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I HOPE EVERYONE REMEMBERS TO PLAY SAFE AND NEVER FORGET SSC... SAFE SANE CONSCENTUAL..



RELOCATING TO FRISCO TEXAS Dog Catcher is not into male anything. I am only seeking a WOMAN WHO WAS BORN FEMALE This is not a lifestyle for me, its life. Life is lived 247, thus, there is a balance between what we do and the vanilla world.



Before I go any further, yes I am black, and if you have issues speaking with a Black Alpha male, please be WOMAN enough to put it on your profile. Not all conversations lead to ownership, an attempt to own nor an attempt to acquire. It would definitely save a lot of time if you would put on your profile that you are not interested in anyone outside of your race. It does not make you a racist, it just means that you have your preference. Now, back to our regularly scheduled profile.



Now for the back story. Ive been in the lifestyle for approx 25 years with 20 of those years, real time, up close and personal experience. I have owned my share of subs and slaves rt and Im not into the virtualcyber owning. Ill leave that realm to those who dont or cant do real time. Although my preferences are varied when I find the petsubslavebaby girl who shares a mutual interest in moving forward, the negotiation process begins. Nothing with me is set in stone, which is why we call what we do in our relationships a dynamic. It is ever evolving into what fits us.



The list on the side contains information concerning the different dynamics that weve chosen to be involved with. Some are likes, loves, cant do without, ect. In essence, its a smorgasbord or a buffet if you will, of things that hold our interest.Not everyone is going to like everything but the option to pick and choose is there.



So, with that said, feel free to either drop me a line or reply to an email that you received from me and well talk. Youd be surprised at what you may learn from a simple conversation.



For those who have made it this far into my profile, congrats.. Youve understood that the first paragraph speaks metaphorically.. ..



I got this next part from a Dom on here by the name surfdude. He calls it the Acid Test for the male and female subs when it comes to scoping out the fake Dominants on this site. (HNG Horny Net Geeks)

