I dont I just dont
I dont do the whole online / by text role play ... talking in graphic detail about what I am going to do to you
If thats what you want move along
Ill discuss in person parameters and limits and likes and dislkies
but as for specifics .. I dont do it
I dont like telegraphing
I go with the flow
I may have an idea but it develops througout the scene
how the heck can you pre plan a scene ? its never been something I have done .. how do you know how either of you will be feeling at that precise moment .. or you just do it whatever even if it doesnt feel right?
oh yes we will meet and ill put 427 needles in you.. after 15 you go clammy start going into shock ...ah well we agreed 427 .. so ...
nar thats not for me
I dont play the first time I have said hello to someone ... its rare I meet for one to one play
I am not a source of your online / text titilation or fantasy
I am a doer not a talker
I am not a super chatty person by text I dont like it .. Im dyslexic its hard work for me ...apart from anything else I am generally working and need my hands for that
get me on the phone though I can talk for hours
im not into essay texts.. they are hard for me to read... generally my replies are short one or 2 words... because I DONT LIKE TEXTING .. and anyway text was developed for short messages not for writing essays...anyone remember when texts were limited to about 50 charachters ?
maybe I am too old school I beileve in talking ... what a telephone was invented for...
talking you can convey with tone wether you are joking or serious or happy or sad .... texting people take things out of context misunderstandings happen all too easily... (oh no I forgot a smiley face so now they are pissed at you) especially if you are not excellent with words ... vocabulary and the use of woords are very important to me .. I guess its part of my brain wiring I use words literally ... I I say it dont usually.. that doesnt mean I wont.. if I say I wont it means I wont ... simple the 2 are not intercahangable to me .. too many people read into words what they want to read not what is actually written
yet again after weeks of "talking to someone" via text it all goes pete tong beacuse they read into thing what arent said and what they think is said
~I really dont like this digital age yes it has its benefits but it also has very much its downiides .... the instant gratification world contines .. and I continue to get more reclusive and dis illusioned