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Hetero Male Dominant, 42,  Bronx, NY, New York
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The ghost who walks. Doesn't walk alone.












 Dominant Male

 Bronx, NY 

 New York

 5' 10"

 220 lbs



 African Descent



Actively Seeking:

Submissive female

 Lives For:


 Rollerblading (Expert)


 1950s Lifestyle

 Baseball (Expert)

 Football (Expert)

 Street Hockey (Expert)


 Amusement Parks


 Art Collecting

 Intellectual Discourse



 Lifestyle BDSM

 New Age Music





 Fine Dining

 Musical Theater








 Liberal Politics

 Alternative Music


 Blue Grass


 Country Music

 Eighties Music

 Electronica / EDM

 EMO Music

 Folk Music


 Heavy Metal Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Industrial Music


 New Wave

 Nineties Music

 Pop Music

 Punk Rock Music


 Rock Music

 Seventies Music

 Auto Racing









 Classical Music

 Opera Music


 Show Tunes

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Journal Entries:
10/24/2015 11:33:59 PM
When did doing house work mean you where a domestic slave and not just a good girlfriend? If I can provide a life where you are afforded the finer things in life and can be a stay at home girlfriend or wife. BTW, the same goes if the roles were reversed.

11/17/2014 1:26:26 PM
A smart person re and experiences to learn how to become a better person moving forward. A shame to have to watch someone circle the drain.

11/17/2014 1:21:41 PM
R.I.P. K.M. you will be missed.

11/16/2014 7:40:18 PM
Nothing wrong with taking a step back and going in a new direction. Especially is the old route Ida not conducive to what you seek.

8/21/2014 11:33:32 PM
That a minute to think,for that matter take two. Look at the whole picture. What's good now may be bad in the long run and vice versa.

8/21/2014 6:38:35 PM
Being considerate is a waste of time.

8/20/2014 4:05:11 AM
Living with no regrets. The future is bright.

8/19/2014 9:52:42 AM
You find happiness when you not looking for it. Don't hesitate enjoy it

1/29/2014 1:09:40 AM
Look in at yourself before you speak outward toward another.

1/20/2014 11:10:10 AM
Sometimes what you want and what needs to be done are two different things. The want has failed. Now let's try the need. I hope all goes well

1/11/2014 10:49:53 PM

There are times where things get unbearable.  Then there's times where its fantastic. Gold on and enjoy the ride is always fun through the gods and bad.





1/9/2014 7:34:30 AM

It hurts when you can't be there to take care of the one you love. Things are difficult and in time things 

Will be ok

1/9/2014 6:30:14 AM

Things are always better in hindsight.  I am on a emotional rocket the highs and lows are wrecking havoc with my emotional state. 


Maybe there was a reason why. Never assume when you can ask. 

1/8/2014 7:45:22 PM

Growth day #1. Fantastic start feeling good, this is the beginning of the new me.

1/8/2014 3:36:36 PM

It takes less time to do a thing right. Than to explain why you did it wrong.  


Someone  just sent it to me. That's my new motto.

1/8/2014 2:47:58 PM

Is never to late to change. Never give up. 

Get your mind right then smile. Cause life will greet you with the person of your dreams. 

Just understand its about what you do not what you say.

1/8/2014 10:33:02 AM

The journey is long. But the person I will be at the end will be better than I am now

1/7/2014 9:32:22 AM

Willing to move mountains to have it all. I made a pledge to begin my journey last night. 


Now just waiting for the call.



12/26/2013 6:32:11 AM

What ever happened to personal responsibility.  


Stop behaving like other people are the reason for why you fail in life.


Secondly, stop acting like you waiting for the Knight to come riding in to save you from your situation.Ydf

6/25/2012 8:12:05 PM

You learn something new everyday


2/5/2012 8:23:30 PM

G-men champs. nothing more need to be said

1/26/2012 9:16:02 PM

At some point everyone looks back at mistakes or missed opportunities and wonders what IF.


Live everyday like its your last, Enjoy yourself its really not that serious.


