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What I am looking for, well that's the easy part. Someone who understands, that the D/s life is not all glamour and ease. Someone who knows what its like to work at something and be grateful for the time given to a relationship and can understand the dynamics of it all.
Personality As for me, I tend to keep things simple, and upfront. I have a tendency to push limits, and can honestly say sometimes I push to hard. But, sometimes it is just necessary. There should be an order to things, and I like to make sure there is consistency and sanity.
I treat everyone with all the respect they deserve. If you don't respect yourself, I probably wont give you any either. After all respect is earned, and its never given. I tend to take things slow sometimes... ;-). The Past (Everyone has one) I used to be in the lifestyle actively, and am now trying to get back into it. I enjoy the commitment a good sub brings to the relationship, the desire to push limits and build trust. I am never one for some of the more extreme versions of the lifestyle. Lets face it, some of it gets pretty rough. So, if that's your thing, then I am not your fit.
12/10/2016 1:40:56 PM
I know people think its cool to have a BDSM relationship in the office. But, you should not play where you work. People need to separate fact from fiction.
12/28/2012 11:40:16 AM

Over a year since I last logged in.  Glad to see my profile didn't get deleted, and things really haven't changed.

 

So, back looking for someone that is intresting, and devoted.

10/19/2010 8:21:54 AM

Its amazing to see how many people blame others by default.  I guess thats what happens when everybody on the team gets a trophy.  NOBODY sees themselves as just average or a underperformer.

Take the time to look in the mirror, or on a sheet of paper ask yourself, "What am I great at, better at, normal at, and suck at." 

If your going to be a Dom or a Master, be great at it.  If your going to be a sub, or a slave be great at that too.

10/15/2009 7:17:43 PM
Finally got to catch Metallica in concert for the first time in years.  They are getting older, but still a great one to go to.  
5/22/2009 9:50:15 AM
Ok, so not Obama got protested.  Can people just really give it a break for a day. 

Just a thought to the pro-life crowd, when the child is born and there is no one to care and love the child.  The child ends up in what is basiclly human farm.  So, what is worse to die without ever knowing love, or to grow up always feeling unwanted.
5/13/2009 1:05:22 PM
Just came back from my brothers law school graduation.  I can't believe that it was protested by a few people that were against torture.  Now, it is a free country and everyone has a right to speech.  But I find it amazing that people can not muzzle it of one day to let other people just enjoy the day. 

I just wanted to enjoy the time and money I put into sending my brother through law school.  Haveing paid for his house, tution, living expenses and vacation.  Its nice to see it pay off.
5/27/2008 10:53:15 AM
You know, I think that I gonna start picking up people who are out in public.  Atleast then I can get a real assesment of who they are. 

5/9/2007 5:18:47 AM
Its been awhile since my last journal entry.  took sometime off, actually a 6 month vacation. 

Ready to get back into things and hoping to fulfill my desires and their own.
 
8/17/2006 3:24:28 PM

Meet someone new finally. I was giving up on this site.  Her name is beautifulme. 

9/18/2005 1:59:00 PM
Finnally got away, and met somepeople.  Hopefully this will be a growing experence for all of us.
8/28/2005 2:03:21 PM

Its been  sometime since I have placed a journal entry.  The work schedule have finally eased up.  I am looking forward to resuming my search for another.

7/6/2004 2:01:55 PM

Gotta a pic, not a great on.  But hey some idea is better than none.

slaveleia147
 
 Age: 29
 Bullhead city, Arizona