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First and foremost, I don't really expect to find what I am looking for on here as this is primarily a BDSM site. However, there is not really a decent personals site for the type of relationship that I seek. thus...here I am. I am seeking a woman for a permanent relationship (preferably marriage) that encompasses the beliefs, values and practices of a 1950s household and/or taken in hand relationship. The woman that I am looking for, while having a wide kinky streak, holds sincere old fashioned beliefs circa 1950 regarding the relationship dynamic between a woman and a man. She has an ingrained need to be committed to a truly dominant man who exercises deep mental and physical control over her with love, respect, care and concern. I am 46, 6'0", with a few extra pounds but a long way from obese. I am friendly, open minded and very masculine. While I have a white collar intellect, I work a moderately high paying blue collar job by choice. I work hard and play hard. My interests include remodeling my house, gardening and landscaping, reading, live music, small hole in the wall cafes and restaurants, and weekend road trips with no particular destination. I have a huge love (some would say obsession with) of V-Twin motorcycles. So it's an absolute must that the woman that I love will enjoy feeling the wind in her face while thundering down the highway chest to back with her arms wrapped around her man. I am a man of strength and conviction. I say what I mean and mean what I say. I believe what I believe and make no excuses or apologies for it. I believe that a man is the hunter, provider and protector and that the woman, once won, is a unique possession (property, if you will) to be cherished, loved and protected. She should, however, have her own thoughts and opinions and be able to express them with respect...all the while bearing in mind that, while every relationship is teamwork, I am the captain of the team. If she loses sight of that fact, I am very adept at proactively correcting the problem. Sexually, I have run the gamut from vanilla relationships (I'd rather strangle myself slowly with a coathanger) to swinging and BDSM/Leather relationships. With the regards to the former, I really have no desire whatsoever to be with any other woman than the one that I fall in love with. I will, however, admit to a penchant for OCCASIONALLY seeing my woman used by another man or men. For me it is a form of exerting my dominance over her...to take the "perfect wife" and force her to exercise her inner slut. To watch her obey me and submit in that manner is a huge turn on...as is the fact that my arms will be the ones she returns to. If she enjoys it, so much the better. It can make for some interesting punishment role playing later on. ;) With regards to the latter, as well as all forms of kinky play. You name, it and I have probably tried it and there is very little of it that I do not enjoy. Pretty much everything is on the table and open for discussion. However, as with everything in my life, I follow my own path. I only do something for one of two reasons: because I want to, or simply because i can. I believe that a woman should strive to be a perfect sexual being for her man...whatever that entails. She should be open to him sexually at any time and understand the differences between sex, kinky play and corrective measures. I could probably write a short book on my beliefs about the male/female dynamic...and what I am looking for in a relationshi. However, I hope that this short profile will suffice to tickle someone's interest and lead to further discussion. Perhaps we will be a match. If not then i will have made a new friend. I am very real and sincere in my search. I am not interested in this type of relationship because of the end results that it will bring to me. I can buy a door mat at WalMart, and I was never much good with house plants. :) The destination in a TIH relationship is not nearly as appealing as the journey shared by the right two people. I am at a stage in my life where I am completely content with the man that I am and with my life the way that it is. I am looking for the other half of my heart, my soulmate and my last love in life. I'll either find her, or I won't. If not, then i will be content to live my life alone. But know one thing: I will not settle for less.

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PorschaStone24
 
 Age: 27
 Bartow, Florida