KINGLIZARD's TEN COMMANDMENTS:

How to fulfill a submissive woman

1. THOU SHALT PAY ATTENTION TO THE DETAILS OF HER DESIRE:

Find and touch her personal, "pleasure points." A sub's Emotional and Physical pleasure points are chinks in her "armor" that allow her to receive erotic pleasure and fulfillment.

2. THOU SHALT STIMULATE HER SENSES:

Looking good is never bad. But women are less visual than Men, so it's vital that you speak to all her senses. Say arousing things, be clean, smell and taste pleasant and remember she is sensitive to touch. Explore the sensual paradise of her body.

3. THOU SHALT COMPLIMENT HER MEANINGFULLY AND OFTEN:

Compliment her body, and she'll be more likely to want to share it with you. Respect her mind, and she'll give you the key to unlock her desires... Just because you've told her you love her once, doesn't mean you shouldn't tell her again and again.

4. THOU SHALT ENCOURAGE HER TO SHOW AND TELL WHAT PLEASES HER:

Reassure her that it's okay for her to tell you what turns her on. Tell her to masturbate for you and watch her carefully, not just for your own pleasure, but to see how she likes to be touched.

5. THOU SHALT LISTEN TO HER THOUGHTS:

Learn about who she is, what she's been through, in her life, what she needs and what she desires. Talk to her, but most of all, listen to her, and she'll never stop sharing herself with you. Discover the little girl inside your sub. Play with her, and she'll never grow old.

6. THOU SHALT MAKE HER LAUGH:

Amuse your sub, be a fool for love. Laughter is a mental orgasm. If her Master can make her laugh, her soul will be revealed and her mind/body will belong to Him.

7. THOU SHALT GIVE HER REWARDS AND GIFTS:

Every woman since the dawn of time has responded to a gift as if it were an erotic act. Reward her when she is "good" and surprise her at random times. The specific "gift" is not important, it could be emerald earrings, sexy lingerie, a flower plucked from a field, or your emotional support in a crisis. It is the "giving" that will win her heart and soul.

8. THOU SHALT RADIATE CONFIDENCE AND SENSITIVITY:

Master's confidence makes her feel secure. His strength excites her. His sensitivity makes him accessible, warm and lovable. Demonstrate and talk about your feelings.

9. THOU SHALT UNDERSTAND AND ENJOY FOREPLAY:

The key part of foreplay is "play." Be patient and sensual. Tease her mind and body. Learn to kiss, lick, and touch every part of her and allow sufficient time for her to enjoy her pleasure and reach that bliss that she seeks.

10. THOU SHALT EXPLORE HER DREAMS AND ENCOURAGE HER:

Listen and help her to explore and understand her dreams, hopes, and ambitions. Guide and encourage her efforts to achieve her goals. Talk about and explore her sexual fantasies and help her to realize them.

The Man who learns to do these things generously and sincerely will truly be MASTER and will earn his servants trust, love and allegiance.

What should a MASTER be?

If you wish to know what a Dominant/submissive relationship is, or if you feel that D/s is degrading to a woman, I offer this: My Philosophy, to assure you, that in My eyes the opposite is true. True D/s involves much love, respect and trust by both partners.

I offer these thoughts in trust and sincerity, as it is of the utmost importance for a submissive to have a clear understanding of not only desires and needs of her Master, but of His motivation and intentions.

You are a submissive woman. You are not weak or inferior because of it. You are strong of will and heart. You are confident and proud of your feminity. You have thrown away your fears and inhibitions. You share the needs and desires of your heart and body. You have given me free and complete access to your soul and I accept this responsibility with genuine pride and humility. You are my treasure to be cherished.

I am a Dominant man. I was born with this trait. I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part. I am not dominant because I am more intelligent or wiser than you. I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body.

I am your Master because I have the genetic predisposition to lead and I have earned your trust. I embrace your generous service with pride and satisfaction and I accept your submission with personal humility and joy.

We are not equals.. We are halves of a whole. We compliment and complete each other. We are partners, counterparts, like the gears of a machine that mesh to produce useful work.

My desire to dominate you is instinctive. It is not to meant to degrade you. I have strength of body and mind and the need to protect, possess, defend and provide for you.

You have the instinct to submit, to give your body, your unqualified trust and honesty, and the faithfulness of your heart. You do not submit because you accept any weakness or inferiority, but from strength and passion. You submit because I have earned your trust, and because I have opened my heart and soul to you. You flourish in my strength and control, and your passion is magnificent in my eyes.

We each recognize and accept our value to the other, and our need for someone to trust and fulfill our desires.

I have looked into your heart and mind and I have clearly seen your desires and passions. I have listened to your words and have learned to anticipate your desires and emotions.

I have looked into my Own heart and soul and accepted my responsibilities. Because I have proven worthy in your eyes, you have given me the one true treasure of your life, you have given me dominance over you. What you give is not abnormal, but instinctive, pure, and natural. With your submission, you demonstrate complete and unshakable assurance of your commitment to me.

Your submission is both a rare gift and a sacred responsibility. I understand the magnificence and purity of this gift. I recognize it is your body and soul, your heart and mind.

When I see you kneel before me in ritual statement of your submission, when I feel your body quake beneath my touch and experience the lust and joy of your unbridled passion, when you walk proudly displaying the symbols of our relationship, in my mind you are exalted above all the treasures of the earth.

What you give freely to me, cannot in reality, be taken by force, or aquired at any price!