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| I will start with this… "______ is in the eye of the beholder"
I have left the blank there because I believe everything is open to a different perspective. Through explaining my views I think you will get a better understanding of who I am.
Let’s start simple. I am 24. Many think that at 24 I am a young pup and still immature. Yet those that know me see a body that is young but a mind that is much older. I do not typically think like a “normal” 24 year old. I have no desire to go to wild parties, getting drunk every night, or chasing after the next lay. My views of a good time are watching a movie, having intellectual conversations and or hanging out with friends.
Honesty…. I have read about this subject more than I care to. On any site you go to there are ample profiles complaining about people lying about one thing or another. I am a rare person in that I will never lie to you. I am honest and tell you what I think or what you need to know if asked. If there is a debate or we don’t see eye to eye and emotions are getting the best of the situation I will try to discourage the conversation for when things are calm and be talked about rationally. I have found that discussing things during emotional stress causes more damage in the long run.
Too many relationships have been lost from lack of good communication or simply no communication. When two people are arguing words and feelings get over charged and nothing said or done will help. It can get so out of hand that the relationship is more damaged or even ends. So all in all the relationship that you are trying to work on or save goes the complete opposite direction.
Loyalty…. Though most people see this in the same way, and there are not a lot of different perspectives. It’s something I want to put in just because I can… evil grin
My friends are like a second family. I will do just about anything for them if I can. I don’t do this because I feel that I have to but because I want to. Those friends are the ones that we can talk about anything and everything. I am a good listener and have lent my shoulder out on many occasions. I treat my relationships the same way. I am loyal and do everything I can to help the relationship grow and succeed.
Respect/Trust…. Big huge topic here.
Some Dominates see submissives as door mats. Others see them as things. They use them for what they want and have no regard for what the submissive wants or needs. This is something that you will not find here. I have a mind and I will use it. I am not a robot to which you can rewire to be just a thing. I do ask ‘why’ questions. I am an inquisitive person. I enjoy solving puzzles and riddles. Finding out how and why and things tick is fun. Now before you get too far in your thoughts I want to explain a little on this subject. Even thought I like to ask these questions I will not ask them in bad form. If I feel that it is something that is harmful in any way or I just plain don’t understand the reasoning I will ask. I realize that some feel that there is no need for an explanation but this helps ease my mind, feel safe and cared for. When the relationship grows stronger and trust is established things will change. The past is a bitch in how it makes us the way we are. We have all been there and you know what I am saying. Trust is built and earned by both parties.
This is all that this one’s mind can think to write for the time being. New topics and words will arise and I will write about them as they do.
I do hope that this gives you a bit of insight about me. If you would like to know more please message me and we can chat and get to know each other. I look forward to hearing from you.
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this is just an expansion of my prev post to include not just the rights but also..well you'll see if anyone reads this that is.
the submissive's rights....
i have the right to set limits, and expect them to be respected.
i have the right to trust, providing i have earned it.
i have the right to expect You to believe i am an intelligent, caring and loyal person.
i have the right to ask for Your attention, without having to misbehave to get it.
i have the right to expect You to administer Your punishment on me with care and caution.
i have the right to question Your motives, should You deny my requests, as long as i do so with the proper respect.
i have the right to speak up if i feel O/our relationship is not giving me what i need. i have the right to tell You what i need in a respectful manner.
i have the right to expect You to understand my reasons for doing so, and the right to expect You to listen with an open mind and heart.
i have the right to walk away from O/our relationship if W/we cannot come to a common ground on these issues.
i have the right to expect tenderness, love and understanding after a scene is completed, should it be what i desire.
i have the right to ask You for that tenderness if i've had a bad day, or if i just feel the need for closeness, i understand that there will be times when You and i will disagree about this when You will want a scene and i will not.
i have the right to voice my opinion, and expect You to listen to and consider my reasoning, i expect You to have final word, but i expect You to wholeheartedly consider my feelings, whatever they may happen to be.
i have the right to expect You to understand that deep trust often breeds love, and i expect You not to repel me if i tell You that i love You. For my Mistress i will love You, should O/our relationship move ahead, should O/our trust continue to grow.
i have the right to expect You to tell me, at any point, if You do not feel You can return those feelings, so that i may decide what i want and need. For it is Your pleasure that adds to my own, and makes it real, And mine, that adds to Yours!
the submissive's creed....
i will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. i realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Mistress and i from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm. i will not try to manipulate my Mistress. i will not push to make a scene go the way i feel it should. i will keep an open mind about trying things that i am not accustomed to or comfortable with and expanding my limits. i will continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being.
i will accept the responsibility of discovering what pleases my Mistress, and will do my best to fulfill Her wishes and desires. i will not allow myself to be harmed or abused, i know that submissive does not equal "doormat".
i will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives, i will share my knowledge and experiences with others in the hope that they will learn from where i have been i will take the time to help those new to the scene start out on the correct path.
