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Me? I am Membership Director of Desert Dominion, Tucsons BDSM organization. We are always welcoming new members. Please contact me if you have questions about our club. I am happy to help.

5/8/2009 2:02:40 PM
“Many of us spend our whole lives running from feeling with the mistaken belief that you cannot bear the pain. But you have already borne the pain. What you have not done is feel all you are beyond the pain.” ~ Saint Bartholomew
8/17/2008 4:34:36 PM

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Behind Closed Doors.
September 20, 2008  in Tucson, Arizona. All welcome! After is a play party at Desert Dominion. See DD website.

Workshops include:

Breaking Through Personal Barriers - Stan Alexander

Duct Tape Hoods and Mitts; A Hands on Workshop - Karen Yew

Foundations of Shibari - Stan Alexander

Getting to Where You Want to Be - Jared Keen

Impact Play - Whipmaster Bob Clark

The Joys of Service - Linda "BootPig" Hall

Knife Play - Master Dennis

Unconventional Communication
for Unconventional Relationships
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Julian Wolf






6/1/2008 11:18:46 PM

Upcoming this week at Desert Dominion. 

Weds, June 4: We have the Munch at Cocos on Broadway. The perfect way to meet members in a social atmoshphere, learn more about the club and what we offer.

Friday, June 6: The Club Social. This event is for socializing with other members, touring the club, game playing or negotiating. Members can also bring their kinky or not to kinky wears to sell or trade.

We are having some good times!
More info @ desertdominion.org.

1/3/2008 7:49:26 PM
I am so thankful the holidays are over. I'm not normally a bah humbug, but it seems each year it becomes more difficult to get into the spirit. The events at Desert Dominion were fun. This coming weekend we are having a Primal play party. That is exactly what the doctor ordered. There will be fire and drumming and great energy to go along with our bdsm and/or spiritual journies. There are alot of people who find nothing spiritual about bdsm. I am not one of them. To me, my service to my owner, the physical activies I engage in, are all part of a central Calling and I am not about to ignore it. The fact that it's fun is icing on the universal cake. : )
10/21/2007 2:59:07 PM

Yowza! Fun times this weekend. After a relaxing Friday evening, Saturday we went to the play party. Master decided it would be cool if we had a co-topping scene and .... he was right. Imagine that. It is pretty incredible to me to have so much happening to my body at once. Some of it was so intense that I thought I was going to lose my mind and exactly when it reached that point, the sensations subsided to a level that I wanted to go on and on and on...  Today I am sore and still experiencing a sort of eurphoria, my rear is bloodied and welted, my breasts are spotted with bruises and my mind...well my mind is exactly where I want it to be. I feel revived and focused and alive. You dont have to be 'special' or 'popular' or in a relationship to experience such wonders, I just want people to know that. You only have to be true to yourself and willing to open yourself to the opportunities that arise. Be smart, but be willing : )

9/24/2007 6:36:16 AM

A few new experiences for me. I attended LLC Tucson and learned what the Leadership Conference is all about. We had wonderful speakers and excellent topics. One that caught my interest quickly is SM and the Law. Fascinating stuff going on there and I am anxious to learn more. It was an all day event so it did make for a long day. 

 I have this love/hate relationship going on -- with a "thing". Party time this past weekend too and Master surprised me with a fantastic scene involving cages (MmMM!), very little warm-up (gulp!) and the dragonstail (Eeeks!)  It was a different experience with the same toy. This time it kept biting me! If I didnt think Master would notice, I would tie a cement block to it's tip and throw it in the nearest lake. *grins* NOooo because I love it too, right?

9/14/2007 7:00:58 AM
I have noticed over the years that it is difficult for some people to grasp the concept that, in my mind, BDSM and sex are not one in the same. It's perfectly fine with me if sex is your means to an end, so why can't it be alright with them if BDSM means something else to me? These physical acts do not arouse me in a sexual way - unless that is the intent to begin with - and it doesn't just come from the physical activity, it comes from sensual energy and the mysterious bond between people. oh well, i could go on and on but a long blog is a boring blog. :)~
9/12/2007 7:36:13 AM

OoOOlala, I love that dragonstail. More fun at the club last weekend. Master had a duel scene, two bottoms, literally, to focus all his attention on -- and boy! did he.

Some of you will understand, some of you will scoff, but the marks that are left after a good scene are just as fulfilling as the play itself. I can't help but take a peek in the mirror from time to time. Master was flying high afterwards too and that makes it all the more enjoyable for me. Sometimes I feel that the Top does alllllll the work, even though the intense energy does a circle of perpetual motion, so to see and know that he dug it as much as I did is awesome.

9/5/2007 7:11:58 AM

So someone contacted me and asked me about my usage of "universe" in my last post. "What does that mean? Are you Wiccan or something?" No. And it doesnt mean I am going to make a voodoo doll either -- though that does sound like fun. What it means to me is by whatever powers there be, they guide me if I open myself to them fully; am receptive to whatever is suppose to happen at that very moment in time. Sometimes the same concept is called "living in the now." An interesting concept if you think about it. We all do things with intention and we would like to see a certain outcome. If it doesn't work out the way we wanted it to or predicted it would, then we become disappointed and sometimes jaded, vowing never to do THAT again. What if, instead, you accepted it and have faith that there was a real reason it came off the way it did and the reason will reveal itself in time. Anyway, that is what I meant by "Universe". Nothing hokey pokey about it. : )

8/20/2007 10:32:56 PM
So I decided to begin a journal here.  I am not exactly sure why since one of my slave rituals is to write in another online diary every single morning. Oh well, can never write too much? *cough* A little about me - I am an owned slave, happily serving a wonderful man I met many years ago online. Yes, online, thats right. It's possible, so all of you die hard Collarme folk, don't give up. 

This last Saturday we attended a play party at DD. It was a little quiet that night but sometimes that makes it quaint and allows for familiarity whereas a larger, crowded party can be more chaos to me. I wonder if its the social anxiety disorder. heh  Anyway, my master did some impact play, a wonderful scene using floggers, paddles, the dragonstail and various other 'yumyumPOWouchWOW!" implements. I was so relaxed and in my own world by the time he was finished that I felt like I had cheated him of something somehow. It turned out it was all good and my reaction was accepted and exactly what it was suppose to be at that given time, according to the universe.
Lupine
 
 Age: 19
 Long Beach, California