"When a sub sends a tribute my way, and doesn't expect anything from me, I appreciate it. I love it when they give and give, and tell me it's because that's what a beautiful Goddess like me deserves. It thrills me, it makes me smile, I enjoy it and feel good. I tend to reward their good behavior, usually by giving them my attention, enjoying their kinks with them, or just generally having some fun with them (like playing dress up with a sissy, getting them to try on their cute outfits for me and dance to pop music). I feel that their show of devotion and worship has earned them some of my time. Simply put, it makes me like them more.
When someone sends a tribute with an expectation that I will do something that they want, then that is just a payment for a service. I like to get paid, but it's not something that I would consider a "gift." If a sub attempts to control me with their tributes in some way, or use the fact that they have spent money on me to get away with bad behavior, I don't enjoy it at all. If you want to pay for stuff that's not really submission or service.
If you're going to serve me you'll just have to do it the way I want, and get what I feel you deserve in return. If you tribute out of worship, and don't expect anything in return, then I'll feel like you deserve more."
p.s. Thank u DevineL for such profound words
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