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Who am I? How can one explain any one person with just a simple text? No. To know and understand someone takes more than just simple "This is me! Tell me if you're interested." style texts. But, I will endeavor to help someone understand.
I'll start off with why I'm here. I've had interest in BDSM for five years, but I've grown in a very conservative society. Unfazed by the societal expectations, I proceeded to explore and wonder about this... feeling. This, hmm, urge to control, to analyze, to understand, to stir the feelings in someone that would make their body shake in restless quivers from sexual euphoria. I desire that control. That ability.
However, I am young, and fairly inexperienced. I've done my reading, and I understand for as well as someone who can read and watch, but not experience, can do. I want to take a new step, one further than I have. I want to meet new crowds of like-minded people. I want to find someone who has similar interests. Perhaps the place is here.
As for who I am. I am 22, of a hefty weight, but entirely able physically. I am planning on transferring to Minneapolis for college (I tried one year after graduation, but decided I didn't know what to do) for Computer Science. I am an intellectual, and as much as can be, a gentleman. Respect and trust are always key notions in my personal code, and I will always strive for both.
My kinks are heavily based around control, perhaps not of body, but of mind. I do enjoy a lot of physical pleasure, as I am Epicurean in nature, but my true nature is based on the pleasure of the mind. I am looking for anything, really, whether it be the simple indulgence of sexuality, the compassion and love of a relationship, or anything in between.
I am always open and friendly, and if a person, male or female, would like to get to know me better, please feel free to contact me. I will never turn down friendly conversation, and enjoy company. However, for any potentiality for more than a physical relationship, I have somewhat of an age limit, from 18 to 30. There are a few people in my life that do not understand or know of my choices, and I need to keep them that way.
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My heartfelt thanks to anyone and everyone that is working for saving Fargo. I too have been participating in the effort of making and preparing sandbags for the flood. |
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So... it's been a while. I've been busy with college, and it's only going to get busier. Figured that'd I'd update, and here I am. Going to be getting a job, finishing up some extra-studying. (getting my EMT-Basic registration)
Anyone who wants to contact me, please do so! Hope you all have a good day. |
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Now practicing basic Shibari. Will update soon with pictures of my work. Loving it so far, muaha! |
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I don't understand. I thought this site and lifestyle was about open-mindedness. Apparently not as much as I figured.
Yes, I get it. I am young, and relatively inexperienced in the physical aspect. There is apparently a "no-tolerance" level given to young male Doms that doesn't appear to apply to anyone else as severely.
It's something I detest... seeing all these people that say "please hold judgement until you get to know me" in one way or another, yet won't even respond to decent, civilized conversation from someone who at least attempts to be respectful and sociable. Why? Because of my age. I'm rather annoyed by this, and it seems to fit in the "irony" category.
Not that writing this will change much. Ninety percent of the people that this is intended to impact have filters for email set to people outside of my agegroup, and search filters of the same effect.
Is it just me, or does the Dom ALWAYS have to be of the same age or older to be a Dom? Young subs seem to want someone at least 5 years older and haughtily scoff at anyone of a younger, even equivalent age. More experienced subs scarcely ever consider someone of an age under 25.
Yes, I know I have a lot to learn. But how does One learn if He is not given an opportunity? Please, someone read this and enlighten me.
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Age: 28 |
Colombus,
Ohio |
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