I am a 30 year old man who has just recently returned to the UK. I have set up camp in Essex and i am fairly new to the area.
Well about myself... I am white, single, living alone with no children. I have recently decided to settle down back in the UK after a working abroad for a small period . Now I have returned I have the job / mortgage and other trappings / responsibilties of everyday life.

I enjoy the usual sports (Manchester Utd fan for my sins), Cinema (Anything and everything) and drinking / Eating out / socialising. I also love the theatre, live music (mainly 60s / 70s / 80s / Rock. (Love the Rolling Stones- hence the profile name). I like to find a few moments to read every once and a while (especially any fiction regarding ancient cultures and civisations)I am also in the process of starting up a small business which is keeping me amused.

BDSM wise...I am seeking to make a few friends around the South East and London and would hope to some day meet the female submissive of my dreams (Well one can hope!)

I realised a good few years ago that i needed BDSM in my life. I found that a normal vanilla relationship could lack that certain spark. BDSM in general gives me the chance to really connect in an intimate and erotic way with a submissive far beyond the norm. I adore the fact that each others deepest and darkest desires can be shared, explored and enjoyed in a way that vanilla couples cannot understand.

My interests in BDSM stem far and wide. My biggest kick is gained from the reactions of a submissive. It is the psychological, learning, nurturing process in discovering anothers kinks that really turns me on.

I enjoy anything involving rubber / leather fetish. Bondage - Rope work, gags, blindfolds,chastity devices. I am not the greatest fan of S/M but as mentioned above it would depend of a subs reaction.

In a submissive... Age, size, wealth family commitments are not major issues i would have any cause for concern over. Much more important I seek someone who is honest , genuine and has a overwelming obssession with being submissive of course! I would hope that they were single and hoping / looking for something meaningfull. Someone fairly local would be nice but my work takes me throughout the SE so it is not an overiding factor.

I simply seek someone who I could learn to adore, cherish and spank in a consensual kinky relationship...