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SydneyDom81

I am a 28 year old male, sadistic in nature Dom, I am a very laid back kind of person, A lover of Art and all music and like to play a little from time to time myself. What am I looking for hummm thats a good question, I think im just trying to see what all is out there. Been in the BDSM life style off and on for 9 years, so if there is something you want to know feel free to ask.I've been told that I play on the "hard" side of the spectrum, however I don't believe that is where all the fun lies. The fun is finding that point where my sub goes from ouch to mmm to poof subspace.My interests are dark ane varied. You shouldn't ask unless you really want to know. First & formost, I am a sadist. I get off on others pain. I love to inflict that pain in a number of nasty little ways. Have I piqued your interest?. I Live The Lifestyle When I Can. I am into Total Power Exchange. I like to watch MY submissives and slaves squirm. I leave marks, so best not to bother ME if you are married or need to hide anything. My limits are almost negligible. There is no taboo too weird...no fetish too extreme. I prefer the edge...the point where most people go "OH HELL NO". I am looking only for the most extreme masochistic slaves. You can expect to be debased, dehumanized, degraded, humiliated, objectified.
I love to whip, flog, tease, clamp, bite, slap, paddle, and all those other fun things that make a Sadist tick! A good masochist is MY biggest turn on. I am also turned on by humiliation, degredation, and corporal punishment.

I seek something very rare...an eventual 24/7 TPE type "relationship" (for lack of a better term) with someone who craves being tortured as much as they crave oxygen. Yes, there are many who claim that is what they want. Yet sadly, most of those are either not real, or they want to "play" or "scene", or aren't really deep down in need of the total and absolute control of a Master. I am not looking for a nice loving relationship. I am not one to spank your ass gently then kiss you and hold you and tell you how much I love you. Think back many years to actual slavery. The slave had no rights. The slave had no say in anything. The slave followed the wishes and commands of it's Owner. The slave's sole purpose for being alive was to better it's Masters' life in some fashion. The Master did not love the slave. The Master did punish the slave, with the punishment correlating to the infraction, either mild or severe. The slave was property. I seek someone who desires that type of setting. I am very fair, but firm. Demanding and strict. Dominant by nature...not something I have to think about. I naturally take charge. I seek one that desires the comfort that comes from handing over the reins of her life to a Master that will use her to his advantage. The security to know that it's life will be taken care of, not because I love it, but because it is in my best interest to take care of my property. One who desires to meet my demands and challenges. One who receives fulfillment from knowing it pleased it's Master. One who wants to be a slave, in the truest, purest sense of the word. Bear in mind I am a sadist...I do enjoy inflicting pain in various degrees of severity, not necessarily as punishment, but also for my entertainment. My Ideal Person: Must be submissive above all...not someone who thinks they can learn to be submissive...it must be in your blood Online training is MY biggest turn off. If I can't hear you scream, or taste your tears with MY own lips, then I am not getting anything out of it.
I am always interested in conversing with others about their experiences, good and bad. I feel you can never know everything or do everything and can learn from everyone whether novice or Master, sub or Dom, masochist or Sadist, observer or participant.

Patience is the key to happiness.

UPDATE I: IF YOU KNOW YOU HAVE NO INTENTION OF EVER DOING WHAT YOU TALK ABOUT, PLEASE DON'T WASTE MY TIME WITH EMPTY WORDS AND PHONY CONVERSATION...I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR WISHFUL THINKERS...THANK YOU KINDLY UPDATE II: I AM NOT INTO "SCENING" I AM INTO LIFESTYLE BDSM...A 24/7 LIVING OUT OF MY BELIEFS...THIS IS NOT ALL ABOUT DUNGEONS AND LEATHER AND CYBER...THIS IS AN ATTITUDE, A WAY OF LIFE, THAT CANNOT AND WILL NOT BE TURNED OFF AT ANY TIME. I AM NOT VANILLA...I AM AN EXTREMELY DOMINANT SADIST...ALL THE TIME. UPDATE III: A PERSONAL PET PEEVE OF MINE...FOR THOSE THINKING ABOUT CONTACTING ME...A SLAVE HAS NO LIMITS OTHER THAN WHAT IT'S MASTER SETS FORTH. IN MY OPINION, A SLAVE IS NO LONGER IT'S OWN PERSON, THEREBY NEGATING ANY PERSONAL PREFERENCES, LIKES, OR DISLIKES. A SLAVE MUST COME TO THE REALIZATION THAT ONCE IT DECIDES THAT IT IS A SLAVE, AND IT PROCLAIMS ITSELF AS A SLAVE, IT NO LONGER HAS ANY LIMITS WHATSOEVER OTHER THAN WHAT IT'S OWNER/MASTER SETS FORTH. A SLAVE IS PROPERTY...I WILL DO WITH MY PROPERTY AS I WANT.


8/5/2009 1:53:45 AM
I am really tired of these games "as soon as you start getting to know someone they fucking vanish on you why are their so many players around here and so less real people.? its fucking annoying the mind games that women start playing with you and they tend to tell you that they are slave/sub and things like that and when you tend to be really honest with them they disappear why cant real people come my way. FAKE FAKE FAKE fuck off if you are serious About a Sadistic Dom who is young . and really serious about this lifestyle and looking for a real relationship. then send me message..Peace out. 
5/12/2009 10:17:41 PM
Its really hard and goes on and on for the true person to take your heart soul mind body and summit to you. But its a journey where love commitment caring are very important to complete 2 people who belong together i am still searching for that special person who i will cherish and love her from the bottom of my heart and wholeheartly forever..
9/10/2008 11:21:57 PM

When you feel something deep inside you which is mission and you try to find it and its hard when darkness is upon your and you try to find and seek the soul mate which will help you grow and have the shoulder when you need it the most when you feel all aone and the world is against you you try to find the one person that you feel would make you smile and make you happy.

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 Age: 27
 Rochester, New York