Its 3 in the morning. Sleep evades Me. If I do sleep, there are no dreams. What does this all mean? A Dominate person does not have doubts about what is going on around Him. This perplexes Me. I work hard to achieve My goals and keep what is Mine. I command respect in all My doings. I am the Master of all My world.

Yet, I have an emptiness where My heart and soul should be. This feeling is not one I am readily willing to admit exists. Yet, it is there. I must ponder this and see why it is. Hmmm, many thoughts pass through My mind. As many as the winds of time blow through the ages. Let Me grab one and see what it holds.

Ahh, what do We have here? Is the reason for My emptiness due to the fact that I question the reality of a all Supreme Being? And what does this question foretell about My mortality? I suppose that A/anyone who loses something T/they hold dear to T/their heart, is bound to have these type of feelings. My reaction is to cut out My heart and lock it away. No heart and therefore no emotions. No emotions equal total control. Or does it? Without a heart to feel there of course would not be a soul. And without a soul, there can be no Supreme Being that pervades all.

Yet, there are those that profess to know for a fact that there is a Supreme Being. And when asked, T/they say that Y/you have to believe and have faith. Is believing and having faith in something the same a knowing for a fact? Hmmm, I don't think so! LOL, funny some of the crap O/one thinks about at 3 in the morning. It is all a joke, and it is all on U/us.

you kneel; head bowed waitng with shallow breath,

The first touch of My hand upon your cool skin,

The warmth of it, like fire burning into your soul,

Eyes closed, a shiver shakes your very being.

The first touch of silk bindings, gently kiss your skin,

So soft upon you, yet so tight around you,

Drawn tighter and tighter, limbs bound behind you,

The feel of My lips brush along your flesh.

The sound of chain and buckles fill the night,

The smell of leather and oil rise toward your face,

The gleam of steal and polished wood shine in the dim light,

The feeling of wholeness envades your mortal soul.

Bound tight, so safe and secure,

All Mine to have, all yours to give,

Sweet anticipation fills the air,

Need growing with each passing moment.

Feel the air move, long before the first strike,

The first sweet pain upon your pale flesh,

A soft moan escapes your lips, a tear upon your cheek,

Body now ablaze with passion and desire.

Pale skin now turns a darker shade of pink,

The imprint of the lash now quickly appears,

Body racked with need at every stroke,

All you seek is just one little more.

Is a Dominant Daddy/Master more likely to inflect pain and suffering upon His submissive little girl/slave, if He has been a subject to like treatment? A question to ponder as We seek to bind Our subs/slaves unto Us. If We are true Masters of Our lives, should We then be Masters over Our emotions and actions? Or do We just let Our desire for revenge and total power destroy all We touch?

  Are We to palliate and aggravate the offenses of Our subordinates when they trespass upon the rules We have laid down.  Or is it more productive to judge with candor, admonish with love and reprehend with justice?  With the rights of being a Superior comes responsibilities. Not only to be Doms/Masters but to be teachers, mentors, and guides as well as lovers.  We can be evil tyrants or benevolent Lords. The choice is Ours and Ours alone.

This Daddy hopes that E/everyone is having a wonderful holiday season.  May it be a blessed one, full of happiness and joy.  Hope Santa brought all the good little girls and boys what they asked for.  I am sure you were all very good this year. 

As an ex-military person and attained the rank of a higher enlisted man.  I have learned that to give orders without any thoughts as to what my desired outcome would be.  Just might produce the the opposite effect.  My life in the military was a great learning experience.  While working in the engineering field while I was enlisted, the blending of the two, produced what I am today and believe in.  Order and logic thought are the foundations of the framework of what peace and happiness should be. 

Everything in life is a learning experience, or at least should be.  The desire to learn is ingrained into all of us.  No one is born a Master/Dom, or sub/slave.  These things have to be taught and absorbed into the making of who we are.  There is no greater pleasure than to see the light in a persons eyes as they grasp the concept of what you are teaching them. As we go through life we learn many things and at times forget what we have been taught.  So, at times it is necessary to reeducate ourselves.  We have to keep an open mind and not be so vain as to close ourselves off from all the experiences life has to offer.  Life is our best teacher.  

Just a few thoughts on the way things should be.  Getting someone to submit to your will and keeping them that way.  Which is easier?  Brute force or gentle persuasion?  The use of brute force is the simplest form of Dominance, but yet effective as it is, it can lack imagination, and as such, can it be long lasting?  Yes, at times the use of force is the only thing that can get ones point across.  And must be used to do so.  But, if used unwisely, can lead to the resentment of it and of the ones using force.

As for gentle persuasion, the use of mental probing and prodding is needed.  More thought has to go into process of getting someone to submit to you.  The goal of gentle persuasion is not only submission, but to get those under you to want to stay there and adore you for it.  Yet, there too, can be a flaw, being too gentle can lead those under you to believe you are too weak to remain in a position of power and begin to question ones authority.

Whether you agree with this or not, is not the point of it.  It is a thought process.  Something to think about.  An equal balance of punishment and reward is the most effective means of getting others to submit to you and want to stay that way.  As in all things in life, a balance in judgment and to assume authority wisely is the most lasting form of Dominance there is.  Stern yet fair approach to life is indeed the wisest.