I think I fall into the full-on stereotype of a heterosexual female (a surprise even to me). I love to dress up: black mini skirt, fishnet stockings and high heels. I am attracted to Gentleman Doms; old fashioned, pick my entree and pull out my chair kinda man. Uniforms are a plus. I like romance in the bedroom and out. I do not think it takes spending big bucks to have a spectacular, glamorous evening. It is all in the mind for me. This is not a persona, on the other hand I am strong and a lot of people would describe me and having an aggressive, strong-willed personality with a very feminist view point. I love rope, handcuffs and hair pulling. I have seriously contemplated pulling over when I see a few squad cars and asking the guys if they wouldn't mind throwing me up against their car, spreading my legs and cuffing me. I like tough guys who take control....but I guess I already said I'm a sub. I have been "in the scene" for about three years. I prefer someone that is into the protocol of BDSM, maybe I could describe that as traditional, or a purist? Hopefully you know what I mean. I have had only one Dom. I also tried a trainer but that was short lived. I would probably do best with a highly experienced Dom who also likes to live within the traditional protocols. I think of myself as 24/7 - although god knows there are 1,000 definitions for that. I do not want to go and do a scene, nor play. My Dom will be someone I have a serious relationship with. I only want one man. I will take a non-Dom boyfriend over a Dom who is not into exclusivity. If I don't worship you in "real" life, I can't worship you in the bedroom.