I am actively seeking a live in female slave(sister) for Myself and My slave. I am affectionate, but I am very strict when it comes to what I want and don't want. I prefer to have the slave contact Me first to at least show that they are serious in their search. Provide Me with a list of what you are looking for, and what you don't want. I will read every one and let you know if you fit with what I am seeking. I can be flexible on certain things, so don't be afraid to contact Me if My profile doesn't exactly match with what you're looking for.
9/30/2009 12:28:43 PM
So I've just spent the last few hours going through profiles and hiding those that did not fit what my wife and I are looking for, or the ones who were way more extreme then we are. Our search now shows very few active subs/slaves and most of those are ones we've contacted and they turned out to be uncourteous snobs. I know some people would say to change what we are looking for or whatever, but we will not change what we want. Granted, we are flexible and willing to work with the right one, but there are some things that we will not change or work with at all. We know what we want and what we are able to work with and we will accept nothing else.
9/30/2009 9:08:59 AM
We are not going to contact anyone anymore. We are tired of the fakes,
time wasters, and uncourteous snobs. If you are serious about being a
sub/slave then you can contact Us.
9/29/2009 4:15:17 PM
Sooooooo...yeah. There's a lot of people on here who have forgotten what common courtesy is I guess. Or maybe they just never really knew what it was in the first place. Seriously, if you're advertising, and what you write on your profile fits what someone is looking for, and that someone takes the time to read your profile and send a courteous message...send something back! You've already opened/read the message, looked at their profile, how much harder is it to click a button and type "no thanks" if you're not interested? My wife and I are done wasting Our time trying to contact these uncourteous snobs. If there's any REAL subs/slaves who are interested, you can contact Us. If you just want to chat with us for possible friendship, that's fine too. We welcome it.
Here is something I would like to share with those of us in the BDSM lifestyle. I came across this on another site and was very impressed at what the author wrote. I hope you enjoy.
We just love how many of these "submissives" on here really don't act like it. Even ones who are not owned, but looking for Master/Mistresses, should still show potential Dom/Dommes that they are submissives and be respectful. For example, talking with with a Dom/Domme and setting up another chat meeting at a specific time, then not being there and not contacting with the potential Dom/Domme with a reason why, shows very poorly towards the "submissive". If you are seriously looking for a Master/Mistress and one takes the time to talk with you and even goes out of their way to accomodate the future talk, the "submissive" should have the common decency and courtesy to either show for the chat meeting or let the Dom/Domme know why they weren't there. Simple respect and courtesy. Not too hard to ask for or expect from one who is supposed to be a "submissive".
Another ranting example. "Submissives/Slaves" who are very specific on their profiles of what they are looking for, being contacted by Dom/Dommes who fit those requirements and are looking for that type of "submissive/slave" and just ignoring the Dom/Domme. It's almost like most of these "submissive/slaves" are only doing this to see what kind of responces they get from people and just for an ego booster because they get contacted by hundreds of people. Fake. If you are going to call yourself a "submissive" or a "slave", act like one! Be respectful and courteous towards potential Master/Mistresses (at least the ones who show the same) unless they are complete douchebags who deserve none. Admittedly there are Master/Mistresses who are crude and plain mean, and there are subs looking for that kind of owner. If you're not, and you get contacted by a Master/Mistress who is not abusive or a douchebag, be respectful and send something back, even a simple no thanks. The Dom/Domme will have more respect and be appreciative of that simple courtesy that should be displayed by a true "submissive" in the first place.
9/25/2009 6:07:13 AM
Ah, the hunt to find the ever elusive female live-in sub for my husband and I. We've had a few that we found and contacted, and had one that we didn't find contact us. We had to turn that one down. Out of the ones we have contacted, one of them has really sparked our interest. We really like the spunkiness portrayed in her picture, and what she is looking for is a perfect fit for what we are looking for. We will keep this updated as our search continues...