and the section that follows the acid test comes from starlitelady.. The Acid Test!Test 1 When in doubt, throw it out! Dont waste your time with people that make you feel uncomfortable. Even if the guy was a real Dom, if his personality makes you feel uncomfortable, hes not going to be fun to play with.Test 2 Youd better call me Sir! is the mating call of a HNG or control freak. Real Doms dont have to ask for titles, we earn them. Most real Doms will say things like Please, call me Mike...Test 3 I want you to take my collar before you play with me. This is another common demand of fakes, most often made by control freaks. They have to isolate you from other people and their advice, and sometimes a little ole cyber-collar is just the thing! Cyber-collars are worth less than the leather required to make one.Test 4 If you get an Instant Message that says something like On your knees you slave, slut, bitch, whore, etc. This person is an HNG. Use some common sense here. Why waste time with somebody thats not even polite? Theres a time and a place for these endearing terms, and it isnt online!Test 5 I dont have to answer that question! or Its not proper etiquette for you to ask a Master that. These are examples of some the dangerous lies that control freaks and snerts use. This is the Acid test I personally think is the most important! A Dom had better be ready to at least try and answer every question you have, and honestly at that! Its literally your ass thats on the line! Never forget this!Test 6 Its my way or the highway! or words to that effect, are the mating cry of the common control freak. Doms can have limits too, but its your limits that count FIRST. Dont let any would-be Dom tell you differently. Dont let any of the wannabe subs tell you differently either. Where Male Domfem sub play is concerned, its always ladys choice!Test 7 Dont bother with online collars. Dont make decisions about a prospective partner based on his online play style. Its a very simple test if you think about it Would a real-life Dominant waste much time on cyber sex and cyber domination? Please take my word for it The answer is no. Forget it, once youve done the real thing, cyber is just too damn dull.Test 8 Ask your prospect if hes ever made any mistakes during a scene. If he says no, run for your life! If he says, very rarely, at least be suspicious. Everyone makes mistakes, even if they are experienced and skilled. Sometimes submissives have limits they dont even know about, and even the most careful and skilled Dom in the world will trip over these occasionally. Remember, according to our good friends of the Christian faith, the last perfect guy to walk this planet got nailed to a tree for his trouble. So expect competence, but not miracles.Test 9 Im a bank president, captain of industry, combat photographer, self-made millionaire... yadda yadda yadda. Wouldnt it be nice to meet a rich Dom too? Sure it would! But use some common sense. How many captains of industry have hours to spend in an AOL chat room? Also, think about this personality profile If this super successful, always-in-control person is really into BDSM, hes likely a submissive! Worse yet, it could very likely mean he is a control freak. I have met a lot of submissives that fit this ambitious profile, but not one Dom yet!Test 10 Im 33 years old, and Ive been a Master for 15 years. Gimme a break! What are the odds? When you ask about a Doms level of experience (and its a good idea to do so) remember to do the math as well. 18-year-old boys dont care about the intricacies of BDSM they want to get laid. Trust me on this one Ladies, I was an 18-year-old boy once! I personally believe that people do become what they are (be it gay, straight, Dom or sub) very early in life, but it takes maturity and training to be a Master. What are the odds a person became a Master when they were still using Clearasil?Test 11 Ask for references! Especially if he claims to be very experienced. Talk to the references on the phone. Lots of HNGs have female screen-names set up to act as references for them! I notice that a lot of newbies seem to have trouble with this concept. Which is understandable since in the vanilla world its considered rude to talk to a guys ex-girlfriend. However, in the BDSM scene its the opposite experienced Dominants should accept and accommodate this kind of request gladly.Test 12 I have three real-life collared slaves right now, but you cant talk to them. OK, when you consider the ratio and all, this sounds possible. What makes this an acid test failed (and failed miserably at that) is the last part. I have met couples (and even triads) that really were looking for an extra person to add to the mix. This is not uncommon at all in the scene. But these couples were looking together. If a Dom has anyone already collared to them, you probably ought to talk to her first!Test 13 I dont need safewords. Well of course he doesnt! If he said this hes likely a snert and therefore hes never really been in a scene! Of course he might be a predator too, and then he wouldnt need safewords either. Need I say more?Test 14 My slaves trust me to set their limits for them. If you hear a Dom say this its most likely because these slaves only exist in his mind. Or worse still, his slave is simply the victim of spousal abuse. Even so-called TPE (Total Power Exchange) and other sorts of 247 (i.e. full time) BDSM relationships should involve careful and thorough negotiation.Test 15 Im married, my wife cant know about us If I have to explain this one to you, youve got problems. I have play

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11/3/2015 10:27:23 PM
it's good to know that in 2015 racism is still alive and kicking as high as it did 200 years ago..

8/25/2015 9:31:46 PM
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Mine An Erotic Novel
Author Scarlett Baker

Our time together goes by far too quickly, days stolen out of schedules that don’t seem to sync frequently enough or that we don’t discuss. How did my body so quickly become attuned to yours, so quickly responsive to your desires and commands? Now, I have only to think of you and heat runs through my mind and sets my body on fire as if whispered commands are left by you before you’re gone from me. When you left the last time there wasn’t any part of my body that wasn’t aching from your attention, sore and stretched from use, yet I would have called you back, begged you to stay offered more. Every day I want to say to you, “Say yes, ask for more”. I don’t; I leave it in your hands without a word.

Staring out into the morning, it is still night. The shutters are letting me watch as the sky fades from dark to light. I know I should start the day; you aren’t here to hold me back from my normal routine, yet I am reluctant to rise. It has been weeks since we were last together; my mind searches for the memories and finds them, in dreams. Stretching my arms up above my head I feel the cold of the chains you have left. The handcuffs dangling from them remind me of our last night together, and I am flooded with want, every nerve ending in my body on fire and screaming for touch, any touch. I hear my own voice whimper with need as I roll to my back and my legs splay open as if with a mind of their own, pushed by the pulsing demand of my throbbing.

