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Sexy, Mature, BBW dominant seeking playthings/ partners. Must be atleast 21 years of age, with
Bisexual Female Dominant, 49,  Chesapeake, Virginia
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hellishdomme DaveDesire MzticStormz livewire2525 MsJuneinva
WickedWolff Lucian1 DocDannyNorfolk PrincessMia Beach360
mscles4bbw RyuuzaSable

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 Dominant Female



 5' 10"



 African Descent



Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Sub/Sub Couples

A Poly Household

Sexy, Mature, BBW dominant seeking playthings/ partners. Must be atleast 21 years of age, with a willingness to learn, explore and have lots of consensual fun. NO dormats or do me queens/kings need apply. An interest, understanding and love of all things "Blakeian" a definite plus. Bonus points if you know what" Blakeian" is or who it refers to. Seeking  a  Nathanal of my very own or does he only exist in fiction?
Perhaps what I seek will never be found,honesty;sincerity, the abilty to share thoughts with or without written words. I seek an intelligent, witty, self assured submissive with a sense of  humor, a sense of self and a sense of adventure.

The submissive I seek is local(atleast in the same state as I or a contiguous one).Clarification: Virginia, NC, MD or DC(not a state but fucking close to me). I will be a part of your life, not your entire life, no on likes a one dimensional individual, that would be too boring(and I don't do boring). Be as fascinating as you want me to be. Life is too short, time is too fleetingly. Honor is forever.


I have tried being subtle which has never been my strong suit, my SO and I  are in an open relationship . There are no secrets therefore if you must cheat on your spouse, cheat somewhere else with someone else.


"Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer, but wish we didn't." Erica Jong

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Journal Entries:
5/26/2012 10:24:20 AM

Black Rose XXV. So I've registered for BR at Attending with my sister Stormz. Amazed that the cost of parking is more than the cost of gas for the trip from Virginia Beach to DC.

Shall I choose a submissive(if only for the weekend)..decisions decision.


4/22/2012 12:28:05 PM



A promise, pledge or obligation, engagement or involvement. The state of being committed


Thank you

4/2/2012 5:31:58 PM

This past weekend I went to visit my deceased, ex-husbands for submissive.  She and I have remained friends through some rough family issues. She has had multiple strokes and is currently in a cautious state of health with multiple medical issues, confusion and  a serious case of echolalia. She believes that her dominant and I are still married (we divorced in 2004) we still live in Chesterfield Virginia( he is died two years ago next week and I live in Virginia Beach), that my daughter is  5(she will be 18 in the fall) and the year is somewhere between 1999 and 2001. She’s not there anymore—all of the experiences of the past ten years are gone.  When I visited her this weekend end, I walked in on a conversation she was having with Tommy (her deceased dominant). I asked her what she was planning she told me she was leaving soon and that Tommy had come to take her in his pick-up (redneck even after death). Her husband is making plans to take her home—I ‘m not sure she’s going make it back home. I’m more sure she wouldn’t like her current medical/neurological status. I’m thrilled that she only remembers better ,happier times. She wants to go out to WickedHaven –ROPES’ private dungeon in Colonial Hgts and to visit our kinky friends in Richmond. But I’m grieving the loss of my friend Maggie. She has become so much more debilitated since this last round of hospitalizations.  When Stormz and I visited her after CK 2012 she recognized us, welcomed us and had that devilish twinkle in her eye. Now there’s little I recognize. Worse she didn’t recognize me for more than a few minutes at a time.  I had to keep re-orienting   her to me. As I left she continued her conversations and plans to go with Tommy.  I refuse to orient her to time or place. She’s happier where she is.

2/8/2012 6:37:05 PM

If you are attending colonial Kink weekend in March please make sure you say hello. I'll definitely be around.



2/8/2012 6:31:34 PM

I've decided every female dominant wants her very own Nathanial but what we seem to keep atrtracting is Dick(Richard). The search continues.

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