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Symbiosis My philosophy
"Speak volumes in whispers".
The under currents run deeper in some people's souls than in others.
Mine run deep.
Why "Symbiosis" ?
Because that is how I see the true relationship between a Dominant/Master and a submissive/slave.
I seek the interaction between two separate identities in a singular pursuit. Both pursuing a common goal and working together in the quest to achieve it as one, for the benefit of both.
Having experienced many things in the world of BDSM I know what it is I am looking for in a person and in a relationship. More importantly, I now know what it is I do not want.
And yes, that is what I am looking for. A relationship. A relationship based on trust, honesty and respect from both and toward both.
Any fool can stand there like a small child and demand respect just because he believes it is his due. But there are those of Us that receive that respect given freely because of what We are.
I am looking for either a submissive or a slave, the distinction varies where ever the opinion comes from. I have My own.
In that person I look for a partner in Life, one that will think and strive for the benefit of both, one that will try and give their all to make things work and one that will desire nothing but the best for their partner and themselves knowing that this will bring contentment, happiness and security and in doing so strengthen the relationship.
And in that person I look for the elusive desire.
That desire to submit, the need to give and the lust to be used and even abused in the pursuit of satisfying another.
And in return that person, creature, object, possession, submissive, slave, lady, whore, slut and plaything will get from Me My all.
All I have to give in Life, in care, in thought, in security and in the dynamics of a D/s relationship.
On the subject of Me I will say this;
Very experienced
Passionate
Thoughtful
Caring
Hard working
Articulate
Young at heart
Patient
Strong willed
Creative
Intelligent
Self assured
Confident
Spontaneous
A realist
Sadistic
Compassionate
Thirty nine years old, tall, slim, fit, non drinker, smoker, self employed, solvent, considered to be reasonably handsome, blonde hair, blue eyes, all My own teeth, slightly eccentric, very English and sane (depending on your definition :) )
Three collars given. One revoked, one returned and one thrown away as if it were nothing.
Skilled artisan in wood, metal, leather and other craftsmanships.
Bondage furniture designer and creator, one of the original Nemesis II creators. ( It was the UK's largest permanent dungeon until prejudice closed it ), keen motorcyclist, spacious rented apartment in Vienna with partially completed dungeon, own business and a life outside of the BDSM scene.
My Life and My home are Mine and Mine alone, by which I mean that I can lead exactly the Lifestyle that I wish to and do not have any concerns as to who is visiting or who may know. i.e; Grandma, Auntie Doris, children, My boss, My knitting circle or the local priest.
I am fortunate enough that I can do just as I please, be it stepping out with a woman on a lead to go shopping or entertaining guests with My very own servant/table base/lamp holder/floor show. Any visitor to this place is highly respected and respectful of Me and therefore My way of Life.
It doesn't matter to Me that the neighbours think it strange that My partner opens doors for Me or wears a deep leather collar all the time. In fact I relish it and enjoy the complexities of playing with peoples heads in a very subtle manner.
And, yes, I do have a sense of humour. If laughter ensues part way through a session then I see that as a positive thing because it reflects on the closeness of the relationship. Of course, it would be My prerogative to punish for this but is that not the dynamic of a D/s, M/s relationship?
On the subject of what it is I seek I can only give a guideline because I cannot define a person that I have not yet met.
The person that ignites the very special flame of passion, desire and understanding.
Any level of experience and position considered and I am not looking for conventional perfection and beauty but a very real person.
As a guide only I am looking for;
Between the ages of 18 and 34.
Slim to medium build and reasonably fit.
Intelligent.
Articulate.
At least functional in English.
Height isn't an issue.
A non or conservative drinker.
A sensual/sexual character.
Someone with confidence in their sexuality.
Someone very broad minded and open to exploring and pushing their boundaries.
Someone fun and with a passionate character.
Someone creative, intelligent and inquisitive.
A compassionate and generous person.
An outrageous pervert.
A desire to be used and abused.
A need to please.
The kind who would purchase the four inch plug instead of the two inch because it would please Me that much more.
A lady in public and whatever I desire at home.
Someone that understands that vanilla is also a pleasant flavour.
And now, importantly, I am looking for someone that has warmth. Warmth in their heart and in their nature. Tired I am of "cold fish" who understand nothing of the importance of the human touch and the expression of feelings. Property you may become, objectified you may be but often I actually desire someone with humanity.
Except for the blessed and the lucky, Life is hard and we have to bow before it in order to proceed.
Bonuses are;
Bisexual.
Accented speech.
Brunettes.
Long hair.
Large breasts.
I need to add here that I do not believe in marriage, it is only a piece of paper designed by the lawyers and priests. Nor do I want children. We cannot care for the world we would bring them into so how can we qualify bringing them into it.
There are so many things not on the list of likes and loves so I will add a few here to see if they push your buttons as they do Mine.
