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	Christian Dominant Male. 1 Peter 3:1-6 Looking for a Christian woman that believes it when the Bible Says "A woman should be submissive to her man." This profile can only be for a select few women. If you would like more insight into what I'm looking for in my woman check out the Taken In Hand web site. just Google taken in hand.

1/7/2018 6:13:48 PM

NO MALES

TIH-HOH-DD

The root of the idea of a Taken in Hand relationship is that the female will submit to the male in matters of everyday life. To what extent and which areas this covers varies from couple to couple, from a general avoidance of conflict by letting the male partner “get his way” to almost complete

submission to the preferences of the man in matters such as clothing

, friendships with others, styling of hair and many other things. It is quite common in TIH relationships for the woman to generally curtail her social life significantly so as to devote more time to the relationship. Unlike BDSM relationships TIH relationships are strictly “real life” rather than consisting of negotiated scenes. Whilst many BDSM activities take place mostly within the bedroom or the “Scene” (parties, clubs etc.) TIH relationships place a great deal of emphasis on everyday “vanilla” submission to the authority of the male as “Head of Household” (HoH) in a committed

and long term relationship. Generally the male partner is expected to be the final decision-maker in most matters, and the female is expected to submit to him. This is generally regarded as being for the ultimate benefit of the relationship in reducing conflict and fostering closeness and trust. In some ways TIH could be and often is regarded as a very old-fashioned marriage, and many conventional marriages do fit unknowingly into the TIH dynamic.

Discipline is a fairly major aspect of TIH relationships and is used by the man on the woman to either punish a transgression (flagrant disobedience, arguing etc.) or as a means to end an unending dispute. The discipline rendered may be verbal scolding or loss of privileges, but is most often physical (usually a spanking). In this context it is intended to be UN-erotic and not desired (though it is consensual)

Simple man that likes simple things in life.Some say I'm to much of a smart ass.

maybe/maybe not.It will depend on the person and how they see others.

I do not play. So do not ask. If you are married then move on.If you are married why are you here.

You know what I seek...One and only one.

No males I mentioned at the beginning means males looking for a dominant.
However if you are a male that would like more insight on a Taken In Hand Head of House Hold relationship with a woman that understands feel free to leave a message.

11/4/2017 2:27:44 PM

(1)Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, (2) when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. (3)Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. (4)Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. (5)For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to make themselves beautiful. They were submissive to their own husbands, (6)like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her master. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear. (7)Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers. [1 Peter 3:1-7

10/27/2017 3:24:26 PM

The TIH-HOH is not the everyday run of the mill life that you find most often listed here.

Don't send me photos of yourself nude.Think about it.
Why would you show yourself nude to a total stranger.
Even if your thoughts and desires go deeper or even darker why would you.

10/2/2010 10:21:48 PM

I have over the years learned that it is the sponsoring thought that causes us to fail in our prayers. Matthew 21:21 Tells us if we believe without "Doubt" we will receive. Without doubt. That is the sponsoring thought I mentioned. We pray for something and as soon as we finish our prayer there comes the "sponsoring thought" that we do not deserve or we will not receive what we prayed for. DOUBT.