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Hello everyone, I'm new to this site and to the lifestyle. However I have always recognized that the average everyday vanilla relationship wasn't satisfying for me and am recently out of a 12year long relationship.
I have never been in a M/s or D/s relationship besides the occasional online encounters. I have recently had the pleasure of exploring some play time with a couple with whom I am currently friends with, which just reconfirmed what I had always known I would enjoy.
The occasional play time is always fun although the after affect of feeling even more alone is not so fun, and at this stage of my life what I really seek is something lasting. I'm not used to being alone and I'm also not into sleeping with just anyone nor with one after the other. I want to meet someone with like interests and who hopes to find someone for a long term relationship.
I am bi-sexual, and do have curiosity in the poly type lifestyle but also realize that relationships such as those can be touchy and take a very solid foundation and lots of communication. I like many things, far to many to mention here but one of my biggest fetishes is being spanked. Probably easier to just mention what I will not engage in which would be anything that belongs in the bathroom can stay there, No children, No animals, and no needle or blood play. Pretty much all else I either like, am curious about, or would be open to explore.
I do still have two minor children one is nearly 17 however the other is only 8 years old and so as any good parent, any decisions I make would be based on the well being of my child (the 8yr old as the other will soon be off on his own). I'm not opposed, if I met and grew close with someone, in relocating. This may be more information than needed however I'm tired of meeting people and having to spill all of this after the fact so I'm putting it out there now as I'm strictly straight forward and hope for the same.
I don't expect the world but at this point I could do without the bullshit games I've endured in the past. I just want honesty, communication which goes hand in hand with someone who listens, and to be truly happy. Life is to short to continue wasting it on years of failed partnerships and unhappiness and should be lived to the fullest which is what I intend to do with the remainder of mine.
- Oh and I might add that while I am extremely submissive in the bedroom, and love a dominate male who is secure in who and what he is. I am also intelligent, outspoken about my needs and hope that they would be considered equally as valued as my partners. Because weather Dom or Sub we are all important and deserve to be heard and respected. ~and called a dirty little slut~ at the appropriate time. lol
~Synful01
**Add on** Please if all you have to offer is foul context and rude advances upon people, you don't even know then don't bother with a message. It's NOT what I'm looking for and I will not respond. Also do not ask me to web-cam chat with you it ain't going to happen and if it ever did it would be because we had ongoing communication first!!!!! Thank you and have a pleasant day/night.
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