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Hetero Female Submissive, 46,  Charlotte, North Carolina
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Tattdtwix - submissive

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Submission does not make one weak. In fact, the exact opposite. It takes a very strong person to be able to submit themselves to another. Please do not take my submissiveness for weakness in any .

I have known I was different since I was about 9 years old. I have dabbled in the lifestyle for around 25 years, I have not lived it 247 although I have fantasized about it often. I know what I like, the type of man I am looking for, and just how much bs I will tolerate (which isnt much).

I am not, I repeat NOT a slave not will I ever be one. Someone once tried to make me what Im not and failed miserably.

Im a big girl. Some say thick, some say fat, chunky, BBw, fluffy, however you want to categorize it. My size does not make me desperate. Not even remotely.

I am here for friends and friends only. I dont care how mature you think you are at 25, theres nothing you can do for me. And no, I honestly dont care how big your dick is (Im still not going to fuck you).

I am not interested in anyone under the age of 40. For anything. Im not interested in submissiveswitch men. Period. My preference is dominant black men. My life. My choice.

Non-kink interests vary from reading to cooking to gardening to rescue to the beach to the mountains. Im educated and sarcastic, love a good laugh. Movies and music are awesome.

If youve made it this far as are interested in a great friend, feel free to say hello!











 Submissive Female


 North Carolina

 5' 6"






Actively Seeking:

Friends Only



 Anal Play


 Breast Play

 Canes and Crops



 Hair Pulling

 Massage (Getting)

 Orgasm Denial



 Wax play

 Body Art



 Tattoos (Expert)


 Art Galleries

 Fine Dining

 Flea Markets



 Corner Time



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Housework Service


 Public Play

 Sensory Deprivation



 Amusement Parks

 Curious About:

 Electrical Play

 Fire Play

 Needle Play

 Outdoor Bondage



 Vacuum Stimulation




 Pony/Puppy Roleplay






 Plastic Wrap

 Rubber Fetish

 Hard Limits:


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Journal Entries:
2/16/2018 3:46:56 AM
Why do so many dominants think submissive need to be taught? Ugh

1/11/2018 3:43:01 AM
If you send a one word message expect the same back. You get back the same effort you put in.

12/15/2017 2:00:40 PM
Common courtesy is no longer a thing.

12/14/2017 7:42:33 PM
Oh the people you meet here. Nothing like having good conversation for months only to end up being ignored with no explanation. Thought there was at least a friendship forming if nothing else. If I'm not what you want that's cool, I'll not for everyone and everyone is not for me. Be man enough to say so. His loss. On to bigger and better. Happy hunting ☺️

11/9/2017 4:03:54 AM
Do people not know the difference between 'collared' and 'collard'? And y'all expect someone to take you seriously. Lmao Again, typos are one thing. They happen. It's when your profile is filled with words like collard, I'm a dominate man/woman/etc, when your ready (what the fuck is a ready?) that the complete lack of interest comes into play. Then you have the audacity to get all butthurt because someone tells you no thanks, no interested. How old are we here? I'm pretty sure we're all supposed to be legal adults. How about we act like it?

10/25/2017 3:27:23 PM
Dafuq is a 'dominant limb'? Is only one of his limbs dominant? Lmao oh boy. I needed that laugh. Unless limb means something I'm not aware of. Hmmmm

10/6/2017 4:08:12 PM
Let the venting/ranting/shit talking/laughing begin. Oh boy. People who think they are being deep slay me. Blah blah blah. I'm sorry, if you want to be deep, then damnit be deep. Let what you wrote actually make sense. Don't think that because you call yourself whatever title you've given yourself that everything you say is so profound. It's not. It really isn't. Sorry, not sorry, to burst your bubble. I've seen this on profiles from every orientation and it's funny. I'm not deep. I don't try to be. I do try to make sense when I write, even if I do tend to ramble on a bit. End of vent/rant/shit talk/laugh. 😉

8/27/2017 12:01:59 PM
I'm chasing after no one. If you want to talk to me, please do. I refuse to be the only one initiating a conversation. Yes, we all have lives off this great internet. However, if I can find 30 seconds to send a quick hello, so can you. And no, this isn't directed to anyone in particular. If you feel it's about you, then maybe take a look at how you're interesting with those you claim to have an interest in.

8/17/2017 3:40:49 AM
I see a lot of dominant profiles talking about how many fake/flake submissive/slave profiles there are here. Well folks, there are just as many of those in the dominant profiles. I honestly think that some dominant people truly believe that since they label themselves as a dominant it somehow gives than the right to nonconsentually mind-fuck a person. Newsflash!! It doesn't. Submissive does not equal doormat not does it automatically make you our dominant. That goes for a slave as well (at least it does from what I've seen). You haven't earned our respect, more importantly our trust, to assume you have any control over anything. On the other hand, submissives shouldn't be caring into your inboxes throwing themselves at you. I've had the pleasure of talking with some truly amazing people here. I've also had a bottom feeder threaten to kill me for having standards. I think the majority of the messages everyone gets here are bullshit. However, there are true diamonds out there, both dominant and submissive. Just a few thoughts this morning.