(Talking of buttons, if you want to know who pushes Mine then look up Ashley Blue/Brooke Ballantyne. Damn!)
Breast bondage.
Mental bondage.
Anal sex.
Sexual torture.
Prolonged games and foreplay.
Objectification.
Rough sex.
Breath play.
High heels.
Dressing to please.
Rituals.
Behaviour modification.
Video and photography.
Personal Service.
There are more but for now I will end with the one fetish that I truly have;
Bringing to and watching a womans face as she finally has the orgasm that she has been denied for so long.
There is truly nothing finer than watching the agony and the ecstasy wash over a womans face as she rides the wave of pleasure and offers it in supplication.
There is no more beautiful thing than to hear her ask, "May I cum for You?"
I am sure that some will laugh at Me for that.
Let them laugh.
Let them find their pleasures elsewhere, in other ways.
I can sit here and smile because at least I know My own truth. Unlike many.
And that is Me.
Make of it what you will.
If you desire to know more then all you have to do is ask, politely. And if you do find something about Me that makes you think we could be compatable then we can always talk further via email, chat or phone.
I am very serious, I am very real and I am very patient, I can wait until the 'one' comes along because work keeps Me busy and it is getting busier :)
Am I a fluffy Dom? No, furthermore I have a strong desire to explore the limits of My sadism. I intend on exploring the world of the extreme such as the delights found on the renowned websites. Extreme bondage and sexual torture have now found their home in My desires as has the confidence to pursue their pleasures. So if that sparks your interest then...
I wish Y/you all a safe, sane and consensual life of pervery and fetish.
John.
"Speak volumes in whispers".
symbiosis.profile at gmail
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Is this the way things are going ?
I was just wondering, when will someone PLEASE invent an online gun.
That way we can at least dispose of some of the idiots !
Sorry, rant over....
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You just never know what you are going to find along the way...
Amidst the stones and detrius strewn upon the path of life there are a few gems.
Keep your eyes and mind open, you will see so much more...
J.G. 09.
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Why is it that all the instruments searching for intelligent life are pointed away from the Earth ?
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For someone special...
Attention
The Multi State College of Africa will be enrolling for the 09/10 Semester soon. Applicants must submit their course requirements no later than whenever they wish...
Courses this year include:
Professional Submission.
Professional Slavery.
Photo Manipulation.
Age/Experience Mis-calculation
Photo Theft.
Dodgy Profile Writing.
Poor Spelling.
Weight Confusion.
Locational Mis-Direction.
Scamming.
Fleecing.
Not Telling The Whole Truth.
And, as a special request,
How To Believe Everyone Is Stupid.
Any subjects not covered by the curriculum may be made up as per requirements by all and sundry, their brother, distant relations, family dog or some bloke in his shed.
No original proof of I.D will be accepted upon enrollment.
If you take this too seriously I recommend you have your sense of humour checked by a professional...
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Is it Me or are the profiles from certain African states getting more and more entertaining?
Oh, and congratulations to the two fakes that wasted My time and energy (in pursuit of what I have no idea).
Gee! Thanks for that. I'm sure you feel so much better about your own sad little lives...
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Hey look... A real person !!!
The light lasts longer within the eve,
and summer begins to creep.
How I long to lay Me down with you,
in sunlight dappled sleep.
J.G. 23.03.09
copyright.
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Sad Sad Sad ...
It's been a busy last 24 hours for someone...
Approximately 8 brand new fake European profiles in the space of one day.
All with only one image.
All with approx 9 points on the "Likes/loves" list.
All with approx 5 lines of sexually specific blurb.
All in the standard font.
Some even emigrated to America since this morning!
And we all bitch about a certain African state being a problem!
How can anyone have so little life?
Any moderators out there prepared to look into it? No! Didn't think so.
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So many fakes...
How is it that people have the time for this sad arsed pursuit?
Do they not realise how pathetic it makes them out to be?
Why put energy into something unreal when life itself consumes so much of it anyway...
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Looking through the mail...
One pimp from an African state.
Two fakes.
One financial request.
Two not very interested ladies.
Several interesting conversations.
And bugger Me, a real life GENUINE appreciation from a nice lady submissive on My profile and journal entries!!!
Thank you kindly, one and all for the entertainment, the conversation and especially the compliment.
Who said life isn't exciting eh!
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A Rant.
The more I read on here the more deeply I worry. If what so many submissives/slaves say is true about what is said and expected of them by the so called doms (yes, you get an abbreviation and a lower case) then fate help the rest of us!
If it weren't so sad it would be laughable.
I'm looking because unfortunately that's the way life goes sometimes.
How about you all?
Perhaps it is because you are a complete waste of time as human beings!
Think about it and while you do so why don't you sod off and clear the field for the rest of Us who live in reality. 
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There are actually other "real" people on here !
Not many though . . .
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