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2/28/2015 2:08:50 PM
I find it simply amazing how many use the block feature when it's really not necessary.. when an initial message is sent.. specifically if it's basically vanilla requesting a conversation.. what is so difficult about responding with.. thank you but i'm not interested.. makes me wonder if there are really that many rednecks on this site or is it that they are fakes and flakes.. has common courtesy been tossed out of the window and been replace by stupidity or ignorance? this definitely ranks up there with the message  "deleted unread". subs and slaves constantly complain about how they are approached.. then wonder why.. could it be because of the way you react/respond when you are approached? just a thought

2/10/2015 8:16:23 AM
Ok.. Texas is a big ass country but come on.. it's not 1500 miles across..

12/12/2014 7:48:01 PM
Finally relocating to the DFW area in January.. can't wait

10/29/2014 9:25:15 PM
Time for another entry.. it's amazing how quickly things change.. the conversation was basically innocent.. nothing demanding on either part.. very polite on both parts and ongoing for about an hour.. it lasted until i requested a photo so that i could put a face with the text.. then silence.. i thought nothing of it so the next day i sent a greeting.. and got no reply.. 2 days later i sent another greeting.. and again.. no reply.. so when i asked what happened... the reply i received was simply two words.. "not interested".. let the kiddie games begin.. so many children stuck in adult bodies.. which brings the question.. was i really speaking with a female or was it a male.. were they real or fake.. and the answer is a very simple one.. it doesn't matter if it was male or female.. it was definitely fake.. if they were real i would have either had the red pajamas or the green pajamas.. red pajamas would have been sending a pic.. green pajamas would have been a message stating "i'm not comfortable at this point in time time with sharing a pic" either would have been acceptable.. but to terminate what appeared to be a pleasant conversation for no apparent reason other than the "oh shit, i've been caught" leads one to believe that there really should be a screening process in place to at least verify that the individual is who they claim to be.. male/female.. sub.. slave.. dom.. master..

9/16/2014 5:05:35 PM
Today's entry concerns a profile which i came across and could only shake my head.. it reads as follows..

Looking for open minded women or couples.

I do require Tribute from men.

I will not relocate. You will relocate to me.

I am very open minded and I do lean to the dark/taboo side of the Lifestyle.

The operative word in this profile is TRIBUTE..

what we do is how we live and although there are weekend warriors.. those who are only kinksters.. and live it when they can.. be very wary of those who request "TRIBUTES".. it's just another way of saying you will pay me for my time.. with that.. consider hitting the local red light district.. and really get more bang for your buck.. just a thought


9/15/2014 2:57:22 AM
TODAY'S ENTRY CONCERNS BLANK PROFILES WITHOUT PICTURES.. THIS IS THE RESPONSE I SENT TO SOMEONE WHO IN THE SECOND EMAIL ASK TO ME TO CHAT WITH THEM ON YAHOO.. THEY SAID THAT THEY WOULD EXCHANGE PICS WITH ME ON YAHOO.. OK.. FOR THOSE IN THE CHEAP SEATS I'LL SPEAK A LITTLE LOUDER.. DO YOU REALLY THINK THAT I'M GOING TO DOWNLOAD A FILE FROM SOMEONE I DON'T KNOW? DO YOU REALLY THINK I'M GOING TO OPENLY INVITE YOU INTO MY SYSTEM.. INTO MY NETWORK.. WITH A FILE THAT IS SUPPOSED TO BE A PIC BUT IN REALITY JUST A TROJAN? PUT ON YOUR THINKING CAPS PEOPLE.. IF THEY CAN'T POST A PIC ON THE SITE..AND THEY CAN'T ATTACH ONE TO THEIR EMAIL AND SEND IT THROUGH THE SITE.. THEN THERE IS SOMETHING VERY WRONG WITH THIS.. JUST SAYIN.. OH.. AND BY THE WAY.. THERE WAS NEVER A REPLY NOR WAS THERE A PIC POSTED AND THE PROFILE NEVER GOT FILLED OUT.. LOL

