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Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage. Perhaps everything that frightens us is, in its deepest essence, something helpless that wants our love.
-Rainer Maria Rilke I am a strong, assertive, sexually dominant man seeking a sexually aware woman, perhaps with submissive tendencies, but certainly with a powerful desire for erotic exploration and self-discovery. Intelligent, well-educated, sophisticated, athletic, physically fit, well-endowed, tall, dark and handsome are all words that describe me, but fail to capture my essence. I am 5'10, 175lbs with a firm, muscular build, strong and skillful hands, a penetrating intellect, a mischievous smile, and deep, dark eyes that are alternately playful, soulful and intense, sometimes all three at once. I am a divorced physician with a busy but flexible schedule, into which i like to cram regular workouts at the gym, time at the beach, winter ski trips, and travel to explore new places. I was raised and received most of my education on the East Coast. I was introduced to D/S when I was an undergraduate, and have spent many years subsequent exploring new places deep inside this realm. I enjoy kinky, occasionally rough and primal, but always creative and imaginative sex. However, overall, I am more interested in exploring the emotional, mental and spiritual dimensions of BDSM, as well as its sexual and erotic facets, rather than its darker side of extreme pain and terror, or its absurd aspect of endless ridiculous protocols. I am very private about my particular tastes and fetishes. While I have explored it in the past, at this point in my life, I am not interested in the BDSM club scene. However, after discussion and mutual agreement, I would be comfortable incorporating others into our play scenes within the privacy of my home. I love role-playing, and some of my favorite fetishes and kinks include, but are not limited to:
Corporal punishment and discipline, ranging from hair pulling, over-the-knee spanking, flogging and caning, to suspension.
Using restraints, such as rope, ankle or handcuffs, leather bindings, rope, hog ties, etc.
Using toys and and props, such as blindfolds, gags, dildos, vibrators, butt plugs, anal beads, crops, nipple clamps and candle wax.
I also enjoy tasteful exhibitionism, voyeurism and play in public and semi-public places.
Finally, I enjoy plain, "vanilla" sex. Depending on my mood, this might be raw, rough, hard-core fucking, or soft, sweet and tender lovemaking. I believe it is the juxtaposition of these two extremes, as well as the full range of sensations and feelings between these poles, that keeps sex fresh, spontaneous and exciting. I hasten to add that the aforementioned list is just a taste of some of the things I enjoy, rather than an exhaustive list of things that I absolutely require. I believe that it is extremely important for a Dom to remain open and receptive to the sexual preferences and interests of his partner, in order that they both can enjoy a mutually fulfilling experience as they explore one another more deeply. Things that are completely off limits for me include:
necrophilia
anything to do with children or animals;
anything that draws blood or causes branding;
scat;
any form of extreme BDSM, physical humiliation or cruelty I am not looking for a woman who is necessarily experienced in the realm of D/S or BDSM per se. I enjoy the role of teacher and mentor as much as I do that of Dom and Master. However, I am naturally drawn to a woman who has an aching desire to please, and an innate urge to give up control of her body to a strong, dominant man who knows how to use it for our mutual sexual and emotional fulfillment. I must stress that a woman wired in this way is neither a doormat nor a naive waif at sea in the wider world. On the contrary, in my own experience, it is quite often women of greater than average intelligence and competence, firmly in control in their work and personal life, who seek such a connection, as a kind of mental and physical liberation from the constraints of their quotidian existence. I understand this intuitively and explicitly. In public, I promise that I will treat you as my equal with kindness, respect, and gentle solicitude. In the privacy of my bedroom, you will be whoever I choose you to be. I seek at the outset a substantive and meaningful friendship based on mutual respect, honesty, trust and security. I do not have any preconceived notions of how this relationship may evolve, and I place no limits upon it a priori: it may stay a casual, mutually fulfilling friendship or it may grow into a committed long-term relationship. My pledge to you in any eventuality is that I will always honor and cherish the gift of your submission, even as we explore it more deeply together.

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ARMYTink
 
 Age: 29
 London, United Kingdom