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"But I, being poor, have only my dreams. I have spread my dreams under your feet; tread softly, because you tread on my dreams." - W.B. Yeats.
I am a single, well spoken, slim Englishman who has lived in the states for almost 10 years. I lived most of my life in London and have a deep love for that city.
I have been exploring my submissive side for several years and have experience playing and scening. My submissiveness is an integral part of me but it's not the sum total of who I am.
I seek a true relationship with a partner who values and cares for their sub, someone I want to spend time with outside of BDSM. She would be someone who will humiliate me but respect me, abuse me but care for me after, someone who will use me as she deigns, push my limits for her pleasure but who remembers it's a human on the other end.
I often ask myself why I am submissive and the answer lies in my regard for womanhood. There is something so divine, deep, beautiful and bewitching about a strong, assertive and attractive women that it seems natural to submit and worship. If she wants to paddle me then it is a honor that she is paying attention to me. Whatever gives her pleasure is worth the pain.
I believe the highest level of BDSM is a pure exchange of one's innermost desires and cravings, when one's need and urge to please her dovetails perfectly with her wants and lusts to own and use her sub, a deep symbiosis of need and desire satisfied and enhanced beyond what one could ever envision.
I am intelligent, creative and have a good sense of humor. I work as a journalist and, mostly, love my job. I am am easy going and strive to be devoted and considerate to those who inspire and care for me. My passions include tea (hot with milk), Pablo Neruda, Eric Stanton, Christopher Nolan movies, Groucho Marx, Joy Division, Hunter S. Thompson, BDSM, mountains and curry, just to name a few.
In the short-term I want to find someone who could be a friend and perhaps a play partner. If things click, then it could graduate to a full and committed relationship.
I am also looking to find friends who share not only my BDSM interests but who enjoy going to gigs, clubs, movies and to the pub.
If you are looking for a slave, someone to financially dominate or you see no use for safewords, I am not what you are seeking.
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