and just so that we're clear and there are no misunderstandings.. i dont use yahoo.. skype or any other messenger with those i don't know.. and before i use any of those chat programs.. there is a disclaimer.. i am a programmer.. i've been involved with computers and networks since the 70's and i was around before there was a microsoft.. anyone attempting to access my computer using any ports that are open will usually have to buy a new computer without getting any information from my system that they may be seeking.. i'm a geeks geek.. its what i do for a living.. so with that said.. if you still want to talk.. we'll talk here.. and when i feel comfortable.. i'll ask you to open your yahoo..

TDC

7/24/2013 11:38:34 AM

It's been awhile since I've taken the time to post my thoughts, and, although this may not be the best time, I feel it necessary. That evil and sadist part of me has begun to show its head once more. Unfortunately, as always, I've found that nice guys always get it in the end. On the one hand I'm thinking that this is a good time to step away. On the other hand, what's the purpose of whips and floggers if we don't use them?


4/23/2013 6:52:30 PM
The following question was posted in a submissives journal and while i can understand where she's coming from with the question.. i can also understand where the dom/master's mindset is when attempting to verify who they are speaking with... so with that .. here's the response i posted...

QUESTION:

 

I DO NOT cam... is it really necessary to prove validity? Isnt voice verification and real time meeting sufficient?

 Does refusal to cam present a red flag??  Or is cam just wank fodder??

 

RESPONSE:

 

hi.. how are you tonight? i guess i may be one of the few who actually take time to not only read the profiles but also take the time to read the journal entries as well.. to answer the questions in your journal.. yes.. cams do make a difference when it comes to validity.. for those who have concerns as to verifying that the person with which they are conversing with actually looks like the individual in the picture.. usually it begins and ends with a face to face on cam prior to meeting.. if there is more than a request for a face shot.. ie.. nudity.. then i would call it b.s. however.. to make sure that the cam to cam is live and not a pre-recorded video.. you may be asked to do something that you consider strange or weird.. but its only to verify that it is a live cam to cam and not a video stream that's being played back..
i hope this answers that question without making me sound like an ass or sarcastic..

TDC


3/9/2013 7:00:36 PM

reposted with permission from texaschyme.. extremely profound...

ARE YOU WORTH TWENTY DOLLARS?

 A well-known speaker started off his seminar holding up a $20.00 bill. In the room of 200, he asked, "Who would like this $20 bill?" Hands started going up. He said, "I am going to give this $20 to one of you but first, let me do this."

 He proceeded to crumple up the $20 dollar bill. He then asked, "Who still wants it...?" Still the hands were up in the air. "Well," he replied, "What if I do this?" And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe. He picked it up, now crumpled and dirty. "Now, who still wants it?" Still the hands went into the air.

 "My friends, we have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth $20. Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way. We may feel as though we are worthless. But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value.

 Dirty or clean, crumpled or finely creased, you are still priceless to those who DO LOVE you. The worth of our lives comes not in what we do or who we know, but by WHO WE ARE.

-author unknown


3/9/2013 9:58:54 AM

this has been an interesting ride.. for those of you who actually read my journal entries know that what you read here has actually happened.. well.. once again things have proven not to be what they've seemed.. you can't have your cake and eat it too.. not when you attempt to build the relationship on lies and deceit.. with what we do in the life. you're either 100% honest or its 100% bullshit.. there is no middle ground.. and when you start with the lies.. it does truly shatter lives..


