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Hi, my name is Scott, and I recently moved to Sacramento. I’m interested in meeting people that are local to my newly adopted city.
I’ve been practicing BDSM my entire adult life …
Starting with girlfriends in college;
- to buying Jay Wiseman’s Bondage 101 from him back when it was just a collection of xeroxed pages;
- to joining The Society of Janus in SF and attending classes;
- to getting certified as a Dungeon Master (DM)
- to play sessions;
- to D/s relationships.
All of this has been real life / in-person -- I’m not interested in web or non-local relationships.
Thirteen things you Always wanted to Know about Scott (but were afraid to ask):
• No, I'm not Mr. Clean and I will not clean your bathroom ... ;-)
• Yes, rubbing my head will bring you good luck.
• When I was 18 I moved from middle-class suburbia to live in the largest communal living group in North America (1300 people)...➟ ○ Extra credit if you know the name of this organization ... yes, there is going to be a test! ;-)➟ ○ HINT: It was founded in 1933 to provide low-cost, non-discriminatory, democratically run, communal housing. Gordon Moore (the co-founder of Intel) and Norman Mineta (former United States Secretary of Transportation) both lived there before they became well known.➟ ○ Eventually, I became President and Chairman of the Board of the organization.• While a student at UC Berkeley I was a member of the largest club on campus. Can you guess what club that is?• I was also on the Judo Team in college and competed in the National Collegiate Judo Championships -- but I haven't choked anyone unconscious in a long time
• After college I started a successful Management Consulting and Database Design company in San Francisco.
• Back in 2000, I gave up the corporate life to devote myself full-time to leading Empowerment Workshops and provide Personal Growth Coaching and Intimacy Counseling. As well as Embodied Leadership training.
• Creating Embodied, Conscious Empowerment Community is something I'm involved in and passionate about.
• For the past three years, I was also acting as a care-taker for my elderly, disabled Uncle. But now that he's being well taken care of, in a skilled nursing facility, I again have time and space for making new connections.
• Cuddling is one of my superpowers
• So is inspiring you to share parts of yourself that you've never revealed before ... you've now been officially warned ... ;-)
• I teach a workshop called Inspiring Masculine Presence -- Unleashing Feminine Fire that deals with many issues relevant to the mental/emotional/energetic aspects of D/s.
• Another relevant class of mine teaches real life leadership and following skills through the metaphor of Dance. It’s called: The Dance of Relationships: Leading vs. Control; Following vs. Collapse.
• My favorite BDSM book is: “Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns” -- for its combination of useful information and lighthearted fun.
• When I ask you how you are, I really want to know ... the good & the bad, the ugly & the beautiful
The above list has a lot of "doing" -- but these days I'm much more interested in who I'm being than what I'm doing. Although I also recognize that what I spend my time doing can have a strong impact on who I "be."
You should message me if you are:
• more open-minded than righteous
• more curious than certain
• more communicative than stand-offish
• more supportive than critical
• more optimistic than cynical
• more kind than cool
• more open than closed
• more adventurous than fearful
• more passionate than detached
And while chemistry is extremely important -- age and body type are insignificant compared to curiosity, playfulness, intelligence, openness, and a big heart. [And race just doesn't matter to me at all.]
You should also message me if you have something interesting to say … or, if after seeing my pictures and reading my profile you feel a desire to talk on the phone to see if we click enough to meet in person.
Sending endless emails back and forth isn't my preferred way to get to know someone -- I'd rather talk on the phone sooner rather than later, and then if we click, arrange a short in-person meeting.
       
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