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I work in the area of forensics, and I love the work I do. I continue to take different classes to further my education. My thoughts are the day you stop learning, is the day you get old.
I love life; I enjoy everything it can offer. I love be outdoors (although summers are difficult for me, because I am fair skinned). I love camping, hiking, and anything that has to do with the mountains. I also love to go swiming, and scuba diving. I tend to read a lot and will have at least 4 different books going at the same time.
I have a strong personality, and am loyal to those who deserve it. I am a bit jaded at times and have a hard time let people see the true me. I am also pretty straight forward, when I need to be. I am very shy at time, even though many people don’t see that part of me. Most people see me as very assertive, straight to the point, and think I have a very strong personality. However, my few close friends know I use those traits a defense mechanism. I do have a hard letting down my guard. I have many aspects to who I am as a person, not just one thing defines who I am.
If you are looking for that tiny little Submissive that only weights 100 pounds I am not it. I am not obese but I am not tiny either. I am 5’3, about 160lbs, I don’t have large breast, so if you are looking for someone with large breast I am not it. I am a 36 B, in that area.
I was about 19. I however, denied that part of myself, because I was scared of it. I have unfortunately, seen what can happen to a submissive when they are with someone one who believes that they are a Dom, but in reality a abuser. It took many years, and many mistakes later to see the beauty in a D/s relationship.
I am married and this is an issue for many. Instead of going for what my heart desired, I married safe, and figured I could change myself, or change him to be what I needed. Of course I learned that you can’t change that part of someone. I am not in position to leave my marriage at this time, no matter how much I would otherwise wish to. If you have questions, I will be happy to answer them.
So, this I am looking for. I am looking to meet like-minded people, and making a friend or two. I am also looking for a Dom who can accept me for who I am, but who can teach me to grow as a submissive.
A Dom who knows what he wants, and who understand what safe and sane means. He has to know who he is and how to control his own actions wisely, because if he can't Master Himself he will have a hard time mastering someone else or gaining their respect and loyalty.
A Dom, who understand, and knows the psyche of a submissive. I am looking for someone who knows that I want to serve and that I am not a dormant, who wants to be abused. My need to submit does not make me weak. I am looking for that Dom who knows and understands that I need to be controlled, and I need to give my all, and he can handle that. A dominant, who will never berate me as weak or desperate.
A dominant who is confident in himself, who is honest, caring, who has self control, who has a sense of humor, the desire to teach, who has compassion and lastly a Dom who has wisdom.
Being smart is not the same as being wise. Some really smart people are pretty dumb, when it comes to applying their knowledge to a situation. A dominant must be wise when using the knowledge he’s acquitted.
Please don't send explicit pictures, I don't want them. This doesn't show me what kind of Dom, or person you are. I am not looking for cybersex, quick fucks, or phone sex. I will not post pictures or send explicit pictures of myself, so please don't ask. If after emailing, and we are interested in each other, I would be happy to meet in person. If we meet in person and you feel like we are not a good match, my feelings will not be hurt.
Thank you for taking the time to check out my profile. I sincerely appreciate it. Take care.
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