1/29/2013 2:30:42 PM

it would really be nice.. if those of you prefer not to speak with those who are outside of your race would put it on your profile... or at least make it known when you respond... it doesn't make you racist.. it just indicates that you have a personal preference


12/24/2012 4:18:02 AM

ok.. here we go.. the latest in a very long line of game players and fakes.. i've often asked myself why? why play the game? why not be honest about who you are and what you are.. this user contacted me and the only thing that will be removed is her screen name.. her profile reads as follows:

I am a divorced woman who has lived her vanilla life long enough.  I need a strong and caring Master who is willing and able to control me  24/7 for life.  I  would like nothing more than to never have to be on a bdsm site again. If you can not cam immediately to prove your sincerity I can only wish you the best.

and here is the conversation.. i would love feedback on this one...

 Recent Message History:

SUBMISSIVE on 12/24/12 at 5:22 AM:

good morning sir  merry christmas too you

THEDOGCATCHER on 12/24/12 at 5:23 AM:

 good morning heather.. thank you and merry christmas to you.. how are you this morning?

SUBMISSIVE on 12/24/12 at 5:24 AM:

boredactuallychecking my mail i desire a blk master realtime

THEDOGCATCHER on 12/24/12 at 5:25 AM:

i see.. well.. after reading your profile.. i take it that you have a cam and ready to use it to verify and validate that i'm as real as you are?

SUBMISSIVE on 12/24/12 at 5:25 AM:

yes

THEDOGCATCHER on 12/24/12 at 5:26 AM:

what's your yahoo id?

 

User has blocked you, mail not sent


7/27/2012 9:13:31 PM

this is becoming fun. the more mail i read the more i'm inclined to add to my journal. well, lets try this on for size, don't ask a question or for information in your profile if you dont want any and everyone to respond to it. and yes... R.I.F.

R.I.F. = Reading Is Fundamental.


7/27/2012 12:06:31 PM

looks like today is the day for writing. for some strange reason it seems that folks would rather delete a msg unread, rather than a simple reply with not interested. rather rude when the msg sent is a simple greeting.


7/27/2012 11:43:46 AM

as i was browsing profiles today i ran across several that caught my attention. i like to chat with everyone so i don't specifically look at subs or slaves. as i flipped through the pics on the domme's profiles, i found that most have at least one pic of them with a strap-on and a man on his knees, so i began to wonder... is it true dominance that is being sought or is it penis envy? just a thought...


6/22/2012 11:33:09 PM

This is interesting but true, i got this from someone on cm who asked that all who are trying to share the knowledge put it on their page. It came from a Dom on here by the name surfdude. He calls it the Acid Test for the male and female subs when it comes to scoping out the fake Dominants on this site. (HNG = Horny Net Geeks)

The Acid Test!

Test #1: When in doubt, throw it out! Don't waste your time with people that make you feel uncomfortable. Even if the guy was a real Dom, if his personality makes you feel uncomfortable, he's not going to be fun to play with.

Test #2: "You'd better call me Sir!" is the mating call of a HNG or control freak. Real Doms don't have to ask for titles, we earn them. Most real Doms will say things like "Please, call me Mike..."

Test #3: "I want you to take my collar before you play with me." This is another common demand of fakes, most often made by control freaks. They have to isolate you from other people and their advice, and sometimes a little ole "cyber-collar" is just the thing! Cyber-collars are worth less than the leather required to make one.

Test #4: If you get an Instant Message that says something like "On your knees you [slave, slut, bitch, whore, etc.]" This person is an HNG. Use some common sense here. Why waste time with somebody that's not even polite? There's a time and a place for these endearing terms, and it isn't online!

Test #5: "I don't have to answer that question!" or "It's not proper etiquette for you to ask a Master that." These are examples of some the dangerous lies that control freaks and snerts use. This is the Acid test I personally think is the most important! A Dom had better be ready to at least try and answer every question you have, and honestly at that! It's literally your ass that's on the line! Never forget this!

Test #6: "It's my way or the highway!" or words to that effect, are the mating cry of the common control freak. Doms can have limits too, but it's your limits that count FIRST. Don't let any would-be "Dom" tell you differently. Don't let any of the wannabe subs tell you differently either. Where Male Dom/fem sub play is concerned, it's always lady's choice!

