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TantraDrummer

I am a South Asian male who is here to meet intelligent articulate women who are interested in power exchange.

I am a professional in the corporate world, and am most attracted by women who have a strong sense of themselves but have a knowledge that they are submissive, and have cravings, feelings or needs that they wish to explore.

There's that tightness in your belly when you know that there's an opportunity to explore those things you've never spoken to anybody about. Because you know that there needs to be trust and sometimes discretion in order for you to open up.

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I have been asked by a couple of people what my expectations are. My answer is that I am most interested in those that have a true interest in power exchange. There is something about the dynamics of how power is offered and taken, how limits are tested, pushed and pulled against, that is sublime.

There is clearly the physical aspect of these dynamics but the clear driver for me is the mindfuck aspect.

I will update my profile on interests over the next few days, but if you have questions about specific aspects of D/s, please ask.
12/3/2010 8:24:56 AM

I love getting responses from real people, even if it is to say that they are not interested. 

 

Had an interesting exchange today about the place of humiliation and degradataion in the power exchange continuum.  To me, its something that is an advanced form of play because it requires a tremendous amount of trust as well as an established tenderness and intimacy to withhold the intensity of degradation play.

 

It's rare to find those that have a similar viewpoint about this, and a tremendous pleasure when I do.

HisPet2Use
 
 Age: 28
 Omsk, Russia