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I am an unattached MD, man of the world, well educated, witty , down to earth, successful in my everyday life. At the moment living and working abroad, soon to relocate to Knoxville, Tn. I have never been, much less know anybody in Knoxville, so ladies in the area looking to make new friends, please don't pass me over. For the time being, I am content to make some l/d friends in the area, hoping to meet some personally as soon as I land there, and then who knows...

I am a born Dom (as oposed to self -proclaimed), erotic, strict, striving for perfectionism with a firm hand and a healhty sexual appetite. I have owned slaves and have had D/s relationships of various flavours. I know that you need to be caressed, hugged and cuddled as much as you need to submit, to give all of yourself, to please , be used as a slut, humiliated and punished.
I am not after a doormat but a strong willed and independent woman in her everyday life who desires to submit and let go at the hands of someone who captures her trust and admiration.
I tolerate playful brattiness to a degree, as long as it is not your second nature and don't make brattinness into a virtue. you should expect and accept discipline when it's applied.
I enjoy particularly the entire experience of bringing a strong, confident woman to her knees and feeling her surrender to me. It's a profound expression of trust and intimacy, and there isn't anything in the world quite like it.

I am open to bringing novice submissives into the scene, as long as someone is willing to learn, I'm willing to teach her. For those who are more experienced, I'm comfortable with emotionally intense scenes. Humiliation, in particular, can be a powerful tool

I dislike wimpy subs. A woman must start off with a certain amount of strength and dignity, in order to be able to surrender those things when she submits. I don't like emotionally needy, "high maintenance" submissives. I expect someone to have her head together and her life in order before she comes to me. I have no interest in becoming someone's therapist, or counsellor. I hate smart assed one liners, mind -game players, and indecisive persons. If you don't know what you want, please don't waste my time.

pam1601
 
 Age: 36
 Jersey City, New Jersey