7/26/2017 2:55:55 PM
Oh boy. Perving profiles and come across one that is written with horrible grammar. No punctuation, no capitalization, missing words, just terrible. This dude thinks submissive women need to 'prove to him' how submissive we are. I'm going to assume he really has no clue how things in this lifestyle really work. He was good for a laugh at least. No one needs to 'prove to you' their dominance or their submission in a message. How does one even go about doing that? Lmao

7/16/2017 5:44:53 PM
Getting seriously bored here. Is simple conversation really that difficult? Ugh.

6/11/2017 8:03:54 AM
So I'm perving profiles and notice a trend. It seems that many forget the importance of words and the impression they make on others. One person is not a medical 'professionals', you are a medical 'professional'. The difference between your & you're, to, too, & two, dear & deer, etc is significant. Improper use can (and does) make you look unintelligent and/or lazy. Write in complete words. We aren't 12 year old girls asking wyd. Text speak is lazy and for children. It only takes a tenth of second longer to actually get out the word you versus the letter u. Spelling. Yes it matters, auto correct and occasional typos not included. Yes, we can tell the difference between one sitting with and a paragraph full of them. Proof read your posts/profiles before posting. Although, it is a good way to know whether or not you're a match to someone else. That's all for today.

5/29/2017 4:41:34 AM
I'm just curious. I mean, I know this is a fetish sure, but why on earth do guys think that us girls​ (and some guys) want to see your dick? Why are all (or at least the majority of your pics) of your dick? It's not that great. It's a dick. (Of course women post pics of their pussy too) In my opinion, all these pics of dicks and pussies kind of make this feel more like a porn site than a fetish site. I'm not looking for someone based on what they're dick looks like. Write something about yourself, give a little insight as to who you are, let people get a glimpse into your mind, not just at your genitalia. I would much rather send a message to someone commenting on something they wrote than send a message saying 'okay, so you have a dick. What else is there to you?'. Just a little food for thought.

5/28/2017 3:02:45 AM
Oh the joys of not sleeping.

5/25/2017 7:33:19 PM
It's amazing the people you come across here! Some good, some not quite so good. This time it was good lol.

5/5/2017 2:59:17 AM
I must say that reading some of the profiles here is beyond hysterical. 'I'm 30 years old and know everything have had slaves for over 15 years'. Ummm, sure ya have. 'I demand you to send me even though we've never met. You're move because you liked at my profile'. Keep dreaming douchecanoe. Using obvious pictures from the great wide interwebs claiming it's you. Yep, it sure is you. You and about 15 other oh so domly doms. But who knows, maybe you have a record breaking set of siblings. Thank you for the early morning amusement. Lmao

5/2/2017 11:25:13 AM
Oh Silly silly boys. When we (whomever you message) don't reply, it's usually because we aren't interested. Sometimes we're just busy, but usually uninterested. For you to get all butthurt and start attempting to throw lame insults is rather anything. See, people write stuff in their profiles so those reading have a general idea of who they are looking at and if that person is actually looking for anything. It's really sad that this has to be explained to you. Do not, repeat, do not jump into someone's inbox peen it and fetishes blazing. It's disgusting. Disrespectful as well. Be polite. Show the person you actually did read their profile and comment on something specific. Again, truly sad this has to be explained. When you barge into someone's inbox dick first, don't be shocked when you get a smart ass reply. You asked for it. It's guys like you that make us women want to disappear. And yes, I know there are plenty of stupid women out there who do it yup you guys too. It goes both ways Be respectful for fucks sake.

3/19/2017 12:22:28 PM
Discreet huh? There's no need for discretion unless you're cheating. And I refuse to help anyone do that. If you're that unhappy, leave. We only have one life, live it happily. Life is much too short to be miserable.

2/12/2017 1:00:18 PM
Why do random people send nasty messages than block you? Because they're sad, pathetic, bored and boring people who think they're big shit behind a computer screen. But not big enough to allow a reply. I find this terribly amusing 😀

11/23/2016 3:03:52 PM
What is with these 18 year old children thinking they are someone's Daddy? I find that shit terribly funny. Have you even gotten your dick wet yet? Lmfao

11/13/2016 3:14:03 PM
Oh me oh my the people who either can't or won't read. Those of us who actually fill out our profiles take the time to put ourselves out there. We put what our interests are, maybe some of our kinks, and what we're looking for. I for one, am not going to answer questions that are clearly answered in my profile. Take 30 seconds and read first. It might save you from getting butthurt.

10/31/2016 6:55:43 AM
I think it's hysterically amusing when someone messages you (repeatedly), you reply that you're not interested, and they start name calling. Poor lil dommy got butthurt. Lmao. Grow the fuck up. I'm not interested in everyone, just as everyone sure isn't interested in me. I'm cool with that. I'm not everyone's cup of tea. I expect that and so should you.

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