Hi im a single DOM who is looking for a sub to train in all aspects of the lifestyle but she will not be just a sub in the bedroom but will be used as a sub 24/7 I have over 25yrs in the lifestyle and would want the sub to feel safe with me as I will want her to feel as controlled as possible when she is with me and when she is away the things I have tried in the past is the use of chloroform and breath control to make the sub feel as helpless as possible but it would only after the sub feels safe and trusts me also I like other bdsm stuff so there should not be a problem anything you want you know just ask