i will be responsive to my Mistress, i will not try to hide what my mind and body are feeling so that i may assist Her in Her responsibilities as my Authority, i know that Dommes are not telepathists, and will not expect my Mistress to know thoughts or feelings which i do not share.
i will never think myself a "better" submissive because i choose to submit on a different level than another. i will not be boastful of experiences i have had as a sub. i know that my actions reflect upon my Mistress, and will do my best to help others see Her in a positive way. i will not intentionally embarrass or displease my Mistress.
above all, i will wear my title of submissive with honor. i will never cause others to think that being submissive means to be weak or subhuman. i will take pride in who and what i am, and will never show myself in a negative way.
the slaves prayer....
allow me the strength to answer questions i can't fathom....
allow me the spirit to know Her needs....
allow me the kindness to choke back retorts....
allow me the serenity to serve Her in peace....
allow me the love to show Her in peace....
allow me the tenderness to comfort Her....
allow me the light to show U/us the way....
allow me the wisdom to be an asset to Her....
let me be able to show Her each day my love by my service to Her....
let me open myself up to completely belong to Her....
let my eyes show Her each day my love by my service to Her....
let me open myself up to completely belong to Her....
let my eyes show Her the same respect, whether i sit at Her side, or kneel at Her feet....
let me accept my punishment with the grace of a woman....
let me learn to please Her, beyond myself....
grant me the power to give myself to Her completely....
give me the strength to please U/us both....
permit me to love myself, in loving Her....
allow me the peace of serving Her....
For it is my greatest wish, my highest power to make Her life complete, as She makes mine.
The Mistresses Creed....
Above all else She cherishes Her slave, in the knowledge that the gift she gives Her is the greatest gift of all. She is demanding and takes full advantage of the power given to Her, but knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift.
She is in control of Herself first and foremost, so that She may control others. As a stern and demanding Mistress, She can cause Her slave to cry real tears. As the consummate lover, She will then kiss the tears away, without stepping out of character.
In times of trouble, a Mistress will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and Partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals.
She is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality. She would never ask a slave to put Her before her career, or family, just to satisfy Her own pleasure. To win Her slave's mind, body, spirit, soul, and love, She knows She must first win her trust. She will show Her slave humor, kindness, and warmth. She must always show her that Her guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of her attention, that this is a Woman she can learn from, and trust Her direction.
She is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, She will fight for Her lady's honor. She proves to her that She is someone she can lean on, and depend on.
When it comes time to teach Her slave her lessons of obedience, She is a strong and unyielding professor. She will accept no flaw, nothing less than perfection from Her student. Never does She use discipline without a good reason. When She does it is always with a knowledgeable and careful hand.
She is always open to communication and discussion, always ready to hear her wants and needs. She is patient, taking time to learn her limits, and knowing that as her trust of Her grows so will T/they. She never has to demand ritual behavior by her. she responds to Her out of the want of pleasing Her. Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment. She understands the fragile nature of mind and body and never violates the trust given to Her.
She is secure enough to laugh at Herself and the absurdities of life. Open minded enough to learn new things and strong enough to grow. Her tools are mind, body, spirit, soul, and love. She understands that each partner gains most from pleasuring the other. And both of T/them know that love and trust are the only bindings that truly hold.
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- i have the right to set limits, and expect them to be respected.
- i have the right to trust, providing I have earned it.
- i have the right to expect You to believe I am an intelligent, caring and loyal person.
- i have the right to ask for Your attention,without having to misbehave to get it.
- i have the right to expect You to adminster Your punishment on me with care and caution.
- i have the right to question your motives,should You deny my requests, as long as I do so with the proper respect.
- i have the right to speak up if I feel O/our relationship is not giving me what I need.
- i have the right to tell You what I need in a respectful manner.
- i
have the right to expect You to understand my reasons for doing so, and
the right to expect You to listen with an open mind and heart.
- i have the right to walk away from our relationship if we cannot come to a common ground on these issues.
- i have the right to expect tenderness, love and understanding after a scene is completed, should it be what I desire.
- i
have the right to ask You for that tenderness if I've had a bad day,or
if I just feel the need for closeness, I understand that there will be
times when You and I will disagree about this ~when You will want a
scene and I will not.
- i have the right to voice my opinion,
and expect You to listen to and consider my reasonings, I expect You to
have final word, but i expect You to wholeheartedly consider my
feelings,whatever they may happen to be.
- i have the right to
expect You to understand that deep trust often breeds love, and i
expect You not to repel me if i tell You that i love You. For my Master
i will love You, should our relationship move ahead, should our trust
continue to grow.
- i have the right to expect You to tell me,
at any point, if You di not feel You can return those feelings, so that
i may decide what i want and need, for it is Your pleasure that adds to
my own, and makes it real, And mine, that adds to Yours.
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just a random thought, if everyone, on here, lives in "somewhere" then wouldn't they all live next to each other??
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| Age: 34 |
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