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TestingH2O

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I am just testing the waters here. I am looking for something very very specific.

I am intelligent and educated and looking for LTR, marriage, and children to a similar, but dominant, man. I enjoy being sexually submissive, and in other areas of life I prefer not to be the one in control but I expect my needs to be considered.

Ideally I would like someone Age 34-42, and at least 6', but I have some flexibility.

I expect someone financially secure, who together with me continuing to work, can support us and our family comfortably. If you expect me to move away from GTA, and especially to another country, you should be very much able to guarnatee my financial security.

Do not ask me for a photo, you will not get one. You will not be disappointed in my looks if we meet. Do not write me letters telling me I am not truly submissive. Do not write if you are married, attached, unable to commit, or do not want children.

I'm curious to know if there is anyone out there.

Begin your letter by saying "Dear Lori:" If you do not, I will assume you did not read my profile all the way through, will read no further, and will block you.

Thank you for reading.

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6/5/2009 7:31:28 PM
I was talking to him tonight and happy that we were talking.  And I told him that I was going to have Monday and Tuesday off from work and that I didn't know that before.  And then he didn't say anything for a while and I was talking and then he said "Can I change the subject, there is a flight at 6:15AM tomorrow, would you like to come see me."  I shouldn't bore people here with my stories, but so much has changed in the past month, it is amazing.  I have to go to sleep now, I'm leaving early in the morning.

6/2/2009 5:03:20 AM
At the moment I am infatuated or in love, I'm not sure which.  I would like to keep talking to people from this site in case the other relationship proves unworkable.  I met him on a vanilla site but he is an amazing dom and our chemistry is fantastic.  Still, he lives in another country and that is a major obstacle for me.

5/25/2009 12:01:12 AM
As I mentioned privately to several people, I spent the holiday weekend with someone who has been playing a larger and larger role in my life.  It was an amazing weekend, and I have not been able to stop thinking about it since.  There are several things about him that are less than perfect in what I seek, but some other things I have never round in anyone before, and our connection is very special.  It creates a very difficult decision for me.

5/10/2009 10:24:28 AM
I have added a photo to my profile.  It is not a photo of myself, although it is a reasonable representation of what I'd look like from that angle.  I have had hair that length and colour at times, and the body type is approximately mine.  The face does not appear.

I have added it mainly out of curiousity as to what replies and how many I will get with my profile appearing to have a photo, rather than having none.  Perhaps this is unfair of me.  But as I said the photo is not deceptive.  I am sure I could have had a photo taken of myself at times in the past two years that would have been indistinguishable from this one.

5/9/2009 9:50:40 PM
My blocked list includes people who did not include the requested salutation, one or two-word letters, or those who only jumped into explicit descriptions of various acts with no context of a relationship.

My favorites list includes those who gave some indication that they perhaps met my criteria or were at least close, and who might have some possibility of being the right person.  There are some who subsequently proved unsuitable, but who I did have constructive conversations with.

There is a third category of people who were polite and made a good attempt to talk, but for whom the gap was just too great.  For example, a very polite gentleman who unfortunately based on his age could not even offer good odds that he would be alive to see our children graduate high school.  These sorts of people are on neither list.

My favorites list now has 5 people and my blocked list has 15.  This is a sad ratio, as no one has to be on my blocked list.  They chose to behave in a way so as to be put there.

5/8/2009 5:30:22 PM
Of the first ten people who wrote to me, I told two I might write, one was polite but we seemed to have different interests, and I blocked the other 7.  Two did not contain the required salutation, one was only three words long, two were unintelligable and seemed to suggest specific acts with no context of a relationship, and two explained desires for a lifestyle so incompatible with what I want that any reasonable person would have known there was no possibility of us being a couple.

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Swtbbys0ft4tweny
 
 Age: 30
 WEST PALM BEACH, Florida