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Hetero Transgender Switch, 48,  Concord, California
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Raven began as a feminine, brassy, confident, dominant alter ego to Jamie who is a much more vulnerable and submissive girl. I'm not really transgendered in that I do not feel I am female. I do have a sort gender dysphoria in that I don't feel I am male either. I suppose that because I have a male body and have lived as a male, I would say I feel mayber 55/45 male/female.

While I had yearnings to dress my whole life, it wasn't until I was living alone and had gotten into D/s I felt able to explore the feminine part of myself. In doing so I met people who were supportive and helpful. For a few years I even had a cadre of friends to dress up and go out with.

As I became more confident with both expressing my female side and in D/s, well there was just something about dressing up in thigh high boots, leather, gloves and etc that made me feel dominant. However, I always preferred to be submissive and always hoped to belong to a Mistress.

I have been in several D/s relationships, but all with Mistresses who wanted male me. They were all understanding of my male/femaleness, but weren't interested in having a femme boy/girl.

Although I had some trans-friends, after a few years of wanting a relationship and not finding one, the ritual of dressing up, being pretty and etc was getting depressing and with that, along with some other things that were going on in my personal life, for the most part I quit dressing.

I still have the feelings and interest and am still interest in a relationship with someone who accepts and likes Raven/Jamie. I love D/s and bdsm and love fetish, boots, leather, latex, gloves and especially big wigs. For me there is something about big, long hair that says "girl."

I am looking to be a Mistress's slave and I mean slave, not sub that is what I want more than anything. Failing that, I want a slave, and I don't mean a sub.












Last Online:


 Transgender Switch



 Willing to Relocate

 5' 10"

 185 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Submissive Transgender

Dominant Female

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Sub/Sub Couples

Femdom Couples

Friends Only

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Body Worship


 Cane / Crop Discipline



 Domestic Service

 Foot Worship


 Housework Service

 Obedience Training


 Orgasm Control

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Sensory Deprivation





 Anal Play


 Breast Play



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Genital Punishment

 Local BDSM Community

 Public Exhibition

 Hair Pulling

 Humiliation / Degradation

 Masks on Partner

 Mental Bondage

 Maid / Butler Service

 Oral Service

 Public Play

 Role Playing

 Rubber Fetish

 Speech Restrictions



 Suspension Bondage

 Theatrical Scenes



 Vacuum Stimulation



 Wax Play

 1950s Lifestyle


 Female Supremacy

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Old Guard



 Fine Dining




 Corner Time



 Knife Play

 Massage (Giving)

 Medical Play


 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Goth Lifestyle




 Renaissance Faires


 Masks (Wearing)

 Curious About:

 Electrical Play

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Fire Play

 Needle Play



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Journal Entries:
4/15/2015 9:21:22 AM
I don't really have much experience at being dominant and I would like to learn more about it and gain confidence.  I would like to meet some dominant women, either cis or tg who wouldn't mind sort of mentoring and training me.  If you also want me to submit to you that is acceptable. 

Overall, I feel I need to meet more women and girls of all kinds who are into D/s. bdsm and fetish. It has been awhile since done anything with fet or even dressed.  It would be nice to know some girl and have a close girlfriend or two.

1/3/2009 8:52:12 AM
Dominance is the ability to create a hunger in someone so strong they will do anything, anytime, anywhere to please you.

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