12/15/2011 4:58:11 AM

There is always an excuse for why things are the way they are. 


If you can give a reason why something is wrong then you know how to fix it.





3/25/2011 10:29:48 PM

The road through life is a challenging one.


But always better if your have a passenger with you.

3/19/2011 4:00:01 AM

Realize what you got

cause it can disappear in the blink of a eye

Then you will wonder why you didn't appreciate it when you had it

2/24/2011 7:02:47 AM

Look, either you are or your not. having very interesting conversations in the rooms and come to realize most just want kinky sex and dont understand what the lifestyle is all about.


Stop carrying baggage around with you.

12/14/2010 1:20:11 PM
When you think you have it bad, take a min to think about how good you really have it.

Stop wishing for everything your life to be good and appreciate what you have already.

Cause if you online and reading this then you cant have it that bad now can you?

9/1/2010 6:26:03 PM
Look at your journal.  Now look at mine.  Now back at yours.  Now back to mine.  Sadly, your isn't mine.  But if you stopped writing about other things and made this your journal, yours could be like mine.  Look down, back up.  Where are you?  You're on Collarme reading the journal your journal could be like!  Anything is possible when your Collarme journal looks like this one.   _____________________________

5/18/2010 12:25:30 AM
Question....If you change yourself to the point of being what someone else wants you to be....why were they attracted to you in the first place?

3/25/2010 10:41:20 PM
Never second guess a decision chances are you made the right one the first time.

2/19/2010 10:51:31 PM
sometimes even a DOM must take a step back to move two steps forward

11/25/2009 3:09:26 AM
life has its perks, now lets enjoy it.  

11/12/2009 11:25:55 PM

11/11/2009 1:36:08 AM


11/1/2009 8:52:25 AM
why is it that when you meet someone and they have been hurt by another. you have to be the one to pick up the pieces.

Would it not be wise to put yourself back together before venturing out to try again?

10/6/2009 3:13:50 PM
Well, its clear that somethings wrong nowadays ok lets see if we can make this clear

IF you have no idea what the lifestyles about the internet and chat rooms can help. Go there before labeling yourself a submissive or slave. Before you waste anyone's time and effort

9/29/2009 10:31:32 PM
A good Master owns his property

A great Master inspires his slave

9/4/2009 5:09:09 PM
You are abused cause you choose to let it happen. Stop whining about poor you. If you choose better you would not have a issue now would you

5/9/2009 2:58:44 PM
well party hard and enjoy yourself, come on who's going to blame you 

4/10/2009 12:05:01 PM
I thought i was so close, Then i found out it was just my imagination running wild

11/15/2008 6:12:09 AM
Why is it that alot of people on here are not happy with there self, that they have to lie about themselves? 

10/27/2008 8:22:45 AM
""submissives need to be told what to do, slaves need to do what they are told"" 

10/6/2008 2:58:38 AM
The book has been written and closed as i begin my journey from iraq back to the states. Everythings in place to have the time of my life

10/5/2008 2:00:00 AM
never try to change the world just change what you believe you can iin my case THAT WOULD BE THE WORLD

9/12/2008 5:01:27 PM
there is a rule that everyone has  to follow with that being said

whos the one to make said rule

7/18/2008 11:24:43 PM
Life is what You make of it even if your a sub/slave. you can make the best choice you possiblely can life always seems to throw a curve in what you plan but know within yourself that you did the right thing and all will work itself out

5/30/2008 7:35:23 AM
When did the lifestyle become so polluted with waste and vermin. Its just as hard to find a true sub/slave as it is for a sub or slave to find a true Dom/Master

3/17/2008 5:22:36 PM
been a long time since a entry has been written i don't believe i have to write much with but a stare you will feel me deep within your soul my stare will make you not want to make eye contact but it also give you that feeling of being safe and protected.

But the question is which stare/look will you get

6/16/2007 3:11:28 AM
wonder why would people go through the trouble of being fake when if they just look they can find others that are just like them

6/6/2007 3:45:41 PM
the willingness to submit is a treasured thing never take for granted what you think is your right

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