced' orgasm/orgasm control
  • Tie & Tease
  • Kissing
  • CUDDLES!!!!
I have a bit of a thing for Redheads too! (ok, I have a BIG thing for Redheads!) Limits and 'No-No's':
  • Shit/Piss/Spit/Vomit are a non negotiable hard limit
  • Anything involving children or animals
  • I'm not massively into pain - but this is not a hard limit
Here's the results of a quiz I took... I'd say it's pretty much on the mark! Bondage: 86%
Experimental: 82%
Switch: 75%
Submissive: 64%
Degradation: 57%
Dominant: 54%
Sadist: 43%
Masochist: 36%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur: 29%
Vanilla: 18% Any questions?
Well, if you've got this far, congratulations! You've actually read all of my profile! If you still want to know more about me or just simply have a chat please feel free to friend or message me!

All the best!












 Submissive Male


 United Kingdom

 5' 7"

 123 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Switch Women


 Lives For:

 Amusement Parks

 You tying me up (Expert)

 Being gagged by you (Expert)

 Being allowed to service you orally

 You binding me with plastic wrap (Expert)

 Rubber Fetish

 Singing (Expert)

 Heavy Metal Music


 Being allowed to worship your body

 Being allowed to see your breasts

 Local BDSM Community

 Being massaged

 Hair Pulling

 Being allowed to give you massages

 Objectification (Beginner)

 You deciding when I'm allowed to have an orgasm

 You telling me when I'm allowed to speak

 Suspension Bondage (Beginner)

 Being allowed to use a vibrator on you


 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Rock Music

 Seventies Music


 Art Galleries





 Being blindfolded

 You disciplining me with a cane

 Being allowed to wear your collar

 Being allowed to see you in corsetry

 Medical fetish play


 You deciding what I wear

 Outdoor Bondage

 Sensory Play

 Being spanked by you



 Lifestyle BDSM

 Alternative Music

 Blue Grass


 Country Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Folk Music


 Industrial Music


 Nineties Music


 Pop Music




 Curious About:

 Anal Play (Beginner)

 Cages (Beginner)


 Electrical Play


 Genital Punishment

 Shibari (Beginner)




 Gas Masks

 Hard Limits:


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Journal Entries:
6/3/2013 5:33:23 PM

Hi! New to the site but not the lifestyle. I'm currently looking to make friends and hopefully ultimately meet a domme.

I am very easy going and social - want to know anything just ask, I'm not shy! ;)

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