Test #7: Don't bother with online collars. Don't make decisions about a prospective partner based on his online play style. It's a very simple test if you think about it: Would a real-life Dominant waste much time on cyber sex and cyber domination? Please take my word for it; The answer is no. Forget it, once you've done the real thing, cyber is just too damn dull.

Test #8: Ask your prospect if he's ever made any mistakes during a scene. If he says "no," run for your life! If he says, "very rarely," at least be suspicious. Everyone makes mistakes, even if they are experienced and skilled. Sometimes submissives have limits they don't even know about, and even the most careful and skilled Dom in the world will trip over these occasionally. Remember, according to our good friends of the Christian faith, the last perfect guy to walk this planet got nailed to a tree for his trouble. So expect competence, but not miracles.

Test #9: "I'm a [bank president, captain of industry, combat photographer, self-made millionaire... yadda yadda yadda.]" Wouldn't it be nice to meet a rich Dom too? Sure it would! But use some common sense. How many captains of industry have hours to spend in an AOL chat room? Also, think about this personality profile; If this super successful, always-in-control person is really into BDSM, he's likely a submissive! Worse yet, it could very likely mean he is a control freak. I have met a lot of submissives that fit this ambitious profile, but not one Dom yet!

Test #10: "I'm 33 years old, and I've been a Master for 15 years." Gimme a break! What are the odds? When you ask about a Dom's level of experience (and it's a good idea to do so) remember to do the math as well. 18-year-old boys don't care about the intricacies of BDSM; they want to get laid. Trust me on this one Ladies, I was an 18-year-old boy once! I personally believe that people do become what they are (be it gay, straight, Dom or sub) very early in life, but it takes maturity and training to be a Master. What are the odds a person became a Master when they were still using Clearasil?

Test #11: Ask for references! Especially if he claims to be "very experienced." Talk to the references on the phone. Lots of HNGs have female screen-names set up to act as "references" for them! I notice that a lot of newbies seem to have trouble with this concept. Which is understandable since in the vanilla world it's considered rude to talk to a guy's ex-girlfriend. However, in the BDSM scene it's the opposite; experienced Dominants should accept and accommodate this kind of request gladly.

Test #12: "I have three real-life collared slaves right now, but you can't talk to them." OK, when you consider the ratio and all, this sounds possible. What makes this an acid test failed (and failed miserably at that) is the last part. I have met couples (and even triads) that really were looking for an extra person to add to the mix. This is not uncommon at all in the scene. But these couples were looking together. If a "Dom" has anyone already collared to them, you probably ought to talk to her first!

Test #13: "I don't need safewords." Well of course he doesn't! If he said this he's likely a snert and therefore he's never really been in a scene! Of course he might be a predator too, and then he wouldn't need safewords either. Need I say more?

Test #14: "My slaves trust me to set their limits for them." If you hear a "Dom" say this it's most likely because these slaves only exist in his mind. Or worse still, his "slave" is simply the victim of spousal abuse. Even so-called TPE (Total Power Exchange) and other sorts of 24/7 (i.e. full time) BDSM relationships should involve careful and thorough negotiation.

Test #15: "I'm married, my wife can't know about us" If I have to explain this one to you, you've got problems. I have played with many married submissives in my time, but only with the express permission (and more often than not, participation) of their husbands. Safe BDSM requires complete honesty. You can't build a good scene on lies. There are plenty of people that will be willing to tell you differently; but please note, they will all turn out to be adulterers (and hence, liars) themselves.

Test #16: Real Masters/Mistress's are not required to negotiate. That's a bullshit line if one was ever told. In the beginning, everything is open for not only discussion but negotiation. If you come across this one, run like hell.

Test #17:Insert your own Acid Test here: You will learn much from your mistakes and missteps. If you form an online contact with a "Dom" that falls through, analyze why it fell through. Don't make the same mistakes twice if you can help it.


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