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Hetero Male Master, 57,  SF Bay Area, California
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Am I the Dom for you?? Am I what you are looking for? Patient yet strong, spontaneous yet in control, funny yet can be serious, bright and thoughtful and very open minded. A Dom that knows the mental aspect of Ds is far more important than the physical, not giving pain for pains sake, but part of our erotic play.Other things, professional, intense, creative, fun loving, quick witted, ironic and sarcastic sense of humor, cooks, loves wine, loves building stuff.

Do you like a feeling of being owned and cherished?

Do you crave to please and love hearing the words You have please me after I have enjoyed my pleasures with you?

Do you enjoy finding new ways to express your submissive desires?

Do you enjoy sexual exploration?

If the answer to many or all of these are yes, then we should get along quite well..

I am a polite person and expect the same for anyone who corresponds with me. After the power exchanged is agreed on, then my dominant side is expressed.I am looking to play primarily with women, either single or part of a couple. 5 years ago I got active in the swingers community and have had helped many married ladies explore their submissive side. I am also very well versed in cuckold relationships.

Someone asked me recently if was a switch. I am not. She thought that since I am open switch women that I was sometimes was submissive. I am not. I openly welcome switch women to want to be submissive with me.

While I have played around, I am VERY open to finding a submissive and entering into a long term relationship with her. I would like a deep emotional and physical connection and have someone that I enjoy spending every day with, is that you?











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 Dominant Male

 SF Bay Area 


 6' 0"

 200 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Sub/Sub Couples

Femdom Couples


 Fine Dining (Expert)


 Anal Play (Expert)



 Breast Play



 Hair Pulling

 Spanking (Expert)


 Intellectual Discourse (Expert)


 Flea Markets


 Garage Sales




 Mental Bondage

 Orgasm Denial

 Liberal Politics

 Curious About:

 Fire Play

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Journal Entries:
8/3/2014 4:40:38 PM
Saw this and thought I would pass it on.

6 Steps for a submissive to get to a safe play session

1) Find someone on the internet, exchange emails, if they are creepy, give them a polite no thank you.


2) If after a month or 10 emails you are still not creeped out, move to yahoo email (if you don't have one, get one, they are free and if things don't go well you just delete it).

if you are not interested in going further, give them a polite no thank you.


3) if you are not creeped out yet, get a phone number and call them If you are not interested in going further, give them a polite no thank you.


4) If that goes well, maybe call them a few more times to see if they seem safe. If you are not interested in going further, give them a polite no thank you.


5) If you are ready, meet them in person, in a public place (coffee or a glass of wine work well). No expectations for play, just meeting. if you are not interested in going further, give them a polite no thank you.


6) Meet them another time or two. If you are not comfortable with them by this point, if  give them a polite no thank you.


If you have gotten this far and they have honored your steps to meeting, they should be pretty safe.  If you decide to play, you can have a 'safe call', someone you call prior to being alone, letting them know where you will be and when to call the cops IF they don't hear from you. Let your playmate know that if at any time you want to call your safe person, you should be allowed to. When you are done playing, call your safe person letting them know you are ok.

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