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I am a single, straight, monogamous-only, experienced Dominant Man that is here looking for a honest and truly submissive woman that is capable of living happily within a committed, monogamous Owner-property relationship.

I am looking for a woman that has previously lived happily within a 24-7 TPE relationship and knows without question that is the only way for her to live. I am not interested in being anyones introduction into this type of life and love style.

I need a highly compatible woman to enjoy the world with, where the power exchange is the basis and foundation of everything that we have.

In October of 2015 I relocated from the suburbs of Philadelphia Pennsylvania to the greater New York City area to accept a job. Now I am living and working in Manhattan and it has been a long overdue move and attempt to build a life in NYC.

I am hopeful that I can find a woman that eagerly and gratefully achieves fulfillment through servitude and enslavement to complement the fulfillment that I achieve receiving her submission and surrender. I desire to guide, control and shape her into being the most cherished and valued that I have ever had the good fortune to own. For me a relationship without such a dynamic is devoid of the passionate ownership that I require at a very fundamental, primal and raw level.

Among my absolutely favorite words in life are Mine, property and possession. I also love the corresponding responses of yes Master, please Master as well as Yours.

I am not interested in being a negative in anyones life or wasting anyones time so be respectful and clear of the following straight-forward requirements that I have

- Zero interest in any woman that has an existing relationship (Ds Ms andor vanilla) with someone else. This includes married women, a woman that lives with a vanilla boyfriend, someone that is longing for an ex or someone that they wished they belonged to.

- I am mentally, emotionally and physically available and I require the same. I do not do chaos or drama and I have zero interest in highly volatile people. I have absolutely no room in my life for someone that would love you one minute and hate you the next.

- I have zero interest in swinging, sharing or polygamy or polyamory. Monogamous only. I am a possessive man that would thoroughly enjoy a woman that felt the same passion about her Master.

- I am straight and only interested in a female slave. Not interested in men, switches or Dominants of either sex.

- Only interested in building and maintaining an Owner-property power exchange based relationships. I have tons of vanilla interests and happily integrate into all sorts of normal activities but the basis of this particular relationship needs to be special beyond words and firmly rooted in a mutually happy power exchange.

- I have zero interest in long distance, weekend only or online-only arrangements. If you would be okay with long distance or endless phone calls or texts beyond a reasonable period of time to establish a solid trust before meeting in a safe, public environment we simply would not be compatible.

- I do not use alcohol or tobacco, do not use any drugs or gamble. I can easily tolerate some reasonable alcohol use and I have been 420 friendly (within reason) in the past but I am not interested in being involved with anyone that smokes tobacco or has any alcohol, tobacco or drug addictions.

- I would be thrilled to own a woman that has actual lifestyle experience where she lived daily as her Masters possession in the past but in the past I have accepted those that have not so I might be willing to consider someone that can properly articulate and daily demonstrate that they are highly compatible with me.

- I believe that perfection is a myth and the obsession with it to be destructive.

- High degrees of compatibility, communication, dedication and the willingness to put forth the daily effort necessary to mutually contribute to a successful lifestyle relationship is my ideal.

In all aspects of my life I am strict, controlling and often intentionally overwhelming but I believe that I am completely reasonable in all goals that I wish to achieve and I gladly work towards achieving them.

I seek high degrees of mutual compatibility that can lead to a serious and committed lifestyle-based relationship where I find and keep her as my prized and collared possession.

I would never accept submission to enable a woman to hide from the rest of the world because I believe this lifestyle is not about running from life but is a place to build a life. I strive daily to achieve and maintain peace, calm, mutual respect and happiness far away from the turmoil that comes from trying to live by other peoples standards.

Some things that I explicitly have to offer

- I have happily and successfully lived within very reasonable Master-slave Owner-property variants of 24-7 power exchange relationships for over 30 years total in the past. I am completely dedicated to living this way throughout the rest of My life.

- Safety, sanity and overall well being within a real life relationship. I do NOT do well with not having real life interaction.

- The stability and consistency provided by a 25 year career as a computer professional with an income that enables the lifestyle that I live.

- Seeing a woman flourish and succeed both as a person and as my property is one of My primary aphrodisiacs.

- I absolutely love to travel, enjoy all sorts of museums, aquariums, movies, theater, amusement parks and similar activities.

- I have a wide variety of kinks and sensation-sensualization interests (most listed here) and what I believe are a good set of my own personal hard limits (also listed here) and strong overall morals.

I am looking for someone that appreciates, understands, desires and needs to experience the following things on a daily basis

- taught, trained, molded, owned
- guidance, support, devotion, protection
- physical, psychological, emotional, domestic, sexual
- compatibility, connection, communication, chemistry
- disciplined, controlled, overpowered, taken, possessed
- obedience, servitude, submission, surrender, commitment
- intelligence, passion, responsibility, honesty, loyalty, respect
- bdsm, long term, monogamous, relationship, total power exchange

If what I have said so far is understandable and meaningful to you, please continue reading. If it is not there is absolutely no reason to contact me.

If you are not willing to exchange non-nude photographs to potentially establish an initial physical attraction and then move to phone-skype-facetime-video chat to voice verify and then visually verify then please dont bother getting in touch. It is my experience that those unwilling to do so are invariably not what they claim and I do not want to disrespectfully waste anyones time.

I am here looking for a woman that is sincerely interested in a long-term, eventual live-together, monogamous lifestyle dynamic based relationship.

This is about SO MUCH MORE than simply sex and kink!
While I am admittedly an aggressive, possessive and experienced Dominant Man that not only knows how to and absolutely loves to take control of His slave and thoroughly enjoy her, I know that the deep connection between two people is absolutely crucial... and that even more time and effort must be spent between a submissives ears and within her heart than is spent between her legs.
ayeisha
 
 Age: 27
 Lexington, Kentucky